I recently lost my virginity to an escort a few weeks ago, it went well, and I went back to see her again earlier this week. Again, went well. She said I was more confident this time.As we were getting dressed, I confessed to her that my previous session with her was my first time with a woman and she seemed surprised and congratulated me, gave me a big kiss. She invited me to make an advance booking for January when she's back after Christmas.So I sent her a message late on Monday suggesting a date in January. She then replied pretty quickly with:>"I can definitely make one of those dates work. I will message you in a few days with some options :)"I then said "thanks, I appreciate it"She then left me a review yesterday saying she can't wait to see me again, but I'm panicking she will ghost me or something. I worry that's she's not gonna reply to me.So, am I being irrational by panicking? It's the "in a few days" that has my stomach churning, I just have a terrible problem with trust I think. Do you think she's being genuine?
>>34034273>congratulated me, gave me a big kiss. >invited me to make an advance booking
>>34034285What?
>>34034273So, you're asking us "is it irrational to be panicking that this prostitute will not contact me again?"I will reframe the question. Do you think it is rational to feel rejected or abandoned when a prostitute does not recontact you?
ask for a definite date instead of just "january" and if she questions it say you're scared, depending on how good all her answers feel you'll know.
>>34034273She is in business.You are a customer.She is not going to reject you.
>>34034303I admit it's probably not rational.>>34034314I did, I asked for two adjacent days.>>34034317I hope so, but you just don't know with escorts. Then can basically ignore you for any reason.
i think there's some incongruency in what you are looking for and what she is providing. this "date" is probably closer to a gf experience she is going to be charging you for (business) rather than an actual date (romantic potential), and i assume you are looking for romantic potential because you are stressing out over her ghosting you. it's like stressing on whether the cute bartender is into you or is just being nice: keeping you hooked is her job.
Also what's your guys interpretation of "a few days"?I guess 3? It's been nearly 2 full days now.I don't want to have to chase her up as it might make me look desperate. But I also worry she might forget.
>>34034392Yeah of course it's a "girlfriend experience". I get that.From what I can tell she's quite a popular escort so I worry she'll just discard me.
>>34034333That's good then, since knowing a fear we have is irrational is the first step towards healing it. You should pursue this if you want to.
>>34034398a few days is less than a week. You are a client. If she did not recontact you after a week you should send her a polite reminder. You are mixing your feelings and the business. If the plumber says he will set up a date for intervention and does not you recontact him. That's the same thing here. I worry you might end up either hurt or broke because despite saying you do, you don't seem to understand that you are having a customer / business relation with this person.
Do not engage a romantic relationship with this woman. Throw any feelings you have right now out of the window. She is using your emotions to get more money. I don't know why guys always fall for this shit.
>>34034531OK. So if I wait until Monday 15th to see if she responds, then message her again, do you think that'll be ok? I don't want her to think I'm clingy (I admit I probably am, but I don't want to scare her).I know I'm just a client. I get that. But given it's sex and intimacy, it's hard to stay rational.
>>34034557Yes, it's ok. It doesn't matter if she thinks you're clingy. The plumber doesn't care that you're clingy as long as you're polite, he just wants his money.
>>34034403She won’t discard you, I am absolutely positive of that. You have emotion in this and no doubt she sees that. I guarantee she’ll bleed you dry and you will nervously go along with it in fear that she might discard you. You won’t be the first, nor the last so don’t feel bad when it happens.
>>34034273Absolute fucking retard. You lost your vcard to a whore who doesn't give two shits about you. You're just an ATM for that whore, you took that kiss as a sign of affection? Think again. She's just using the fact that your a nice guy and takes advantage of your foolishness
>>34034273>I just have a terrible problem with trustYou're trying to place your trust in a whore. Trust shouldn't even be a topic.
>>34034582 I just thought escorts get very touchy about clingy clients.>>34034604I don't care any more. I got to 29 as a virgin, what choice do I have?
>>34034398>>34034273This is what losing your virginity to hookers does to a motherfuckerYour thoughts about a hooker should be "ah, that was a good coom, time to get McDonalds." HERE YOU ARE STRESSING OVER WHAT A LITERAL HOLE FOR HIRE SAYS AND FEELS ABOUT YOU. Hookers are for when you've already tried with regular women, have been burned, and are ready to exit the game. You never even fucking tried playing.Anyone reading this, never, fucking EVER, "just go to a hooker and get it over with." This is the male equivalent of "just be a single hot bitch and be easy for men without settling." I had no idea I could get mad over someone being this pathetic, but here we are.
>>34034641>I don't care any more. I got to 29 as a virgin, what choice do I have?Remain a virgin? Why do you need to "lose it," because some red pill faggot on here said you needed to? You're not even 30 yet bro, you had a decade as an adult to sort yourself out. And don't you dare say "I'm short," the motherfuckers I know with the highest body counts (into the hundreds) are all below 6'. Women lie through their teeth about what they want, they say they want a 6'4" blue eyed trust fund rower and will go fuck the 5'8" pudgy pickup guitarist with a cool tattoo. If you believed a single word out of a woman's mouth, that's on you. That's on you.
>>34034659>You never even fucking tried playing.Because I never knew how. I still don't.>>34034664I'm not short, I just never had confidence and never learnt how to talk to women.
>>34034603>You have emotion in this and no doubt she sees that.But I'm worried that'll scare her off.
>>34035202If she’s a decent whore it would. But most whores aren’t. She’ll keep seeing you as long as you can pay her fees.
>>34035289Well she's quite popular and in high demand as far as I can tell.God what have I done? Why did I tell her I was a virgin at the end?
>>34034273>So, am I being irrational by panicking?Yes. Man up and grow up some confidence.No prostitute would fuck up and lose a client. The fact she was youra first hints she wants to milk you with some feeling roleplay
>>34035356Alright, I'll try waiting. I might try and keep this thread alive a few days as I'm probably gonna need your guys advice if she gets back to me.
You ever read something so bafflingly retarded you just wonder how someone like this even manages to feed themselves? If so op then we now have something in common
>>34035610What's retarded about it?
>>34035320Look at what you're saying. Why do you care what a hooker thinks of you?
>>34035456Advice? Homie it's a fucking prostitute. She doesn't care about you. You're getting attached to a woman who sells her body and has hundreds of guys fucking her every week.
Her last message to me was around 18:00 on Monday. I'm gonna be sick with worry.
>>34034273Having feelings for an escort is one of the worst things you could ever do. She will never be able to reciprocate it.Just enjoy the experience and try learn as much as you can about women
>>34036914I know, I keep trying to tell myself she's just a prostitute.
I don't understand why you'd bother having feelings for a prostitute. Am I just too cynical? Because to me, the prostitute is a business, she wants the money, she's not interested in sharing feelings if she's not getting paid.
>>34036947I'm a hopeless romantic and I've always been a sensitive guy.
So does anyone here think she will actually respond?
>>34036914I have one of those jobs she's talking about and the gooners are the worst workers.
>>34037620Bro you’re talking about an appointment for late January. It’s December 11th. She’ll respond, and if she doesn’t just message her next month and ask if she’s still available.I think you need to understand a few things about this game. Number one, she is absolutely not interested in you other than your wallet. She is friendly because it’s good service and maybe she’s just a nice person. Number two, it is extremely unhealthy to get attached to her in particular. She is a prostitute. It will NEVER workout between you and her. Number three, they are busy people and you are not in their mind ever. You have to learn to send her a message and maybe you’ll get a response right away or maybe it will be a week. You have to learn some basic patience. It’s a valuable skill to have when dealing with any woman in general. Number four, eventually this relationship is going to end. You’re freaking out about a fake relationship based on money. You gotta just chill.You need to do one thing and it’s fucking relax and stop obsessing about her. She’s not the only prostitute in the world, I can assure you most of them are as charming and kind as she is.
>>34037748I've replaced the word "prostitute" with the word "woman" and the message remained the exact same. Coincidence much?--Bro you’re talking about an appointment for late January. It’s December 11th. She’ll respond, and if she doesn’t just message her next month and ask if she’s still available.I think you need to understand a few things about this game. Number one, she is absolutely not interested in you other than your wallet. She is friendly because it’s good service and maybe she’s just a nice person. Number two, it is extremely unhealthy to get attached to her in particular. She is a woman. It will NEVER workout between you and her. Number three, they are busy people and you are not in their mind ever. You have to learn to send her a message and maybe you’ll get a response right away or maybe it will be a week. You have to learn some basic patience. It’s a valuable skill to have when dealing with any woman in general. Number four, eventually this relationship is going to end. You’re freaking out about a fake relationship based on money. You gotta just chill.You need to do one thing and it’s fucking relax and stop obsessing about her. She’s not the only woman in the world, I can assure you most of them are as charming and kind as she is.
>>34034659I lost my virginity to an escort. I was definitely a bit like OP at first but eventually I got over it. Overall it was the right decision for me, it was the confidence boost I needed to eventually date real women.I don’t agree that you need to treat escorts as nothing more than a nice cum. I think you can have extremely enjoyable times with them in addition to the coom. Just a fun way to spend an evening. But yeah you have to learn to separate that shit out, my time with her is done, time to move on. The sooner you find a second girl the better.
>>34037748>late January.It would be early January.She still has not responded. Coming up to 72 hours now...
>>34034273How much do escorts charge for you paying them to just lay in bed and cuddle with you all night?
>>34037986Depends on how popular she is I am in the UK. Overnights here range from £1000 to £3000
>>34037980That’s still at least three weeks away. Just fucking chill my man. If it’s been a week just text her again, otherwise wait until Monday and distract yourself and think of something else.
>>34038259She messaged me around 6 pm on Monday 8th saying she would message me in a few days with options for the dates I suggested in January. So it has been nearly 3 full days now.I am planning to wait until Monday evening. That way it would have been a full week. I just worry that because I told her I was a virgin, she will ghost me as she thinks I am clingy. If I have chase her up, that will make me look even worse.
OP I was exactly where you were earlier this year. I lost my virginity to a prostitute and it was great. But I quickly realized I had to throw away the attachment I had for her. Shes just doing this for a job and shes clearly good at it if you feel this way. Any kind of love or affection you have for her is NOT shared and she is probably having sex with multiple other men and other virgins in between your appointments. Your relationship together is all transactional. You pay for her time and her affection during the dates you have with her. This texting her shit constantly is going to get old to her fast and it will make her drop you if she has any financial sense.I would suggest looking for another prostitute that isn't her to get your mind off of her. And potentially use what you learned about how good intimacy is as motivation to find a girl who you can actually have these feelings for and have a healthy relationship with.If you really need to see her again don't message her until a few days before the date to just confirm the appointment you have still works. If you keep seeing her you will drain your bank account FAST and she will drop you once you hit zero.Good luck OP.
>>34038331>This texting her shit constantlyI haven't done that. I am currently awaiting her response.
>>34034273Do you think a prostitute woman is capable of falling in love? Because she also has a heart, she also has a soul. However, it would not be easy for her to combine the craft of a prostitute and a family with several kids. However, I don't think that if someone's wife works in a factory on a conveyor belt, it's better than she working as the prostitute.
>>34038410I was ghosted by a prostitute before.If this one ghosts me then it's over.
Alright it has been over 72 hours (3 full days) now.
>>34034273you pay her.she will be back for the money.you have a high class whore.you are asking if the whore will be there after the holidays.
>>34039131But I am worried that because I told her I lost my virginity to her, she will ghost me and think I'm clingy
Now at 3.5 days since she sent that message.Why couldn't she just have said "I will message by the end of the week" instead of "a few days"? The longer this goes on, the more I am close to giving up.
>>34040363ok autist bro you know you can modulate what feelings you show to other people and how?'hey I was wondering when are we seeing each other again?'With this message you still show you are a romantic and naive autist (=seeing each other again) and you are showing your desperation and uncertainty in a positive way (horney for and curious about her -> she sees dancing dollar signs that won't act gross with her)
>>34040661i forgot theres no emojis here lol:'hey *ambigous_eyes* I was wondering when are we seeing each other again? *Horny_heated_red_emoji* *deep_red_heart*'
>>34040661I can't do that yet, that would be too desperate.She said a "I will message you in a few days with some options" on Monday, so I have to give her a week at least. Even then, if I chase her up, won't she get annoyed? I honestly didn't realise dealing with prostitutes would be this difficult.
>>34040667Of course you can, just send the message. Either she forgot about it or for whatever reason wasn't gonna reply on the weekend anyways. So she might see your message and be reminded of you and be happy to respond. Or she was gonna reply on the weekend anyways in which case she will still be flattered that it is important to you. Writing a short message like that isn't desperate, it's perfectly normal. If anything she'll think it's cute you are wanting to see her. (She'll also think in terms of a walking atm but that's what you both signed up for)As the other anon said, just think about if you were waiting for a doctor to offer you an appointment and he didnt respond would you be worried that the thinks you are desperate? Also fake it till you make it; sending the message and then just forgetting about it is your first step towards becoming a less desperate person.
>>34040680Nah I made a mistake before of messaging an escort multiple times in short succession without reply. They are prickly and extremely ruthless women.It's not like a doctor. A doctor has to treat his patients. Escorts can come up with a million snide reasons to ignore someone.
>>34040715That's why I said one message not multiple ones in short succession.
>>34040732I know man. But I am paranoid that if I chase her up she will get pissed off. You don't know what these women are like. I will wait till Monday evening, but man this waiting is killing me. I really hate uncertainty. I honestly thought escorts would be much quicker to respond.
>>34040850Of course I do, actually I know how ~30 of them are. Send the message and then just wait, forget about it. The problem is not the message it is you being obsessed and desperate. In this case not sending the message is an act of desperation and obsession. Healthy people just casually check up on people and things they are interested in.
>>34040919But won't I seem even more desperate if I chase up after 4 days?
>>34041215It's not chasimg it's expressing your wants and needs which bitches love
>>34034273OP, your feelings are why I told myself to never ever pay for tipping services. I'm a lonely virgin, but I don't want to get feelings and have my wallet taken advantage of. She could be nice, or she could just be emotionally manipulating you.>gave me a big kissBecause she's wanting you to come back and pay her again. That's all.You also see this shit in jobs that give tips. Maybe the waitress will flirt with you a bit or wear a low cut shirt or act cute, so you tip her more. Or your hair stylist will be overly friendly to you. The closest I ever got to OP's feelings was when I started commenting on ASMR girlfriend roleplay videos. Because I was getting replies, I felt more encouraged/obligated to watch her videos and comment more. Then I had to tell myself, she is playing a character, a role. If I hadn't already priorly decided to never pay money for that content, I might have signed up for her Patreon. Same thing with guys who subscribe to OnlyFans girls. This is actually a problem for some women because some guys get obsessed thinking that they're special and the attention the woman is giving them is because she likes them and not just their money and it develops into stalker behavior. Not saying you'll go that far, but remember...SHE IS PLAYING A ROLE AND DOESN'T CARE ABOUT YOU. SHE WANTS YOUR MONEY. THAT IS ALL.
>>34035610Yes, but no one is perfect and there's a difference between someone being thrust in to a new situation they know nothing about and someone who has done it for years and still falls for it.
>>34037986Go to list crawler or skip the games. They are the cheap sites for local whores but you'll still find more than enough good ones who are willing to do it and will tell you their prices.
>>34041331>Because she's wanting you to come back and pay her again. That's all.I get that, so why is she taking so long to respond?I hate waiting so much. It's nearly 4 days since she messaged me now. Does that still count as "a few days" or has she ghosted me?
we're about to have christmas, think about it from the perspective of her. Shes keeping you open figuring out how to get more money, if she needs it, as we get into christmas. You're thinking way too much about this, its gonna be fine
>>34041388She isn't accepting any more bookings for December. She told me she would be back in the 2nd week of January and invited me to pre-book a date. So I suggested the 9th.
Anyway, how does this sound as a follow-up message?>Hi (her name)>Just wondering if you're able to provide the time options for Jan 9th/10th that you mentioned in your message on Monday 8th? If you need more time to confirm please can you let me know? I hope we can meet again.>Many thanks>My namePlanning to send that Monday if I hear nothing.
>>34034273Shes a prostitute. Its her job to make you feel good. Emotionally too. Enjoy it but DO NOT FORGET SHES A WHORE WHO DOES THIS FOR MONEY
>>34041490You people keep saying that, but the issue here is her lack of response.
>>34041498The get a different one. She wont be offended.
>>34041590I have sent another one a message for a booking on Sunday. Sent it 7 hours ago. She hasn't read it.
>took tge easy way out to lose his virginityYou cheated. Not only the game but also yourself. You didn't grow. You didn't improve. You took a shortcut and gained nothing. You experienced a hollow victory. Nothing was risked and nothing was gained. It's sad you don't know the difference
>>34041596Bust on her tits for me anon.
>>34041630It was that or nothing.
>>34041675I will if she replies to me
>>34041353She may have other clients and forgot to message you. It's usually on the caller to make an appointment.
Dubs and the whore ghosts OP
>>34042088Fuck :(
>>34042126Move on lil bro
>>34042137Not memeing, do you really think she will ghost me? I thought she was nice :(
>>34034273Hey OP thank you for this thread, I needed something like this I've been going through some shit myself lately and this lightened up my mood. We all have our problems I guess.
>>34042176>i thought she was niceI wish I could strangle the needy little bitch inside you. It's literally her job. There are so many whore's in the world and the only reason you keep bothering this one is because you gave her the only thing that gave you value as a man. Your dignity. If thats how you want to be just start whoremaxxing. Go out to brothels.
>>34034273where do you find escorts? where do I have to go? how much do I have to pay?
>>34042548>you keep bothering this oneI haven't messaged her since Monday.
>>34042634I used AdultWorkShe cost £200 for 1 hour
Still no response.it's over isn't it
>>34035136>Because I never knew how. I still don't.>I just never had confidence and never learnt how to talk to women.Thts a great starting point actually. Because newsflash, you don't learn things by already knowing them. Eveyone had to learn that at some point.So get to it. >>34036926>I keep trying to tell myself she's just a prostitute.Look. When we do something of signififcance for the first time ever, it often feels inherently special. That feeling of the whole thing being special often gets projected onto the people we exerpeince it with.That doesn't just go for sex, but for anything of sginificance really.It also means this feeling will inevitable fade - IF you know write apolite goodbye message to this woman and never contact her again. Even if you wish to proceed with full time whoremongerin, go and fuck other prostitutes and the perceived imprtance of taht woman will rapidly diminish. But it wil also diminish simply through time, as the feeling recedes and you begin to see more rational.If you proceed this way, she will have given you another piece of invaluable experience: Overcoming your first heartbreak. Many people bend over backwards for terrible partners in order to avoid that feeling, so being able to deal with it is a skill of immense importance. Because getting hurt is an inevitable part of navigating romantic relationships. If you choose to disregard that and only fuck prostitutes going forward, at least register in one of those John forums and let the experienced whoremongers yell at you for being an idiot. They all know that its just business, if you fall in love with hookers you are better off staying away from them entirely.
>>34044155If you're in luck, she found her conscience and/or another John to fill that slot in the meantime.Prostitutes tend to become callous from having so much sex without any emotion, but a surprising amount of them manage to retain their humanity.And yes, not matter what she played and how well she gave you the feelings you desired, shes feeling jack shit for you expect that you are maybe a pleasant and easily satisfied customer.
>>34044491>If you're in luck, she found her conscience and/or another John to fill that slot in the meantime.I know she's booked for December, fully.I get she's busy. I just find it depressing when someone promises me something and they don't do it.
5 full days now.Yeah fuck this cunt. She is ghosting me.
>>34044478>IF you know write apolite goodbye message to this woman and never contact her again.I am tempted to say something like "thank you for taking my virginity" but she would likely laugh
>>34045357Who the fuck cares? Its literally some whore. Not FIGURATIVELY. L I T E R A L L Y a whore.
>>34045385well the cunt took my virginity
>>34045357Yeah, a lot of hookers don't take clients who are virgins for exactly that reason. She probably chose to ghost you becaus eits the easiest way and because you're obviously a clingy sperg who is going to annoy her to no end if she tells you straight up that its over. Expect non-hookers to also do this as well, if you give a woman the impression that she is in for a tow hour discussion when she wants to break up with you, most will opt to just ghost and spare themselves the hassle and drama.If you keep mongering withother whores, you will inevitably arrive at the conclusion that pussy isn't such a big deal and you mihth as well go strike out with some unpaid women. that is , if you don't get addicted, as paysex is addictive especially if you have never experienced sex with actual emotional involvement.If you ask me, tha mone yi sbette rspent on therapy, because being a virgin at 29 AND falling in fucking love with a legit hooker points to some serious issues you might be better off clearing up instead of coping with whores. This shit just doesn't happen to people who don't have a few screws loose, and I speak from experience
>>34045445>Yeah, a lot of hookers don't take clients who are virgins for exactly that reason. She probably chose to ghost you becaus eits the easiest way and because you're obviously a clingy sperg who is going to annoy her to no end if she tells you straight up that its over.If I had just kept my mouth shut about being a virgin...How could I have been so fucking stupid?
>>34045463You're either trolling or genuinely a retard with the ability for introspection on the level of a babboon.
>>34045513No, I wish I was trolling.I blurted it out at the end of the meeting as I felt it was the right thing to do.At least I can't make that mistake again.
>>34045434That doesn't mean you have to attatch yourself to her. Do you have a dog penis? Did the tip swell after you came and now you have can't leave? No. You're actually in an enviable position of having a cornucopia of women to pick from. Forget this broad
>>34045704I know. I just wanted to gain experience with her.
Well bros it's now over 5 days.Getting very close to the "it's over" territory.I guess I can message her again in January when she's back after Xmas, maybe.
>>34034664>You're not even 30 yet broabsolute cope of the highest order. by age 30 you're beyond late bloomer, you're stunted
>>34034273Just expect that she will ghost you so that if she doesn't you will feel glad.
>>34045736Yeah I wouldn't depend on prostitutes at all. They don't like you and you're not entitled to their time. Don't feel bad.
>>34034273>So, am I being irrational by panicking?Yes.You also seem to be putting way to fucking much importance into your relationship with a sex worker.
>>34045445Whores deal with virgins all the fucking time actually, so your first point is wrong. Guys that suck with women are regulars with prostitutes. Guys like OP are not the problem because they keep their insecure mental illness to themselves.She is not intentionally ghosting him. He is having a panic attack because a prostitute isn’t texting him during the holidays and you aren’t helping. She’s busy or not looking at her phone. She makes probably 300k+ a year, and here’s a secret: she hates her fucking job so sometimes she doesn’t want to deal with it.As long as OP isn’t rude, isn’t demanding her attention for free, and doesn’t smell bad then he’s an easy client and easy money. There’s a lot of very shitty men than visit prostitutes, so when a good client comes along they tend to not reject them for stupid reasons like “oh they’re a virgin”.I’ve said it multiple times in this thread. OP needs to chill the fuck out. He’s overthinking everything, and he’s obsessing about this relationship. She is not ghosting him, but also she is not into him either. He’s a reliable paying customer, and she’s a person doing a job. OP is basically freaking out because his favorite restaurant hasn’t confirmed his reservation for next month.
>>34046423Yeah that is basically my mentality.>>34046470>As long as OP isn’t rude, isn’t demanding her attention for free, and doesn’t smell bad then he’s an easy client and easy money.I hope so, but you never know how these women think.It's Day 6 now, still nothing.
Should I chase her up or forget it?
Alright bros I'm gonna send her this message this afternoon:>Hi (her name), just wanted to check in regarding our chat on Monday about pre-booking for January 9th / 10th.>You mentioned you'd send some time options in a few days. Just wanted to see if you've had a chance to sort those out? Thanks>My nameDoes that sound ok?
>>34047281MOVETHEFUCKON
>>34047353Not what I asked dude
>>34047359You did but i replied to tge wrong post. >>34047027
>>34047368What's your reasoning? The anons here seem to think I should message her>>34046470>>34040919>>34040680>>34038259
I made a decision, I have messaged her.
>>34047436you're fucking cooked my guy
>>34047479I was polite. I said this>Hi (her name) just wanted to check in regarding our chat on Monday 8th about pre-booking for January 9th / 10th.>You mentioned you could send some time options. I just wanted to see if you've had a chance to confirm? Looking forward to hearing from you.If she doesn't respond to that, then what else can I do? I waited 6 days, that is more than a "few". If she doesn't want my money then fine.
4 hours since I sent it, she hasn't read it.
6 hours now lolJesus escorts are uselessYou would think they would want to plan their business ahead for the New Year
>>34034604This is the best answer. she doesn't give two shits about you but the illusion for you is everything. You are fantasying she'll give up the game for you, become your girlfriend, you and her run off into the sunset.Simply see another whore. Problem solved... or in your case problem doubled.God damn you are so weak OP, you are a cash pig waiting to happen. even im wondering how to extract your hard earned cash from you.
>>34048268op whats her profile on adult work?
>>34048347Eh if I post it you'd all message her lolShe is highly rated, triple digit reviews. She has given me two positive reviews.
>>34048384mate i cant be ebtoher with that shit, show us a picture at least.
>>34034273You lost your virginity to the whore,Probably she want feels you in her pussy more.
>>34047492she's a literal whore bro. she doesn't give two shits about you. stop overthinking this
>>34048601I am not asking her to care. I am a customer asking for a booking. Is there anything wrong with what I said?
>>34048617>I am a customer asking for a booking.If you were that, you'd have just made an appointment with another whore because shes just a whore who offers sex for money and theres countless of those. What you are is a serious fucking weirdo who increasingly gives strong stalker vibes and is clearly at least somewhat delusional.Theres obviously a reason you stayed a virgin for almost 30 years, and it may be for the best that this is playing out with a prostitute and not anortmal girl whose address you know.
>>34048881>If you were that, you'd have just made an appointment with another whore because shes just a whore who offers sex for money and theres countless of those.I have. I just want to gain experience with this one. She is ideal for me.>Theres obviously a reason you stayed a virgin for almost 30 yearsBecause I lack confidence, which is obviously going to take another hit if she ghosts me.
>>34048906>She is ideal for me.I strongly and seriously advise you to seek therapy ASAP before your delusions lead you to doing something illegal. "Lack of confidence" is the least of your problems.
>>34048971I am not that stupid.But you are right. Seeking validation from prostitutes is stupid. I realise now what an idiot I have been.
that's like two weeks from now, she does not know her schedule yet, quit being an asshole.
>>34049078if you didnt really care you'd show us all her picture.
>>34049078i want to see the whore you're fucking.
>Escort turns off phone for a couple of weeks during the holidays>Turns it on to see 600 texts from OP asking where she isLmao.OP I’ve said this before. Patience. Chill the fuck out. You need to learn to not think about getting a response from a girl without having a panic attack, or when you get a real girl talking to you you’ll be sending “pls respond” 10 minutes after a spicy text. This is good practice. Do not send another text to her at all now and just wait for her to reply. She will.I treat text like letters. I send them and can wait indefinitely for a response. If they don’t respond and it’s time sensitive I send a reminder, otherwise I just assume it made it to its destination and I’ll receive my reply eventually. Your appointment is still weeks away.
>>34050298>Do not send another text to her at all now and just wait for her to reply. She will.I won't. But I do not expect her to reply.
>>34050298>Escort turns off phone for a couple of weeks during the holidaysAlso that bit isn't true, she signed into AdultWork yesterday afternoon.
>>34050869>actual stalkingOP move your wannabe Jack the Ripper ass on somewhere else
>>34050906How is that stalking? It's visible information.
>>34050940You've been obssessing over this broad for four days. By this point if you haven't gotten the poison out your system with someone else and you couldn't think of anything else to do other than see how long its been since she's logged on, its clear she's done with you. Please don't have me defending a whore. Better Men than I have done that.
>>34050951I have got another escort booked for Saturday 20th.
This whole scenario has just made me realise that I simply do not understand women.
She has replied bros!
You are a retard for getting attached to a prostitute. As others have said.Best route to take is tell her you found God and won't visit her again and stop going to prostitutes completely.
>>34034398A couple is 2. A few is 3 or 4. Several is 7. Fuck 5 and 6 they get nothing>Captcha: WXGAY
>>34053462Yeah, she admitted she forgot.Just trying to finalise the meeting for January.
>>34055454>she forgotOf course, because you mean nothing to her.
>>34055457Duh, I don't care though
>>34052487Of course she did. You’re a paying customer and she’s offering a service. I hope you realize this at this point but I doubt it.Hopefully at this point you realize though that a prostitute not responding to your message means literally nothing. You built this entire thing up in your head about how you’re some unfuckable loser and she’s rejecting you when the reality is she doesn’t think about you at all, she is busy, and in general doesn’t like talking with her clients unless she has to, regardless of who it is.Next time an escort takes a week to respond try not having a panic attack meltdown.
>>34055628Yeah I will learn from this.
>>34034403>so I worry she'll just discard meThis is something you worry about with a cute girl you've been on a couple of ice cream dates with. It is not something you worry about with a hole you are paying to insert your penis into. You are engaging in a business transaction but seem to be mentally reframing it as something else.
>>34034273How much are you paying? How much for 1 hour? You are literally a customer, don't worry about being ghosted. As long as you got the paper, her pussy will always be available to you
>>34055805Works out to around $260 for the first hourHer rates drop after that
>>34055671No you won't
>>34055688>This is something you worry about with a cute girl you've been on a couple of ice cream dates withNo it fucking isn't. And who goes on "ice cream dates" after the age of 14, let alone several of them without even havign sex, and then switches into full simp mode because you...ate ice cream together. It slike you people are perpetually stuck in eighth grade.
>>34034273You will NEVER have a girlfriend, and especially not one who you met as an escort.