Women like me, talk to me, even go out with me (even women above my league), but never in a romantic way. I think it's because I'm too nice, safe, and non-threatening.How do I change my vibe so they know I mean business?
>>34040452be nonchalant
Poo and rub it on your face instead of just chewing and spitting it everywhere
>>34040452Follow your dreams
>>34040452>I think it's because I'm too nice, safe, and non-threatening.100% guarantee: that is NOT the reason. Women absolutely love feeling safe. It's an unusual feeling for them, and one they treasure. The problem, most likely, is either that you lack confidence, or that you're boring.
>>34040644>Women absolutely love feeling safe.Perhaps. But I think they're like, "I feel safe enough around this guy, I might have a pity coffee with him", when I want them to be like, "I feel so safe with this guy, I want to live in his cave". Maybe it's the confidence thing.
>>34040452What do you do for a living, what are your hobbies, how many actual friends do you have, are you following your dreams?
>>34040694because you're crossing the line between familiar and similar. You're displaying female safety rather than male.Be gentle, polite, but still show you're a guy at the end of the day. That you find them pretty and admire their femininity, opening doors and being gentlemanly, getting shy sometimes, so on.following your dreams will also make a visual difference in composure.
>>34040452Don't listen to all the gaslighters here, 99 percent of women will not find you romantically because you are simply ugly.Post pics of your body and/or face and the answer will be clear as day.>muh personality>muh confidencecope.
>>34040712Cope, he said girls liked him, read nigga, READ
>>34040714>but never in a romantic wayREAD NIGGA, READJust because a girl considers you a gay friend to whom she can spend time with does not mean she will ever want to be your girlfriend.
You're in a double psy-op. You think nice guy is wrong and opposite or imagined alternative is better. Truth is there is no answer and every encounter you have is up to so many variables you might as well consider human interaction as pure RNG. I'm trapped in the third psyop and haven't figured it out yet
>>34040452be flirty and handsy
>>34040740>third psyopWhat is the thir psyop?
>>34040721That doesn't automatically mean he's ugly.
>>34040452At least give yourself a pat on the back for talking to women and going out with them, that’s something that 99% of men here seem to fail at. But somewhere in your interactions you are failing to get to the next level. i don’t think being too nice is the reason, but rather you are not catching their attention/interest in the moment it matters most. Don’t be an asshole, but try being more assertive, lead them along in the date and try pursuing what you want (romance) without being pushy.
>>34040452>How do I stop being a nice guy?You get on your knees and suck my big fat cock.
>>34040452i wish nice moids were real
>>34040712>>34040974I am ugly. No biggie. The question is how to be more direct so that women tell me to fuck off rather than waste my time.
>>34040712I find it incredible how men with the least experience with women are the ones who so faithfully believe in their own retarded opinions.
You're ugly. You're tolerated as a means to an end, but women don't genuinely desire you. It's not your fault, you never asked for this, but it is over for you (not like it ever began anyway.)
