my mom and youngest 10 yo sister and my other sister bullied my cat every day I can remember until she died e.g picking her up when she obviously didn't like it and dragging her around. my mom claimed she cared about the cat but let my sister who had a history of abusing her (trapping her, stepping on her, trying to put things in her food) have free access to her. During the last month of my first job, the youngest eventually managed to feed her some string and she died days//weeks shortly after. I'm still not over it but whatever. Recently, the youngest kicked her slightly older sister in the ribs. A while before that, she punched her in the face. I realize through pattern recognition she's not above murdering her or others. She's tried poisoning my mother's drinks before and putting chemicals What should I do to absolve myself of any potential blame if she ends up doing something horrible?
>>34036532how old are you? do you still live with them? what the fuck kind of fucking fucked up family did you grow up into?
>>34036538Yeah I do. I'm 21. My mom is a pathological liar with cluster B disorders enabled by the people around her. She lies to the police, other people, etc and I'm pretty sure they can tell she's fucked up but don't care. I've tried outing her before and all I've gotten is bemoaning from authorities about moving out and being told I'm the problem. I have a recording of my mom destroying her own blinds and attempting to blame me for it.
>>34036532rape correction
>>34036546Sounds terrible, i gave advise to someone else who had controlling perents so not the same but similiar:Basically leave the house because its toxic and live with a friend. Try to track when your mom leaves the house so you know when to sneak off as you take your belongings out, one by one without her noticing.Of course this differs from the other anon because they lived in the phillapines and have very controlling perents, even with finances.But with your mother, she might call the police so give a letter to her or voice message saying why you left her and her household. Then email the police this letter so they are aware of it.Then move on because unless you somehow understood psychology 101 overnight, you not gonna change them unless they change you first.This is just my take anon, stay safe.
Get ur sister assessment in therapy anon that's clearly psychopathic behavior
>>34036532>What should I do to absolve myself of any potential blame if she ends up doing something horrible?Send an email with all the details of the behavior that way you have a legitimate digital archive
>>34036532idk how to help you but nice cat photo
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>>34037509this sounds like solid good advice.also it was written by a redditor.the only thing you can do is move out of such a situation.you do can make a statement at the police or some social worker site. this can help investigations in the future, but also risks exposing you. i reckon it is best to not stick your head out too much. also watch your own food. sounds like a high risk environment. get yourself a private space (locker with key, etc) where you can store important stuff (such as food).if you have no home: you won't starve on the streets. it sure sucks. but you will always be able to beg for food and people give you. ask at restaurants. it is super humiliating.the way you describe your environment, it sounds like you would be better off on the streets. get yourself a tent and as it is winter move somewhere warmer. usually people do not want to kill you, there. at least... i never had any problems in europe 2019 as a hippie. sure: some thieves and stuff. but never any problems furhter than that. nature heals.
