Gf thinks I have a gambling addiction and constantly brings it up whenever any randomness related topic gets discussed. It's getting kind of annoying, since I have no say in it and whenever I try to tell her why she's wrong she'll just talk over me until I stop trying. The thing here is, I don't even gamble. No bets, no slots, no poker, nothing at all. I only play a couple gacha games, and spend about 50 bucks on them (in total, not each) monthly. Sure, that's wasted money, but I get to support games I like and get something in exchange, albeit virtual only. I tried everything to make her understand I don't have a gambling issue. I went several months not spending cash on them or not using the gacha in all of them, if I don't get the rate up I want I don't make a fuss over it or spend more money, I stopped playing some through the years we've been together, hell I even went to several psychologists who looked at me weird and only said "you don't have a gambling addiction".Does anyone have any tips on how to convince her I don't have one? I was thinking about bringing her to someplace where they have slots or bets to make her see actual gamblers, but I'm sure she'd shut down the idea and say something like "oh sure, so now you want to go and get even worse"
>>34029678>she'll just talk over me until I stop tryingDo yourselves a favour and break up.
>>34029693what i thought this was normal
>>34029678Your bitch is an idiotI have no solution though, sorry
>>34029693I'd rather work on it rather than straight up breaking up, also because "he broke up with me because of his gambling addiction" is an absolute social suicide
>>34029678Couples therapy. Frame it like you want her to part of the process rather than you want her to shut up about it. A good couples therapist would be able to give an objective assessment and the help you both need. No point doing individual therapy if it's a problem someone else has with you and not a problem you see in yourself.
>>34029678It's pretty retarded. She probably even made a thread on reddit "my bf is addicted to gambling, but won't admit it" and probably gets advice there to not listen to anything you say.
>>34029678>another gacha faggot coping by saying he doesn't have a problemkek. stop wasting her time and break up with her. it's only going to get worse for you.
>>34029678Set a boundary. Tell her she's risking the relationship by insisting on this.
This is why beating your wife used to be legal
>>34030528nta but you gotta call quits at some time. when one has a manipulative partner, they will eventually learn "bad" stuff about you that they can spread after a breakup, assuming you know they are that kind of person. if it's not gambling, later it will be something worse.50 bucks a month on gacha games is a very irresponsible and loser-y thing to do and it sounds like that is her main issue rather than seeing you as a "real" gambler, but she might just be using this rhetoric hoping you will stop if she talks about it in this way.you guys sound like a very bad couple either way, so imo it'd be better to break up. I feel like openly being such a big gacha spender in a relationship only really works if your partner is okay from it from the start. your gf doesn't like it clearly, and wants you to change. you likely won't, so better to leave her alone.
>>34029678It doesn't matter if it's $1 a month, she still sees it as a weakness that could spiral into something worse. As long as you keep doing it she'll see you as a weak person who isn't capable of self-control.
>>34029678>Does anyone have any tips on how to convince her I don't have one?Stop throwing away enormous sums of money on online games that are indistinguishable from gambling.
