I met this guy on /soc/ like 2 years ago (not dating for the whole time obviously) and now i am his extremely clingy and insanely obsessive online gf. Please help how do i not drive him away. are guys ok with this (what are signs guys are ok with this and what are traits indicating they am impartial to this in women) or do i need to relax so he doesnt hate me soon?? I am way overly obsessed i think about him all day 24/7 Please help i know there are women as crazy as me on here, pls can i have some advice from any crazy obsessed and limerent/insane in love women on here or men who know what its like to have a disgustingly obsessed gf or have friends with obsessive gfs?
>>34041865If he's such a loser he had to look for a girlfriend on /soc/ then he probably doesn't mind
>>34041865Don't try to change him. Don't get upset when he wants friend time or game time away from you. If you do want to do something together, let him know. Guys, especially /soc/ just want to feel loved and wanted without feeling bad about liking the other things they like or having their time over-managed for them. Only way you lose him is if you freak out on him if he doesn't want to do something.
U won't stay together eventually he'll get bored and find a new one even if u were the smartest, funniest check on this planet >unless u married or something
>>34041865Compulsive thinking. Very mentally ill but I've also been there. If you met him on /soc/ then just do whatever, just be yourself, easy come easy go. If it's real life and someone you actually want to marry/see a future with then you need to regulate yourself.
i haven't found one single person to talk to on soc
>>34041865Have you tried talking to *him* about it? If the relationship can't handle you asking him questions like that, you have no chance of it lasting in the long term.
online """relaionships""" are a meme. you're just penpals
>>34041865anything but taking your meds
>>34041865Reality check: you are not boy- and girlfriend. You are the 21st century equivalents of what used to be called Pen Pals.
