Not sure how I've gotten myself into this situation but I'm dating two women. One for about a month, the other about a week now. They both say that we're casual, non exclusive and what not. I'm new to casual dating, and I know I literally have permission, but I imagine one of these women wouldn't be happy if they found a strand of the other's hair in my bed. How do I date two women without hurting any feelings?
>>34009363Nigga you just do it. There's no rule saying that you have to let ppl you're dating know about each other. Now if you decide to make one a serious relationship then yeah, might need to cut one or atleast demote her, but if it's just dating? Then dude spin plates. Hell I miss the days where I was entertaining 2 or three bitches at once
>>34009363>strand of other's hair in bednigga I was JUST about to use my first hand experience as a cautionary tale for you before even reading the whole post; I was juggling two lasses once, one with long, bouncy black Mestizo hair; the other girl was over once and discovered one strand on my pillow and raised an eyebrow, luckily I brewed some some cool, expedient bullshit>"Ah, yeah, that's Mike's, you know my eccentric Korean friend Mike? He got wasted and crashed on my bed."Which was a half-truth, my buddy Mike did have long black hair at the time and he crashed at my place often, I could have even been telling the truth Anyway, if you're gonna multi-tap, you've gotta be Patrick Bateman levels of autistically meticulous evidence destruction; women are like bloodhounds with sharp intuition as they'll notice things that go right past us as we're literally wired to not give a shit about things they can hyper-focus on, and they gossip.
>>34009363>They both say that we're casual, non exclusive>I know I literally have permissionLmao what an idiot. What they mean is they can and are fucking other guys. That doesn't translate to you can fuck other women. That would be logical which is not how women work. They expect you to be monogamous until if and when they decide to settle for you. Don't believe me? Tell them.
>>34009926you know i'm right.
>>34009939>you've gotta be Patrick Bateman levels of autistically meticulous evidence destructionLike what? The hair thing, washing sheets so they don't smell like each other, maybe lipstick on a glass, condoms in the trash can, turning off notifications when they're around. I can't think of anything else.
>>34010289>I can't think of anything elseExactly.If one or both of them are sizing you up and testing the waters for relationship material, they'll be assessing things you won't notice or be thinking about; little things about you, your place, the things you talk about (chatting about your family is music to her ears if she wants to go steady).You can't juggle both indefinitely, and it'd be a shame if anyone's time went to waste. I'd say prepare to wrap things up with one sooner rather than later. I've been in invisible triangles before, and it would suck if you slipped up; it'd be a rotten feeling, especially because you're considerate of theirs....but if you want to keep the game going a while longer, don't forget the earrings on the nightstand after one of them stays the night...they're easy to miss and you're flushed if you do.
>>34009363Just tell everybody what's going on. If they both say it's not exclusive, they'll be fine with it. (And if you suspect they wouldn't be fine with it then you are actually cheating). Also, are you really comfortable with both of them seeing other men besides you? Because they are.
>>34009363I dunno why it needs to be explained to what Im sure are adults... actions have consequences.. drop a plate it shatters on the ground. Drink alcohol and you will get drunk.Date two women at once and shit can get complex and dramatic and someone can end up hurt. You cant have your cake and eat it too.The amount of threads that are "im doing something Ill advised. How do I keep doing it and avoid the exact consequences of what Im doing?
