I met this girl on a dating app and we texted for about a month. We have a lot in common and the chemistry felt pretty good, so I asked her out for coffee. She seemed really excited — dressed nicely, put on makeup, all that.But I got super nervous on the date and couldn’t really hold a proper conversation, even though she was trying to start topics or bring up stuff we had talked about before. After the date, I went home and totally forgot to follow up. I did text her at 3 a.m. saying I had fun, and she just replied the next morning with ‘If you had fun, then it’s good.’I tried asking her out again, but she didn’t reply. We didn’t talk for about five days because I thought she was ghosting me. When I asked her again, she said she was busy. I tried talking about other stuff (she still replied but not as engaging as before) and asked if she wanted to meet next week, but she ignored that.I really like her, but I feel like I messed things up. Should I try to fix it, or just move on?
>>34005127>I met this girl on a dating app
>>34005127It's likely over man. Maybe give it a few months but just move on. Women rarely ever give second chances.
>>34005147What should I do in few months?
>>34005127god i wish moids were actually complex like people. a moid being nervous instead of mad would be just <3
>>34006002What do you mean?
texting for a month is way too long lol. what is the point of that? just meet up in person after like a week maximum.just try again with her, explain that you were very nervous, and thats why you were weird. if she says she wants to see you again, great. if not, there are 2+ billion other fish in the sea.
>>34005127You dropped your spaghetti in front of the chef. >>"if you had fun, then it's good"Translation: "I had a bad time and now im trying to escape this conversation where you lie and pretend that date went fine."It's over.
>>34005127>But I got super nervous on the datebecause you treat women like they are better than you and that you are doing everything in your capability to please them. This never works. Supposed to be the opposite, retard. You fucked up.>I tried asking her out again, but she didn’t reply.girls decide if they are attracted to men and follow up. NOT YOU FAGGOT.>When I asked her again, she said she was busy.still did not learn it the first time bitchnigga>asked if she wanted to meet next week, but she ignored that.yeah maybe the third time might work? Girls are the ones asking guys out. They might not initiate the conversation, but they will give you hints she's open to being asked out. You seem to think just because you're interested in her, she is also interested in you. Nah.>Should I try to fix it, or just move on?real men focus on their life goals. Women are not life goals. They are just there for the ride or to help you achieve goals. If you learn to leave people who want no effort in remaining in your life, you would save so much time. Go get a roster of potential female suitors, but maybe you should just get men faggot
>>34005127You screwed up. It can happen to anyone. Learn from it and do better with the next girl
>>34005127> Putting yourself on a meat market that girls browse to pick men> Getting 1 date after 2 years swiping and 73 ghostings> The girl coming all prepared because she had 2 dates before and there's 1 date afterward with other men from the meat market > Being extremely nervous and anxious because this girl picked YOU in the meat market and you have to PERFORM now, else you won't have another chance in the next 6 months to PROVE your WORTH to a girl> Losing all your spaghettis because it is impossible to establish a genuine human connection when you are hell bent on PERFORMING and SHOWING VALUE (same reason people are shit in job interviews)> Missing all the cues from the interviewer (girl) because she is expecting a leveled interaction between 2 human being while you think yourself as a product from the meat market> NOOOOOOO you forgot to follow up you dumb idiot, you are now behind all the other products from the meat market!!!! Quick quick wake up at 3 am and send a canned message!!!! "ChatGPT what can I say to a girl I had a date with today?"> The girl answers with all the disdain you have for yourself> "Anons I don't get it, I am trying so hard to be chosen by a girl, what else can I improve about myself to finally be worthy to spread their divine legs?"
>>34005127lmao I wrote the greentext but didn't even see you texted for a month... After a MONTH of texting you got instantly deleted from her life while you are still begging for attention.Anon i'm laughing not directly at you but because you fit an archetype of clueless males that seem to be blind to the reality. You gotta get your shit together, change your mentality. Stop being a doormat. Come on I believe in you.
