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>I'm 27 and have never had a girlfriend
>I'm no Henry Cavill, but I also know I'm not an ugly bastard because I have gone on dates with women
>some very attractive women have given me the time of day simply because I'm not afraid to go up to them and ask them out
>sometimes I'll hook up with women the same day I meet them
>let's get it out of the way: I have no problem meeting women
>my problem is holding onto those relationships
>none of the women I spend time with really click for me
>it's all just the same shit with everybody I meet
>we'll have fun going out and stuff, but it's never serious
>one or two dates
>lot of misses
>sometimes I fuck
>it goes on
>at this point I'm kinda lonely from it all
>see couples out in public and crave that connection with another person
>but at the same time, I don't want to lose my independence as a man
>been traveling the globe more
>traveled europe and asia within the last two years
>eventually wanna do Africa, South America, Australia, and eventually Antarctica as the grand finale
>working on my pilot license at the moment
>I'm restless and I want to see as much as the world as I can before I die
>I don't think I can do that if I was in a relationship
>the more I think about it, the less appealing it becomes
>but then I'm up at night feeling lonely
>and then when I meet a girl who wants to be my girlfriend, I feel no desire to do so because I can't be bothered with it nor do I genuinely care for them that deeply

I don't fucking know anymore
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sounds like you need a tulpa.
ridiculously slim chances of finding a globe trotter gf who is physically and emotionally fit enough.
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>wah wah wah
>I'm lonely and need a woman's companionship but I want to be a strong emancipated woman
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>>34011154
>>34011156
I honestly don't even know what I want from a woman anymore. Sex bores me. I'm not gay, so that's not it.

Maybe I just don't want a relationship at all?
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>up at night feeling lonely
You seem well rounded and fulfilled enough otherwise, and a bit full of yourself too but that's not inherently wrong. what would be wrong is that any woman you add to your life will just be decoration and evening entertainment.
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>>34011156
That watch looks like a Rolex Submariner Oystersteel Date (about 12k)
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>>34011167
There was one girl I met recently who I really liked. We met on tinder, and we went out on three dates. Most of the women I meet on tinder only go for one date.

>date one we went out for drinks, played pool, went to the arcade, made-out in my car, grabbed a bite, made-out some more, and then I took her home
>date two we went to the movies with her hands wrapped around my arm as my hand sat on her thigh
>date three we went off to the book store and talked about books we liked and I gifted her something she liked by an author we both loved before I took her home one last time

She was only visiting family at the time, so it was very brief. We didn't sleep together, although she wanted to grab a room, but she got nervous and backed out of the idea. I still went out of my way to see her.

I actually really liked her, but then again, she was only visiting. I'm not ashamed to say it, but I was crying after dropping her off for the last time because she was the first girl in a long time that I wanted to be with in ages.
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>>34011194
Hate to break it to you anon you were her vacation fling, now she has returned to her boyfriend thats life learn the signs. Date two should have been your clue.
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>>34011194
duh of course it feels good to flirt and go on high effort, attractive behaviour dates. but you will have to choose air or land.
you could try investing time in a woman you like and have gauged as sane, convince her to travel, but that wastes both of your time. if you travel away your 20s and 30s, there's no chance of making a family, but if you settle down she'll resent you for daydreaming and being restless, etc etc. there's no pure good scenario for you or your woman.
so when you choose, do it wholeheartedly and convince yourself of it to avoid any yearning problems.
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>>34011147
You can get girls but can't keep them.
100% a personality problem. Something about you bores them or scares them away after the first interest.



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