theres domestic violence in my house. im 20 going on 21 and about to get 200 euros a week in neetbux unless something goes horrible wrong. whats the best way for me to get out of the house permanently? for the time being im staying in someones spare room but i cant forever. been looking into shit like van life or just building my own house in the woods or doing up an abandoned building and hoping i dont get caught and all sorts of othershit. i cant just move out because of how raped the job and housing markets are in ireland where live. i havent asked yet but i would assume the few friends i have would let me mail shit to their houses or do laundry/shower there if wherever i end up doesnt have all the shit i need for that.
>>34028717well depending on others is shit, don't do that, you'll just ruin friendships.abandoned houses suck, it's ok if you have a cool crew of squatters but those times are long gone and there will be drugs and police problemsjust try to find any job, 200e is shit
>>34028717rent (dot) ie and find someone to share with. Go on jobs dot ie and find wagie work somewhere. Find a middle ground between access to wagie job and not getting raped on rent - most likely you'll be able to find work in some lidl or aldi somewhere slightly remote (think Mayo, Galway outside the city, Limerick, Clare, Laois, Louth) without getting raped for rent or forced to live with jeets. best of luck fella. I am assuming you don't drive and that limits your waging options. when you say mail shit, no one is going to let you mail drugs to their address unless they're retarded. apologies if that isn't what you meant. housing markets fucked for buyers more than renters. you could maybe afford to share a house with strangers for 400 quid a month in certain parts of the country.
>>34028717I'm pretty sure you can move to the UK without any restrictions. it's still shit but rent and jobs are generally better depending where you go Glasgow's quite nice, and if you live outside the city rent is pretty good, relatively good public transit as well
>>34032231ill loose my neetbux if i amnt in ireland for more than 2 weeks
>>34028717just call the police?anyways why would you live in the woods/abandoned buildings? there's no wifi, electricity, nothing really
1. Get job for income2. Lie how much you make, don't show the ace up your sleeve3. Tuck money aside till you have a safety net, pretend this doesn't exist and you're still miserable as-is 4. When enough is built up in the bank (in an account that is seperate from your abuser(s) make a break for it!5. Never turn back, this is a Clean Break. You are busting outta this joint and getting outta dodge. You will feel survivor guilt, ignore it. Never go back. Stay gone, any fate is better than where you are now. Eventually heal the arrested development and reflect but for now you must plot the escape.
>>34032607you might be boned. you got any job experience? if not make that your first and biggest priority.don't know your situation so it might not be possible but being able to rely on yourself for income is the most freeing thing you can do.other than that save your neetbucks and hope. make some friends, it's no job but if you can make some good ones they'll help you out
