Leave

>>34042954
More info.
Also it is quite likely you are hysterical.

You found someone hotter than him and have been cheating on him for about 3 months, haven't you?

>>34042977
But she can't call it cheating.
Give her an out: She was just seeing him. And they are good friends, now.

>>34042954
>I think
how do you "think" he's abusing you. is he or is he not? Did someone on the internet tell you he was?

>>34043000
She asked AI and got confirmed.

>>34042954
Stop being a faggot and find a girlfriend instead.

>>34042977
No, in fact i haven't talk with anybody at all, irl or internet

>>34042954
leave
get help
go to a women's shelter if you absolutely have to, they can help you
but hopefully you have some family/friends you can rely on

>>34042954
Elaborate, what has he done or not done? Either way if he has abused you or not, if you feel the relationship is damaging or non-sustainable you might want to consider ending things with him

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>>34043000
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>>34042977
antichrist posts
>>34043060
do this, OP
just get it over with, try not to overthink or worry
you'll be alright

>>34043000
I mean, yeah, forcing someone into have sex when they clearly said no multiple times, and then get mad at her and hurting her is abuse. I didn't knew how to post something like that, but everyone here end up thinking I'm a slut/ cheater when this is all because I'm asexual (sorry my english is kinda bad)

>>34042995
I haven't met anyone since we started dating, I barely go out and only have 2 friends (both girls btw) I usually just wait for him till night when we can talk

>>34043067
Once you have settled and come to the conclusion you awaited here, you can leave him and feel good about it.

You wanted to be confirmed but you went to 4chan. If you want to be confirmed, you need AI. This assistant is going to ask you the right questions so you can leave rationalized.

If you want real help, however, you are in the right place, as it seems.
Most women tend to say "no", in order to be not responsible. Thing has gone on for years. And you find out now that he was wrong.
Not that he is not wring, now. Maybe he really did something bad. Which is: He made you change how you see/respect him.
If you want to leave, base it on reality. Both of you consented for long enough.

>>34043067
Damn so he has been raping your for years huh that must suck huh

>>34043083
Sounds a bit autistic.
You know: on the bottom right on a computer you can check how many different people responded to your post. Just so you got a clue as to who answered. How diverse your thread is. Or if you get gaslighted by just 1 anon role-playing.

In any case:
Pic related claims 7 years of relationship. Did you get bruises from something not sex? Because things can get rough while playing.

Maybe you grew out of it. The female way to leave is to either gaslight or have him feel good about it. Or both.
If you want to leave after 7 years and never addressed it, at least don't give him a bad time by use of lawyers. As long as he leaves you alone. And honestly: if you really have the desire to leave, don't postpone it until you snap.
But give it careful consideration.
On omegle i was always confronted with my own words and reflections thereof. Was no good advice, ever.
Maybe talk to your female friends about it? They have more insight. More info on the matter.

I didn't understand well, I'm sorry, it's my first time posting something here.
It's more like he loves to have sex while I don't and he end up forcing me. We have talked about this alot of times, we even though about breaking up but when i tried that.. let's say it didn't ended up well for me. I still love him even thought and I'm afraid of leaving cause I'll be alone again

>>34043067
>when this is all because I'm asexual
then why do you even have a boyfriend? you're wasting his time and your time if you aren't compatible

We started dating when I was 12. It's not something I knew from the beginning and then developed a dependency on. It's not like we don't love each other; I'm sure I love him, and we've had some good times, but the bad ones are really bad.

>>34043179
Ultimately it is your responsibility.
Men used to be lied and gaslit because they are indeed more capable of physical acts of violence. Usually. So the weapons, women use, need to be non-physical.
4chan is mainly male dominated. People who have time to answer are usually unemployed. Same goes with reddit. You do not see the people you take advice from in person. That is not bad if you use logic as a filter. Common sense. But it could be some homeless who has a shit life since always. Could also be Jesus who was homeless, too. Or the Buddha.
You never know what advice you get. Nor where from.

>>34043214
How old was he, then?

>>34043226
Thanks, I'll keep that in mind. Like I said, it was the first time I'd posted anything because I just needed to get it off my chest.

>>34043232
15 but idk, where I live that's a normal age gap tho

>>34043238
I conclude that you needed a valve for your hysteria.
Feeling better, now?

So little info on you.
You were 12 and he was 15.
You are 18 now.
And now you are not sure if there are better dudes out there.
If he is half way decent, provides for you and has a job, he is not too bad of a deal. The dating market tries to tell women that they can have it all. I am not sure about it. The birth rates are going down.
Maybe, if you can, get a hold of a freshly newborn, smell it and gently touch his head.
Ask your father on your bf.

>>34043281
Samefagging...
Dude I hate those feminists who say "divorce, leave, etc." nit knowing anything. Just because the immediate solution concludes to feel like good advice.
They would have told a woman who was loayal since she was 12 to her then 15 year old boyfriend to leave him, as she is 18, now and is considered an adult.
The dating market is a hookup culture for most and it is really difficult to establish trust.
What you have there seems like a really good deal to me.
But ask your father.

What? We don't even want kids, and this is not about money or anything, I am continuing my studies, which I am paying for with my own money, and I plan to work hard to earn money on my own, this is about my own security and emotional well-being

I don't know if you're referring to me or someone else's comment, but I want to clarify that: 1) I'm not a feminist; I believe in equality, and for me, that should be a basic principle; and 2) my post isn't for people to tell me "just leave it," but rather to seek some advice to feel a bit better, since I assume I'm not the only one in this situation.

>>34042954
another heads-up:
https://9gag.com/gag/aGyr4Xz

>>34043322
You don't have to be a feminist to realise that if her boyfriend used to fuck a 12-year-old girl, that's not a good sign; the fact that the girl was her doesn't make it better.

>>34042954
Tell me, anon: if you had a good friend, or a sister, and she told you "My boyfriend forces me to have sex when I don't want to, and if I say no, he hurts me" - what would you be telling her to do?

>>34042954
Buck up. Boyfriend is practice for marriage.