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How can I cope with the fact that girls like picrel are simply beyond my possibilities? How can I deal with the frustation?
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>>34005274
You mean fat chicks?
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>>34005274
Literally just don't think about it and stay busy
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you can literally buy one of them
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>>34005274
Grow up? They aren't available to most men, not even the men who get with them will ever keep them. The ephemerality is the point. No woman will ever belong to you, and you shouldn't want them to.
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>>34005361
>No woman will ever belong to you, and you shouldn't want them to.

This is not only a cucked mindset, but it's also repulsive to decent women too. Women want to feel wanted. They want a man to claim them as his own, this makes them feel secure and desirable. By feigning this gay bitch-made weak attitude, you will actively repel marriage material women and only attract mentally ill crazies.

Read any marital vow, understand what "I take you as my bride ... To have and to hold ... From this day until death" etc implies. It implies the woman belongs to you, and you belong to her.

You should want the woman to belong to you, because the alternative is you don't really give a shit about her.
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>>34005456
Why should I care what those women want? Im 25, I have no access to "trad sundress" marriage material regardless of my actions. We're not in the same dating pool.

Also, showing no signs if real attachment to a woman is a sign of strength, stoicism and masculinity.
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>>34005505
>Why should I care what those women want?
Because you want them to care what you want. It's called reciprocation.

>Also, showing no signs if real attachment to a woman is a sign of strength, stoicism and masculinity.

It's not a sign of those. It's a sign of nothing, literally. Think of signs in the literal sense. Signs are meant to express outward information for outsiders to read. No one can read you if you show no signs of life, you become invisible mentally and emotionally. That is probably how and why not girl has even given you any notice, you live like a ghost out of some absurd sense of 'stoicism'.

If you want to talk about strength, stoicism, and masculinity, talk about actions. Because those things can only be demonstrated by actions. And if you are not making actions, you cannot call yourself any of those things. Thinking you are stoic is not an action. Thoughts are not actions.
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Jerk off your feelings for them. Women aren't the be-all, end-all.
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>>34005560
I sort of want to kill women not in like an incel way like "Stacy why did you reject me graargh" because I don't have any hang ups like that. I just think it would be very erotic
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Just play a game and get really good at it if you're unemployed. Then shit on people and talk a lot of shit. It's fun! Really, just do something you're passionate about. Imagine how boring a person is whose only passion is women. Cliché but there is really much more to life.
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>>34005456
pfffft yeah i want to date someone who actually likes me. thats why im going to die a virgin.
>>34005505
masculinity is a virus
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>>34005274
I really don't get the obsession. She's a vacant bimbo with big tits. They've got one of those in every brothel in Europe.
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>>34005274
I won't read how to get picrel threads because they are delusional. They aren't delusional for wanting a woman but for being hung up on a picture. Leave the basement and meet people.
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The same way you cope with knowing you're going to die and never live ever again
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>>34005505
>Also, showing no signs if real attachment to a woman is a sign of strength, stoicism and masculinity.

A reminder that stoicism was literally invented by a drug addict whose neglect and crappy attitude led to his wife feeling unappreciated and cheating on him. Marcus Aurelius' only example should be not to behave like he did if you want to have anything resembling good friendships and relationships. And if you still don't believe me, have a look at how many of those espousing the virtues of stoicism lead happy lives and aren't deep-down incredibly miserable and simply putting on a brave face.

Denying one's own feelings and impulses have literally never led to anything joyful. Even Buddha merely said that the search for enlightenment would allow one to achieve acceptance not that it would bring happiness.
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>>34005952
>pfffft yeah i want to date someone who actually likes me. thats why im going to die a virgin.

Right. And how can you tell when a man likes you? You can tell when he wants you, and only you. When it becomes clear he wants you to belong to him. Anything less than this means you will only date men who claim to want you but will only be interested in fucking you, nothing more.
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>>34005274
WE KNOW YOU ARE PLANNING TO RAPE U FUCKING MOID YOU ARENT FOOLING ANYONE
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>>34005274
I can get girls like this. I hope this helps
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>>34005274
Stop putting women on a pedestal and become someone who has fulfilling life that he can be proud of. Or keep posting here and let your self-defeating cycle stay as your permanent reality.
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>>34007521
moids hate women. moids will all cheat if they have the opportunity

>claim to want you but will only be interested in fucking you, nothing more.
moids are worse than this. they just want to get laid and inflict suffering
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>>34005274
dollmaxxing is a cope that's better than real foids



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