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Has anyone ever dealt with this? I have a thing going on with a neighbor. Ive only ever made small talk with her for the most part and only spent one evening with her in a social setting. A couple of months after that social event she walked straight up to me and told me she was in love with me and asked me to be her bf. I was taken aback by that, it really caught me off guard so I kind of excused myself.

I never heard of limerence before and someone mentioned it to me recently saying it sounds like that. I looked it up and she fits the description to a t. Ever since that interraction it seems to have planted a seed in my head and ive been thibking about her a lot. Whenever i see her in passing she always blushes and waves but doesnt talk much other than saying "hi". I dont know much about her other than that shes from a good family and shes pretty cute.

Has anyone ever had experience with relationships like this? Either being the limerent or the one as the desire of the limerent? I kibd of want to pursue it but my gut instinct tells me ill never be able to live up to whatever shes worked up in her mind as to what I actually am. Theres also a pretty significant age gap which im also apprehensive of.

Anyway just looking for advice from anyone thats experienced it or is knowledgeable about it. Is it doomed to fail if I do pursue it? Is it a bad idea?
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>>34042312
Why repost this shit
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>>34042315
When was it posted before? It said failed to upload and I went again and then it uploaded.
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this is constantly being posted. she is probably a waitress or something.
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>>34042329
Shes a college student but works part time at a sporting goods store
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Harassing this girl rn
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I didn't even read, I have no experience with this. It's unfortunate you do and that sucks for you.
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>>34042312
Get to know her but have a get out plan ready in case she is a psycho and wants your body parts,



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