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If you lived in a house with a pair of parents who were abusive, sexually, although it never got "that bad," with your younger sibling, and there was a constant threat that they will do it again if you disobey or don't grovel before them, and you're worried about letting the gubmint know about it, for fear that things will get 10x worse, and you've told some family members about it, but they don't seem to be able to do much about it, what would you do? Yes I am a legal adult, no the sibling is not. But he or she is almost an adult.
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>>34007008
>what would you do?
Wait for sibling to be safe. Then you both cut off all ties with your parents.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mRueB1_cEA4
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Also
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SgxW9SfhB5U
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>>34007047
Yeah... the abuse has been going on for a very very long time, but it's not much longer until the poor lad/lass is an adult, when he or she can legally leave... I might just skip out and ask whether he/she wants to come along, which s/he will decline, out of fear. What a waste of life.
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>>34007047
Interesting video. Yes some similarities are accurate - ego and narcissism definitely. But the abuse has been going on for so long, it's hard to tease out who's to blame, how it started...

But I am pretty worried about trying to find a wife at this point, if I leave my parents... Few women want to marry a man like that.
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>>34007008
>abusive, sexually, although it never got "that bad,"
Explain
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>>34007565
Touching of genitals outside clothing. Displaying themselves naked in a plausibly-deniable "oh it's nothing, everyone does this" way. Other physically intimate behavior that is mildly sexual yet still plausibly deniable that "oh, everyone does this, you're overreacting." I looked up one thing that I witnessed, but don't have evidence of, and it's a Class ___ F 3 |_ 0 |\| y. But the kinds of things that I hear go on in the foster home are way worse, not to mention in the church in town where the mayor goes to pray every week. And I would adopt the poor kid, but they would most likely send their cronies after us for a long, long time... And the kid won't agree to it either, at least for the time being, out of fear...

I guess I just need to wait a few more years, and just give them the cold shoulder every day... Or just leave, and if the kid asks to come along with me, I'll let him/her.



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