I'm attempting to figure out what I'm doing that's causing a repeated pattern the last 3 years for me where the only women who have shown me any interest whatsoever are married, most of them older than me. For some reason I keep attracting bored housewives or women who are terrified of the decision they made and seek me out as some emotional freedom. I am not doing anything to give them the hint of romance, I'm being friendly and supportive because they've been people who are part of a big mutual friend group I'm in and they either initiate a closer friendship with me, or confide emotional stresses in their life, usually about their family. Next thing I know, they're confessing feelings for me, outright making lewd and inappropriate advances or offers to me, or accusing me of inappropriate behavior when they were the ones taking things too far.I can only assume the friend group I'm in is very toxic but I don't want to think it's them or something. It's not just this friend group that I've had this issue with, it's something persistent over the last few years. I know I must be doing something that's attracting this pattern/type of female or some mental loop of mine brings this energy in. Maybe it's just the hippie/Jesus look I have going right now but I really don't know what to think of it. Pls help?
>>34041062>I'm being friendly and supportiveStop doing that.
>>34041062>accusing me of inappropriate behaviorWhat behaviours? Maybe your actions/speak/mannerism don't actually match the energy you want to present.And why are you friends with so many bored housewives?
>>34041062>married, most of them older than meSounds like a win to me!
>>34041062Maybe you manifested to "attract a wife" and this makes you attract already married women. You may have done this unconsciously.
>>34043758>What behaviours?Sexually inappropriate behavior when they're the ones being sexually inappropriate to me, telling me things like >I can't stop fucking myself with my vibrator thinking about you, what are we gonna do about it, hunny?>why don't I take you in the bathroom and show you a good time?>my husband's not here tonight, I've finally got some alone time with youThese were three different women and the last one was the only one where I felt my reaction of ghosting her was maybe uncalled for, it could have been very innocent how she meant it but after my other experiences, I just got a bad feeling.>And why are you friends with so many bored housewives?They approach me, I know them all from different activities I do (I'm in a skating group) or my job (personal trainer) but I always notice older women even just out and about like if I go to the store or the bank or for a run or something, it's ONLY older women that hit on me. I'm not stupid, I know how to tell when a woman is flirting and younger women for some reason either seem to get agitated at my existence or don't know how to react to me at all, meanwhile their mom won't stop groping my biceps and licking her lips at me.>>34043773I'm into that kinda stuff, so maybe I fucked up but my intention was manifesting an 18 year old virgin not 50 and 60 year old women who haven't had sex in 20 years.
>>34041062You might come across to women as exciting but not serious and so you are sorted into freeuse dildo/fwb category. Are you muscular but poor/low income?
>>34045269I certainly wouldn't classify myself as low income but I've had women attempt to be sugar mamas by giving me shit all the time and expecting me to reciprocate with dick. I have my own money, tho.I'm more curious why I would be exciting/enticing to married women specifically. Like I said in the OP, they're not all older than me, I've had a few 22 - 25 year old married women do the same. My closest dude friend is older than me and constantly gets hit on by extremely young, single women with horrific daddy issues, like 15 and 16 year olds ogle over him constantly. Which is hilarious because he's gay, just not noticeably gay.
>>34041110This.
>>34045480How does your friend dress and act compared to you?You being a personal trainer might add to the older women's fantasy of scandal and escape
>>34046890He's much more clean cut than I am, we're the same height but he's a lot more lanky than me and kinda has buck teeth but he's blond/blue eyed all American type.I'm white too but darker complexion, I have very long hair that I usually keep up in a bun and a short beard. He has a tendency to just dress in whatever he's wearing at the gym (track pants, sneakers, some lacrosse or hockey shirt), I dress more outdoorsy when I'm not working.He's very structured, tho, went to private school and just has that kind of vibe, so that's the main thing I've guessed is the difference in our 'aura' as far as female attraction goes.
>>34044561>personal trainerThat explains everything you need to know anon.A woman getting a male trainer has a fetish on it and WILL fuck you on the slightest chance.
