27 years old and look 50. NEET. Virgin. No friends. My discord friend group all got lives and I've been alone for the past 3 years. Ugly. Fat. 5'8. I log into my discord account everyday reading messages from 2023 reminiscing about when they were all around. I want to cry.
what's your question ?or is this a bitchpost that should've been kept in /gioyc/
>>34036898>>>/r9k/
>>34036920>>34036927I explained my situation now give me advice faggots. R9k would delete this post because I have myself
>>34036931no, you hurt my feefees. learn to be kind first, even in adversity.
>>34036898You can be less fat.
If you change your negative self-talk to positive, that alone makes a big difference over time. Trust me, it's powerful.
>uglyYou’re not handsome but far from ugly desu, seen worse than you get laid>5’8Tough. But you can work with it, if you’re into Asian’s even better>lost discord friendsRough but probably best to make real ones, reminiscing won’t get you anywhere>fatFix this today. Being 5’8 and fat is not gonna help at all, 27 isn’t too late. I believe in you op. But start today
>>34036898Start with skincare and a better diet (one that helps with natural oils like boiled eggs and lean meat). If you get healthier it will help with your mental state.
>>34036931You didn't ask any questions. Everyone here is miserable more or less. If anything the people who aren't are douchebags. Maybe be more of a douchebag.
>>34037127True.
>>34036898>ugly/fat/virginYou don't strike me as ugly, just losing weight honestly might turn a few heads and rid the friend and virgin problem>NEETGet hired and/or abuse some free government program(s) for college or trade school. Use some of cash towards gym>no friends/discord/old messages(This is gonna be biased and somewhat hypocrital)I won't suggest ridding Discord or cutting ties with your old friends, but you have to move on from replaying the past too much. Join a new server and chat a little there, allow the idea that making new friends isn't the same as throwing everyone from before away>I want to cryIt helps a lot>>34036898
Hands have no life line.
>>34036898Start with a haircut to signify a transformation then change your attitude. You can reminisce on the past but stop longing for it because its not coming back. Getting a woman isn't about looks its about being confident in yourself.
>>34036898brotal twink death. time to looksmaxx unless you have given up.
>>34036898I won't read NEET threads because they are literally choosing to be subhuman and what can one say to that?
>>34036956>>34037127These 2 posts combined are POWERFUL medicine
>>34036898u look like Dicaprio but with downs syndrome
Being obese looksmins you minimum 3-4 points. Lose weight and cut your hair , you have a nice face area and eyes
>>34039815THIS.Getting in that exercise will also help with the stress and not getting enough sleep.You keep on the current route, and you're dancing with the Diabetes Devil.Fatty liver is NOTHING to fuck around with.
It's never over
>>340368981. Fix your sleep schedule, I can tell by the bags under your eyes you go to sleep very late and wake up in the evening. 2. Start exercising and improve your diet, stop eating junk food and drink plenty of water. 3. Practice skin care and also groom yourself better4. Apply to a job, doesn't matter if it's a crappy fast food or retail job, just get any job and save up as much money as you can.5. Buy a car with saved up money, if you don't know how to drive, use the money for driving lessons, trust me, a car makes a BIG difference. 6. Stop being a bitch and just go out there and live life, everyone's got problems pal, rise above yourself.
>>34039858Based Jeff Buckley enjoyer.
>>34036898Any idea what's seemingly accelerating your aging? Are you high stress?
>>34036898Shave the beard, eat better and workout.
>>34036898loose weight, go to GLP1 forums and find a vendor to get tirzepatide. Via a doctor, it would cost $200+ per month, with compounded stuff you pay like $20-40. Fix your health issues, you look unhealthy, very clearly you have some metabolic issue, and im not talking about you being fat, you look like you have some kind of actual issue (anemia, hypo/hyperthyroidism, diabetes etc etc)
>>34036898
I am female and I would date you if you weren't overweight. I am sorry really don't mean to hurt your feelings by saying that
>>34036898just fuck my shit up family
>>34036898>>34036898you aren't a fundamentlly ugly person, youre posture is probably pretty bad and if you got in shape you could get to a 5'9 or maybe even almost 5'10 with fixed posture (one day)the real issue isn't your physicality though, you have to fix your mind. I'm willing to be you have some childhood trauma or mental disorder (probably both) and that will take some heavy lifting. Luckily, you still have time. 27 is not the peak male years, the 30s are. You could be totally different in 5 years.Your skin can youngen significantly under the care of a good naturopath and adequate diet and sleep.Phase I: fix your mind. Give yourself 1-3 years.. Do therapy, mens mental health groups if you can find them, go outside and do something at least 5 times a week, even if its just going to the library, or running out to grab a coffee somewhere. You need something to anchor yourself to the real world, maybe volunteer somewherephase II: Fix health, find employmentStart maybe after a yearThis is when you kick your bad habits, control screen time with apps that limit them, take on more productive hobbies seriously (musical instruments, art, creative endeavours)Phase III: Health and socialReally really start adulting and build a normal life if you haven't lost the weight yet, lose it. Get some stylish clothes (can do this earlier but you probably won't have the willpower) get a makeover and stick with it (probably do this sooner) start wearing a watch, you'll be fixing your posture and not slouching, tell the world you are proud of who you are at this point because you'll have some real accomplishments. etcidk, make a plan like this.
>>34037127LOL do you think Asian women are stupid??? Asian women have high standards stop setting the man up for failure…
>>34036898Okay, as a woman, my advice is you need to sleep more to fix eye bags; also, skincare helps too . You can go to the gym, work on your mental health, and your personality too . Dress well; some women love when a man dresses well . Grow your hair out and then get a haircut that will fit you. Be nice and have respect; it's very important . I've seen men who focus on looks only with a shitty personality-yuck. You have pretty eyes, so just work on yourself slowly, step by step . Don't give up; you got this! Clean up your environment, find new hobbies, and don't be toxic. Good luck , Anon!:D
>>34042357Asian women prefer white men (not obese tho) are you redacted? This is common knowledge
>>34042357Yeah this is actually a thing I noticed, all asian women are extremely hypergamy, they also usually want someone that they lack to compensate, it's narcissistic, maybe due to asian parenting and upbringing, it is in the asian culture to be very hypergamy. could be an IQ thing too where they logically think better genes = better future and offspring, or that they believe they are high up their due to extreme self confidence that is maybe sometimes right but other times not right. they dont care much at all about love or intimacy, they're fake af.although as a guy i am kinda like that too but i would actually drop it all if i find the right person and i wouldnt care if theyre retarded or ugly.
>>34036898>NEETYou can change this so easily. Volunteer in the community. Do something.
