>be me 26>have what I can only describe as extreme choice paralysis>at work>everything is fine and normal, I know what I’m doing and there is structure>at home>everything is up to me, there is no structure and I can't do anything>turn on tv, can't choose a channel and if I do choose a channel there is this awful feeling in my head that I've made a wrong choice and there is something better to watch>it's the same with games>it makes me feel physically sick and some sort of headaches in the back of my head>this has been going on for a couple yearsHas anyone else had this experience, what should I do?
>>34027648stop giving yourself choices, flip a coin/roll dice...stock to whatever it lands on
>>34027648I haven't had this experience so take what I say with a grain of salt but it sounds like you need to realize what are important decisions and what doesn't matter as much. What TV channel you watch or game you play ultimately doesn't matter. There is no real "wrong" choice
>>34027648Same boat here, I don't think there is a correct answer. I'd say go with trail and error with new hobbies and such and If you feel like you did wrong choices for me seeing japanese salarymen work 13 hours a day helped me realize my situation is pretty tame in comparison to a lot of people out there
>>34027648Flip a coin.Not to decide for you, but because the coin flip will lead to a flash of happiness or disappointment, and that reaction will tell you what you really wanted
