I try not to get (at least intentioanlyl) out of favour with my dad but my mum tried tos tand up for me, over njothing and well I don';tt like it when mum causes drama adn stuff and I want to move out I am 21, why did muma I have to say the things she did dad feels crappy now about that and the few thigns she cfriticsed of him you know.and I didn't even say I was bothered by what he does when she siad she thinks im different when e is home not myself, and that he blames his picking on me, whatever but yeah mim dads son were not blood but by love and mum is my bio mum so she probably feels like hse has more of a say i don't know but I didn't put mum up to it and she made a big deal when I told her alreasdty it isn't about dad. I knwo this is trival crap but between the emotion tensed and dad talking criticfal of my mum to me and I guess how home is with the being lik e it is in other ways I am thinknig of moving out, bad idea/ now I have to try and fix thigns I don't want dad thinking I said soething to mum when I did not and mum is casing proble,s
>>34011126You have a choice anon either sit down with both your mum and step dad and make some boundaries or move out but be warned when you move out do not be surprised if the relationship between your mother and stepfather falls apart as to me it sounds like your mum is using you as a shield to hide from her true feelings.