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How do I get over the uncomfortable feeling of narcissistic injury? Someone slighted me by talking about money, telling me I didn't have any and insulting me while they called me broke. And I got very pissed off. I want to stop being so weak. I only ever feel insecure around other people, pisses me off how neurotic I can be. But when I'm alone I'm in a flow state. I have never had money growing up, I still don't have a job and when I did I blew it all on video games and bullshit like a retard. I feel very uncomfortable facing the fact that this is a weak point/chink in my armor and it infuriates me. I can't really stand it, how do I get over myself? I am NEVER usually this insecure, outwardly or inwardly. I'm emotionally weak but don't want to be weak overall anymore. I'm sick of feeling like this! I'm a man btw, I just like Lauryn Hill
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>>34007475
For stuff like this, the root is normally not being comfortable with who you are. Are you broke? If so, just admit it to yourself. I do it all the time, I tell boomers I'm living paycheck to paycheck, they get visibly uncomfortable over the fact that I've not denying it
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>>34007475
You took offence because of the truth in the statement, get your money up broke boy.

If you were rich you'd have laughed it off.
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>>34007829
Thing is, I was with money before and in abundance but I just lost it due to bad habits. I just don't want to take offence to things anymore, that was an extremely bad look. How do I chill out? lol



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