>be me>32>manlet and balding>ex royally cucked me>am in a year long slump>go out by myself>group of girls enter>one clocks me, approaches>clinks my glass, dances around me>I stand there like a mushroom and say nothing>she starts grinding on me and bumping her ass into mine>I angle towards her and say 'I'm not a fucking ape, you can reach your hand out and introduce yourself'>she leaves immediately>takes her friend group to rhe other side of the bar>pick up my spaghetti and leaveI haven't touched a girl in years ever since my ex cucked me and I don't know how to act around them anymore. Women give me anxiety and the ick and I just want the ground to swallow me each moment they're nearby.What do? I want to be the guy before the blackpill. Now I just hate women.
>>34008369Next time get drunk the second you enter the bar. Might help
>>34008390I'm drunk 24/7, I'm an alcoholic.
>>34008369Stop telling yourself shit like:>I don't know how to act around them anymore.You know, you just don’t act that way. The problem isn’t your lack of knowledge, it’s your state and behavior. Don’t be all angry going to the club, go to the woods or scream in a car first or something if you can’t be chill at will.
>>34008404I'm angry and sad from the moment I wake uo 'til I go to sleep.I'm a joyless, miserable shell of a human being. Even among friends and family I'm unusually quiet and have often been described as 'negative'. This is all after the ex. Before that I was the funny happy go lucky popular guy.
>>34008404>just stop having betrayal trauma xD
>>34008414Then there is probably nothing you can do except hopefully get lucky. The best bet is if you can completely let go of the anger or at least momentarily be chill but if you are stuck, then the only hope is luck and hope some girl is into the sad angry vibes.
>>34008369>spergs out when a girl is in to him>waaaaa i cant understand women>still thinking about being cucked by ex>mfw you're still getting cucked by ur ex
>>34008445Yes. There is not a day in my mind where I don't think of her.We were together for 5 years, were working on a family, were supposed to lead adult lives.In the end I found out she was cucking me with some model with his dick down to his knees, and was lying to me for at least 6 months of our time together. Took plan B for him while we were working on a kid.I don't think I will ever feel adequate enough for a woman. Reading that shit broke me.
>>34008460SheeeeeeeeeeessshjhhhhhAre you GermanThis sounds like something only German girls are capable of, plus the context clue of being an alcoholicI wanted to say I'm in a similar situation, ex of 5 years, went on a dating app behind my back then left me and the country for this German guy and now lives there with him for a year. I stopped thinking about her due to the betrayal. But to fuck two dudes at once while telling one you're trying to get pregnant but actually secretly take the pill is... Somehow, surpassed my ex's level of debauchery. Incredible dude. All I have to say is - I'm sorry brother. You're a good dude, you don't deserve it. I'm 29. I also feel like time is slipping. My best advice to you is to take care of yourself, eliminate as many bad habits in your life, you'll be such a better person for it.
>>34008503every time I was jealous or suspicious, I got called crazy. Every time I questioned her, I got a fight and a cold shoulder.I just wanted us to be together dude. Women have no faces when I look at them anymore.I'm not German but I do live there. We moved together to pursue a better life. While I was doing overtime to plant our foot in the door, she was sampling bigger dicks.
Hey, you deserve better. And I hope you find a girl who doesn’t just grind on you like an ape but cares for u and gets time to get to know you and make you comfortable. We exist. You do have to do some level of healing and inner work from the trauma of ur ex though. But seriously, you deserve better.
>>34008460>I don't think I will ever feel adequate enough for a womanFix this. Work on this. Find the tools to work through this.
