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>>34043265Ladies, would you date a fat and balding guy?
vegeta is the king of chadlets, agree or disagree?
Women, are you kinky?
*casting a spell to give femanons cystic acne*
Me 5 minutes after meeting Sufemacisthttps://i.4cdn.org/gif/1765495892028134.webm
>>34043280i was, for some reason, not expecting this
>>34043280You turn into a skinny black chick and peg him?
>>34043272Fuck off
>>34043278Counterspell
>>34043287Sufemacist isn't a filthy moid
>>34043296Sufemacist is James Madison with a time machine
>>34043291It costs more than 2 mana now, boomer.
>>34043299This just made me laugh. Just imagine, if you will, that one of the writers of the federalists papers was also like that creature. On the one hand, an intellectual, and on the other, rabid in a gender war. I…I can actually see it
GenderHow have you met all your partners?Eg at a concert, through friends, etcIncels do you lift to get your arms the same size?
>>34043300If you think I don’t have the mana five turns into the thread then you’ve got another thing coming, dummy
>>34043304All the Founding Fathers were rabid misogynists in today's terms.
>>34043306Nah, you were too busy building up your artifacts and enchantments, and in your greed forgot to save the mana.
>>34043289my love of vegeta is in no way impeding your ability to get pegged by sufemacist
>it's now day 6 of my gf being in another depression spiral, barely responding to my messages and constantly saying i deserve better than herIs this just a thing women do? This is my third relationship in a row that has been like this.
>34043306>is moid>counters spell targeting foidsI hate kingmaking EDH-onlys like you wouldn't believe...
>>34043305i met my current partner in a video game, past bfs i met through school, clubs, or mutual friends.
>>34043313I’m afraid my U/B deck is all variations of “No, fuck you”
>>34043316Does it happen about once a month? No shit, a real question.
>>34043316Why are you only dating mentally ill women
>>34043318I’m actually playing two-headed giant with my other half, the divine feminineI fucking hate EDH tbqhwyfam
>>34043314I don’t care about that, fuck off and die
>>34043316Grim.
>>34043272I have an embarrassingly sincere appreciation for Vegeta and am a handsome man a couple inches shy of six feet, so yeah probably
>>34043272He would not be so angry if he was taller
>>34043335hot
>>34043328>I fucking hate EDHWhy?
Why are midget men far more chill and fun to be around compared to manlets?
>>34043340It’s soooooo slooooooowI like it every now and then but would really rather just play 2v2 or 1v1
>>34043342I don't hang out with a lot of midgets to confirm this
>>34043338Oh stop itShould I buy a BAD MAN shirt
>>34043321I'm know what a period is bro. Whatever this depression spiral is comes up every 3 or 4 months.
>>34043350Midgets don't make everything about their height and blame their height for all their problems despite being shorter than manlets. It's interesting.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dgyMLtadI04
>>34043353Where do you even find midgets
>>34043353Sample Size: None
>>34043353It's because dwarfism is a disease, while just being below average height is not some disease.
>>34043358Chocolate Factory, maybe the land of Oz
>>34043353They knew from the start so they learned to deal with it, most manlets don't find out they're manlets forever until they're 15 or so.
>>34043358>he doesn't know
>>34043363This, when you have a disability from the start you know the deal, being a manlet is a disappointment that slowly dawns on you, you aren't prepared
Must be very weird having a midget gf
>>34043345>It’s soooooo slooooooowThere are solutions to this problem.
>>34043366I bet it’s not too weird
>>34043296Quit samefagging bro it's futile when you sign every fucking post with 'moid'
>>34043311Even Adams?
>>34043367Power creep has gotten out of hand. I wish they would just start over.
>>34043377I wish I liked any other TCG as much as I like Magic and that it was anywhere near as easy to get anyone else to even play other TCGs with me.
We are so back
>>34043390No we're not.
>>34043392Please consult this post: >>34043390
>>34043342How many midgets do you know? To answer your question, it's probably because they're almost tall enough to get women. Like upper middle class people are the most uptight people I've ever met.
I made a Discord account and it was instantly disabled, why?
>>34043399I don’t know. That’s weird.
>>34043342krillin stans are the worst
>>34043385Here’s a quick life-hack: color printer, card sleeves and basic land cards. Make them decks for free if you want them to play with you.
>>34043399The Discord jannies don't like you obviously.
>>34043399You don't have enough cp on your hard drive.
>>34043399Ausfag? Social media got banned a few days ago.
>>34043404I didn't even join a server or send messages, it happened as soon as I activated the account. Could it be that I used a proton mail email?
>>34043267I supposedly read one book and didn't read the rest. I was just team edward because rob was hot, and vampires are cool. And I was more into long hair on jacob and he cut it, so sad.
>>34043408Proton and other more private email addresses are flagged by major companies. You need to have a throwaway gmail account or some other normie shit for it.
>>34043406No I'm in America.
>>34043399They searched your browse history.
>>34043408yes, i've been blocked for using proton before
>>34043272Sure.
>>34043408That could be it. I did a quick search, and it seems like someone else had the same problem.
>>34043406wait wtf? to what extent
Women, how fujoy are you?
>>34043408I have had no issues with protonmail and discord.
>>34043417…gritting your teeth that anyone could hold a candle to the true king of chadlets.
genderis she right?
>>34043403My group just isn’t willing to play any other card games, is all I mean.I’m happy to play magic with them, and I get that none of them are psychotic or autistic enough to play YGO with me.
>>34043296ntaYeah he is
>>34043430It means she's chad-only.
>>34043370That was sarcasm, anon.
>>34043425Surprisingly not like burn at the stake fujo-y. Just watched loveless once and like it when men kiss in movies casually.
>>34043428I think I can say with some degree of confidence that Prince Vegeta could obliterate Charlie with minimal effort
>>34043425I'm only able to enjoy gay shit when I'm not familiar with the source material, femboys are involved, and/or it's an AI bot. So not very.
Do you hate your husband and why
>>34043432So what’s the problem?
>>34043413I did it again with a gmail account and got the same thing happened, what the hell? Could it be that I put Dinkus in the username? Is that a slur now? I like that word.
>>34043440Do you lean sapphic?
>>34043443I would prefer some variety is all, and I have a bit of a love/hate relationship with Magic. Just minor gripes
>>34043441go to a wine mom facebook group for this kind of question
>>34043439Hey, that's blending fiction with real world. So illegal.
>>34043424Anyone under 16 is banned from Reddit, Facebook, Twitter, Youtube etc but the ban is so fucking badly implemented that's basically just banning people at random and demands you give your drivers license to get it back. The US and EU are cumming in their pants to implement it themselves soon.
>find girl into femdom>my literal dream come true, she's great and sweet and kind>im mostly just into simple stuff, her taking the lead and some basic collar stuff>months go by and she has been slowly escalating what she wants to do to me>its well past what im comfortable with but she is so fantastic in every way that I cannot resist saying yes and seeing her get giddy with excitement when she does it>basically every week she has a new idea and we're at outright painful and scary stuff but i am literally psychologically incapable of not being a yes-man What do I do in this situation (do not suggest breaking up anything else please)both genders are open to give advice
>>34043451I would watch the youtube essay about Charlie vs Vegeta
Oh fuck you know what it probably is? My little brother uses discord and he probably got banned or something and tried to evade and now our IP range is flagged.I guess I'll have to find another way to make friends.
>>34043439That was interesting.
>>34043462What the fuck am I looking at here
>>34043430>gender>is she right?I guess, but she didn't have to do what she did. Could have just punched him in the balls and face
>>34043459Damn, how edgy is your little brother?
>>34043451Challenge accepted
>>34043455You must have a stoplight safeword talk together. It is absolutely important that you be able to have an out. And establish protocol in case of an emergency should one of you lose consciousness.
>>34043459is ur little brother a roblox autist or something
>>34043455How bad is it?
>>34043447well it has been thirty. fucking. years. of this shit so far and the road is littered with the broken and blasted corpses of strictly better card games
>>34043464Working through ai images for vegeta as a real person.
0>>34043440So that gay hockey show isn't for you then?
>>34043472this weekend we got into >whipping>watersports>cutting she also enjoys punching me in the stomach but she isnt very strong and im actually kinda into that one. We have normal sex often too tho.
>>34043464>>34043451
>>34043462>>34043486Wtf is this goofy shit. Lmao.
>>34043486I can feasibly hear Chris Sabat’s voice coming out of this guy’s face
>>34043489>>34043490
>>34043493Bulma took this one
>>34043493Oh to be 2008 and in jersey.XD
>>34043496>>34043495Ai is a hell of a thing>https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q_4bp8bBNVw
>>34043483Sounds like you could end up with permanent scars
Long live Chairman Xi Jinping and the glorious CCP!
>>34043483>whippingI am jealous.
>>34043510Hey man if delusional bitter moids really want to live under the CCP's foot because they're mad about women, by all means they should go for it.
Ts pmo
>>34043512Don’t go starting whipping up these sexless simps into a frenzy.
>>34043512it is extremely painful actually to a point where i dont really feel warm from the pain anymore desu>>34043507nah the cuts arent too deep theres just a lot of them.
Why do women who obviosuly flirt with other men have boyfriends and I don't
>>34043526Because you secretly don't really want a boyfriend.
>>34043528Did you know that you're annoying and don't know anything
>>34043530It's the truth.
>>34043526Bc you don’t flirt?…
>>34043521Idk, I just like breaking shit sometimes. Whip cracks scratch an itch that pimple reels can't.
Why can an incel be exasperated by no one liking him but I cant. you're all retarded
>>34043530Hahaha, so that’s why. You’re just a cunt.
>>34043531It's not>>34043532I do but I definitely don't flirt when Im in a relationship and I definitely wouldn't date someone who does that >>34043536Yea because cunts and bitches never have boyfriends. I have observed that as well.
>>34043534I'm giving you permission to be exasperated, heppy?
>>34043526Because those men are cucks who take anything they can get
>>34043537>It's notIt is.If you don't believe me, go ask some random guy you like to be your boyfriend and see what happens.
>>34043537No, you’re the type of cunt who is only a miserable cunt. Those other cunts that you think are cunts, they flirt with guys and shit on ugly girls. You hate them bc they shit on you and have boyfriends. You’re the type of cunt that is just a fucking cunt. A miserable fucking cunt.
>>34043525Yep. That can be a kind of pain you might pass out from. It is important (for you) to breathe and (for them) to monitor a subject if you're going to do that long term. Also it shouldn't just be a straight wailing on you, take time, and analyze.
>>34043526Because those men are just trying to get laid consistently
>>34043467Quite, he thinks it's hilarious. My mom blames me for encouraging it, but I do tell him to be careful.
>>34043545Not her, but what does this make you?
>>34043558That hole asked a question. An anon gave a reasonable answer. Then immediately, she attacked him. She is just a miserable cunt. If it was her insecurities that made her wonder these things, she would have not immediately attacked an anon who gave a reasonable response. She is just a miserable fucking hole. That’s why she doesn’t have a boyfriend.
>>34043561Cool, but what are you?
>>34043548i mean its not really about the pain even, i just really dont feel comfortable doing a lot of this stuff to this level and i just need to find a way to wind things back without it being a big fight or making her feel bad.
>>34043541Okay fine>>34043545Yea tell me more genius
>>34043567Woah, wait. It's a fight to get her to take it slower? Bro, that's not nice or fair for you. You both have a say and you need to have boundaries or she's going to want to take everything out of you and it could end up badly.
Why TF are men into femdom but suddenly the strap on is too much???
>>34043576>Yea tell me more geniusYep, just a cunt.
Is that one anon really going to put on a strap on for his gf
"I love you."*plap*"I love you."*plap*"I love you."*plap*"I love you."*plap*
>>34043581That would be so emasculating.
>>34043580Who is meaner the person calling someone annoying for constantly replying the same stupid answer or the person calling someone gendered slurs
>>34043579>Why TF are men into femdom but suddenly the strap on is too much???It's not? But I like it when it's more gentle and intimate anyway.
>>34043581I FORGOT TO MENTION IM A GIRL I THOUGHT IT WAS IMPLIED
>>34043563A ball busted sub
>>34043590Not you
>>34043581Who?
>>34043586This is the internet, bitch. Get the fuck off if you want sunshine and rainbows. Your soul is being a cunt. That is why no one wants you. Because being a cunt is in your bones. The whores get men because they are whores. The innocent and insecure girls get boyfriends because they are honest and demure. You….you’re just a cunt.
>>34043593Sure looks like it, doesn’t it
>>34043590Oh, it was gay all along.You should probably figure out how best to fit it on you and go through the motions of thrusting with your body if you're not used to it. To some beginners it is very taxing.
>seeing this girl, had sex a couple times >she's overly fond of her dog (calls it her child), but pretty standard for childless women in their late thirties >went to fuck last night, moved from couch to her bed. Dog was there. >Asked her to put her outside >"No, why? She can just sit on the floor">Boner dies >She then goes on to talk to it (still on the bed) "Mommy's being a whore again isn't she?"This is pretty weird, right?
>>34043599Extremely. People are so fucking gross
>>34043581>>34043590Lol, can someone link the original post?
>>34043596Hey bud uh... Does someone need his cumsock and a nap?
>>34043599That is extremely weird
>>34043599Yeah, that screams furry in my senses.
>>34043605Here it is: >>34039758
>>34043274>Women, are you kinky?Yes. Very.>>34043278Based. The first porn video I ever masturbated to was Skin Diamond.>>34043305>How have you met all your partners?FMy first bf I met because my best friend needed me to be her wingwoman. I had a few dates after that from mutuals. Then my now wife hit on me while she was working. Then I met my second bf through an Army friend. Then I got back with my wife. >>34043579>Why TF are men into femdom but suddenly the strap on is too much???Because being dominated doesn't automatically mean wanted to get assfucked. They just want a woman to take charge, not destroy their prostate.>>34043599>This is pretty weird, right?Your boner dying from a dog being in your presence is weirder.
Dogs and cats get banished to another room if I want to have sex. What the fuck is wrong with some dog owners
>>34043278Oops, that was meant for >>34043280
>>34043596And what else?
>>34043581That was me. I agreed to yeah. Probably the lowest ive ever felt but idk i dont have much dignity anyway
>>34043620Yeah, and it's not just like evil, it's best for safety reasons. Cause if a condom or paraphernalia falls on the ground they might eat it and then expensive vet bill.
>>34043626If this is you, are you asking in earnest?
>>34043618Yeah, wanting to have sex next to an animal is definitely normal behavior. I'm sure.
>>34043618>Your boner dying from a dog being in your presence is weirder.I’m right there with him. I don’t want to be watched, certainly not by something as intelligent as a four-year-old
>have to go to work tomorrowtomorrow is supposed to be music day >:(
>>34043627Was it above your real dickYou can't let her treat you like that anon
>>34043624>>34043618>Skin DiamondAh, is that who that is? *takes note*
>>34043632>something as intelligent as a four-year-oldA four year old can talk.
>>34043630Of course
>>34043641They also have vocal chords and are socialized as humans from the moment of their births
>>34043638>You can't let heri have told myself that maybe 20 different times in rhe past 2 years nowhere we are
>>34043644Ah well I’m retarded and dogs also have them and I misspelled cord, but otherwise I stand by my assessment that it’s basically like having a toddler in the room
>>34043644A dog is nowhere near as smart as a four year old. This is just bullshit dog owners tell themselves.
>>34043641Dogs can understand words. They just can't reproduce them with their facial anatomy
>>34043631You would never survive the days dire wolves were barely domesticated.>>34043640>Ah, is that who that is?Yepperoni>>34043632Can't even match the freak of a dog mom. What happened to real men?
>>34043653NTA but they understand tone, not words
>>34043651I was pretty off; the study I was thinking of compared them to 2–2.5-year-olds.Too weird for me to feel comfortable having in the room while I have sex with someone
>>34043655>Can't even match the freak of a dog mom. What happened to real men?You’ve at least got to admit that “mommy’s being a whore, isn’t she” is creepy as fuckNo free shows for dogs or cats in my bedroom, sorry
>>34043584Him to me :)
>>34043657They don't understand things like grammar and syntax, but they can recognize names and commands.
>>34043630Come on
>>34043661I'm mostly shitposting, but yeah. Especially since she said "again," meaning this dog has seen some shit.
>>34043584Less talking. More plapping.
>>34043615Ouch. Thanks.
>>34043667Due to tones. Try calling them a dumb piece of shit but with a loving tone
Wouldn't want a dog in the room while having sex in case the noise freaks it out and it attacks.
>>34043655>You would never survive the days dire wolves were barely domesticated And I bet you can't even bench your body weight
>>34043669>this dog has seen some shit.Welp, the internet has taught me some things about women and their dogs…
>>34043674What's the tonal difference between sit and shake?
>>34043677>t. can’t bench 375
>>34043672Anon can you fucking imagine.
Girls, if your boyfriend sometimes suffered from really bad headaches, would you suck his dick while he's laying in bed without expecting anything in return?
Guys, wtf, I just saw an ad for vape viagra? You guys don't need that shit. God said your dick is broken and that should be the end.
>>34043681Intonation of “sii” vs “Shay”
>>34043661>mommy’s being a whore, isn’t she
>>34043686Does that help?
>>34043691I don't know but I have a headache and I wish I was getting my dick sucked right now.
>>34043686Am I not allowed to top him or something?
>>34043695Why do you have a headache?
>>34043690Don’t you dare sully jasmine.
>>34043691It's worth a try
>>34043698I don't know, I think it might be sinus related. And my place of work is not exactly quiet and peaceful so that just makes it worse. Sometimes I feel nauseous by the end of the workday when I have a headache.
>>34043689That seems to be a confusion of the difference between intonation and tone.
>>34043704Suck it up, pussy.
>>34043708I couldn’t remember the word intonation until that post
>>34043687Is it supposed to work faster or something? I imagine it kind of ruins the mood to have to wait 20 minutes for the pill to kick in.
>>34043710The jeets have entered the thread.
>>34043677>And I bet you can't even bench your body weightI can and have. I can also DL nearly three times my weight.>>34043678>Welp, the internet has taught me some things about women and their dogs…I pray for that dog that the woman isn't white>>34043698>Why do you have a headache?Not getting your dick sucked is a migraine trigger. Read more.
all this femdom talk is making me wish there was a better word for the woman than the generic mommy thingim actually kinds into all of it but that specific word is just too gross and takes me out of it
>>34043716Mistress?
>>34043716Mami>>34043717Goddess
>>34043618Have you ever pegged a guy?
>>34043713Ok dude
>>34043630I'm waiting
>>34043716>>34043717MThe only one i can bring myself to say is mistress
So discord is out of the question, how the fuck am I supposed to make friends now?
>>34043715>I can and have. I can also DL nearly three times my weightMuscle mommy!
>>34043725Vidya?
>>34043723Cunt
>>34043715>3x bw DLHow many reps?
Have you noticed that everything is speeding up? Everything is getting faster and faster. Just look at civilization progress in the last 6000 years. Look at progress in the last 100 years. Look at progress in the last 10 years. For billions of years before that it was just life slowly getting more complicated, and for billions of years before that it was nothing but matter floating around.People talk about a technological singularity but I think what we’re approaching is more like a time singularity, a point where all events simultaneously happen at once. It might happen a lot sooner than we think too. As time speeds up, things progress faster and faster.
>>34043730I kinda gave up on multiplayer games, they make me rage and I have enough stress in my life. And in all my years playing tf2 I never made friends on there, beyond some people I knew simply because we frequented the same server.
>>34043731You said that already
>>34043731Weeeeak
A masochist and a sadist walk into a sex dungeon, the masochist says to the sadist "hurt me" the sadist says "no".
>>34043735Yeah. I noticed. I felt like I breathed and it's been two weeks.
>>34043719>Have you ever pegged a guy?No, but not for a lack of trying. Sadly, I'm into masculine guys and they aren't very open with their backdoor. >>34043725Go outside or find a hobby and start interacting with the community for that hobby.>>34043733>How many reps?One, but it's weird because I can take a little weight off and bang out several reps. Like my squat ORM is 335, but I can do four reps of 315. >>34043744I get it. It didn't make me laugh, but I get it.
>>34043716I feel like a lot of my sexual insecurity comes from the idea that I don't think women are into being dominant
>>34039842mate I've not gone anywhere lol............ I'm just trying to make an honest living rn not robbing shit and selling drugs lmaoI'm in a supermarket job and it's really good!!!!! and I'm doing good work there they say......... xmate I'm kinda fucked up tonight cuz need to be up in 1hr but whatever.........................................this job is good and I'm doing well and I'm not having to turn to crime..... just please let me have this haters.... ;_;Ok so I'm sleeping over with a hot MILF, but i'm not a sexhaving normie so it's just a sleepover.....................................She fell asleep and I'm watching brandy & mr. whiskers lmao on YT TV on her TVI need to beup in 1hr for 9hr shift again xD fml...........................I'll catch up properly soon but please just let me have this one minor win in my pathetic little life, thank you xxxI should've stayed sober and got 8hr sleep @ home but life#s a bitch.......... is alll I can say rn............ 'm sorruy for spamming just needed to update the haters.............
>>34043754I think a lot more women would be open to it if we weren't fed the idea that we should be meek and submissive and men won't want you if you're not meek and submissive. That also comes with the idea that we are filling our gender role and feel an inherent disgust with men that don't fill theirs. The more we move away from that, the more we are open to that femdom dynamic and realizing that bedroom roles don't define your relationship.I'm lowkey a little too drunk to know if this makes sense to other people, so let me know.
>>34043735Honestly, a full day only feels like 5-7 hours now.
>>34043766I don't know if I fully beleive that though because it seems like most of the female oriented romance is male domination, and women are more into men being dominant than men are into women being submissive
>>34043752Do you go for butches or femms on the female side?
>>34043761I will say tho. Fuck normies and fuck sexhavers. Obvs they are an important part of atoga, but as a truecel I must join the rebellion. My hands are proper frozen. this is the state of all us poor niggers in UK. Fuck the white collar niggers fuck them alll o lLLLLLL Xoxoxoxoxoxoxooxoxozozzozo\ozoozozozozoozozozozoozo.I'm on a lot of drugs................I don't understand why girls only like me when I'm loadedI wish that once in my fucking incel life that a girl let me sleep over when I was sober.I'm sorry I'm just upset........................Why do women hate sober losers?? Is it because we're losers??Why do i need to do drugs to sleep with girls???? fkn why ;___;It's so fucckedd. Focus on ur pets and cats and hobbies and make techno
>>34043770They go hand in hand imo. But I always say I think the reason most women that do get off to rape/male dom stuff do so is because of plausible deniability. We are shamed for wanting sex, so the only time that shame isn't ours is when it is someone forcing us. And we definitely get shamed for being g victims of sexual assault irl. But in the fantasies, you're not the slut that wanted it.
>>34043785Are women shamed for wanting sex with their husbands?
>>34043779Femmes. I can tolerate some masculinity and androgyny, but I hate butches. I think most lowkey want to be men but lack all of a man's redeeming qualities while reinforcing the worst ones. One of the funniest things I ever read was about how women will transition and turn into the type of gyy they would make fun of when they were a woman and that's so true. >>34043791No, but i think nist women with those fantasies aren't married or at least married to the type of guys they fantasize about.
>>34039842 sorry I wll just say I'm working really really hard rn... need to be up for work again in 1hr xD what's the fucking point as an incel loser tho?? save money for my cats or my stupid fucking cat orphange pikpe dream? I'm staking p's but I'm still a really lonle yperson. I can ketchup sun or monday night. xx
Question for the guys of /adv/. For context, I'm a woman with a lot of hang-ups about intimacy, never done anything with another person. I'm trying to work through those issues now with a a guy I've been "seeing" for the past month and a half. We've talked about it a bit, and he seems supportive and understanding. I'm close to being ready to break the ice a little bit and I have something in mind to the extent that my comfort levels could probably allow for it, but I'm also like, this could turn out really awkward, this is probably a stupid idea.My idea is masturbating while he holds me or while on top of him, but he can't touch my vag (or my butthole, should go without saying... but I would probably be okay with him touching me anywhere else) and he can't take off his pants. The reasons why I don't want to do mutual masturbation which would be more normal is because I think it would feel lonely and humiliating for me, and frankly I'm not ready for a penis to be directly involved yet. Feel free to laugh at me. So what's in it for him, I ask myself. He can see, touch (within limits), hear and (maybe) taste me, learn what I like, talk dirty, and knowing myself I would want to kiss and press/nuzzle myself into him during and after. I have doubts that it's ENOUGH to be enjoyable on its own on his side. So what I'm trying to find out is, without bullshitting to me, would most men find that enjoyable as a one-time thing or would it probably be boring and awkward? I'd take this question to him first instead of strangers on the internet, but I'm worried he'd encourage it without thinking about what it would actually be like for him and then might end up not liking it once it happens.
>>34043785Hot take that's probably schizo but I think the reason for the sex double standard is partially due to the domination aspectIf a woman was a slut but she was the pursuer and was the dominant one when she did it I feel like it would be seen as less bad
>>34043810Words
>>34043810I’d think it was a little unusual but would probably go for it.
I wish the sexual dimorphism ratio for humans was 10x greater. I wish women just shat themselves at the sight of a man because he’s the size of a Dark Souls boss.
>>34043810This is honestly so hot and I’d be flattered if I could do this for a woman I was seeing
my boss today told me im a natural leader :)
>>34043824x
MenWould you be cool with being the (hypothetically) 10/10 in looks trophyhusband, who the wife uses for physical and emotional intimacy, but is otherwise closer with her ugly male friends who share her hobbies?
>>34043810I would like it just because it's something so specific that you would want.
>>34043810I think you are way overthinking something like this. You’re talking about a man touching you for 30 minutes while you masturbate and act like that is some great ordeal.I’m pretty sure I’ve given head for longer than 30 minutes at a time without my girlfriend touching my dick. Most guys would be completely okay with this and probably enjoy it, and at worst they would get bored after a while.
>>34043430FYes.
I am uncomfortably turned on at the idea of holding a woman while she masturbates. Femanon is pure evil for making me read that
>>34043828Probably not, I want a relationship with my women where we are one of soul
>>34043828No. I want a wife not a fuckbuddy.
>>34043824translation: you're unable to deal with being told what to do
>>34043455set boundaries, it’s not that fucking hard. don’t say yes to thinks you aren’t super comfortable with. if you can’t outright say no, either ask yourself if this is a safe person or just say “maybe not yet, but I’m open to exploring this with more time”
>>34039842 I have a really sweet job and life rn and I'm still so fucking depressed.I think bc I'm not like the happy sexhavers here in atoga.I can talk tomoz after work or sun but I'm so depressed and idk why.Talk soon xx but I'm really really upset rn. I'm almost a wizard. I must be super ugly but I look in the mirror and I'm good looking?? Idk what is wrong with my personality?????????? fuck all of this lol. xxxxxxxxxxxx
State genderDo you think your dad lays good pipe?
>>34043828I don’t mind the idea of my wife having male friends, but the idea of being “used” in any way or her being closer to other men than she is to me doesn’t sit well with me at all.
Do any of the foids here like Sillypoo?
>>34043837translation: im gonna get a fat raise because im god and people recognize me as such
>>34043483letting her cut you is insane. that’s permanent damage on your body. have some more self respect desu.
>>34043840you talk like a fag lmao
>>34043841No clue, but I have a big dick so I often wonder if I got it from him. The worst shit is that I look like him and he used to get lots of chicks while I get none. I guess he had that white trash riz.
>>34043832What does it mean?
someone feed me a smashburger with fried onion and a dash of mushroom vinegar sauce mixed into the hamburger meat, homemade fresh tomato ketchup on toasted fresh buns
>>34043847fuck off i acc do't have time for this lmaoI need to be up for work agian in 1hrIj'm going to fucking crash out
>>34043841Male. My dad had been dead for years so I’d say no.When he was alive, I’m not sure. On the one hand my mom has told my sister before she is asexual. On the other hand my mom is completely nuts, so I don’t know. I would say he probably wasn’t that good but also didn’t have the best partner to help him grow in that department.
>>34043850What’s in it for Anonymous
>>34043581Owning a strap on, possessing it would feel so degenerate to me. I would not want that shit in my house. Sorry anons.
>>34043828>dating a woman who has a group of orbiters while I look like the asshole because I’m the one actually fucking her
>>34043841MConsidering he has 4 kids from 3 baby mamas, probably
someone feed me their big yellow titties and (biological) snatch
>>34043770You are my second most hated poster
>>34043599ew. You having sex s someone like that is honestly a turn off, have some standards for yourself
>>34043845extremely unlikely
Asking other dudes, is there ever a point where loneliness becomes too much? I'm kind of stuck in life, I just keep ruminating on mistakes and I can't seem to find a way forward on life that doesn't seem soul-draining. At times I just want to be a degenerate and fuck hookers all day, but I can't find it in me to neglect my responsibilities or pay for sex/relaaationships, still want take care of family and remain morally consistent. I wish being an incel would let me just hate women and live under grand delusions but I can't. I don't want to hurt anybody.
I’m almost sad I missed out on soctoga
>>34043858>yellow uhm wtf... have they gone rancid?
>>34043810If he respects you he will go along with it. Grabbing some tiddies and listening to her moan, sounds fun
>>34043579I remember tying my ex bf’s hands with his belt one time. Or lightly choking him while on top. Or pushing back a little tiny bit. Things like that. Or I would do this thing where I would play into the idea of consent, so when I would start touching or teasing his dick, I’d be like “can I?” And he seemed to like that. Closest I’d get to butt stuff was like rubbing the spot between the genitals and the booty, but not all the way in cuz that’s kinda gross. Or telling him he can’t touch it/interfere stuff like that. Besides stuff like that tho I’m a sub or a brat. Lol. sry tmi.
>>34043865what happened there?
Glad I switched to brood war. These RSL Offline Finals got NO bitches in the audience. Sad!
how does it feel to have your penis enveloped by a vagina
>>34043873Nudes, I can only assume
>>34043877Meh
>>34043716would you like it if I cocked your head back and fed you my tits? and while you sucked on them rubbed your hair a bit? And then maybe pull it out push you back and start grinding on it? hmm hmm ok
>>34043864>becomes too muchDefine that
>>34043785Honestly true>>34043791Sometimes, yeah… feel like some men are more comfortable being the ones who initiate it
>>34043852>mom told sis she was asexualYour dad slung phenomenal dick, no doubt
>>34043840you’re fine , and trust me shavers aren’t happy
>>34043864>Asking other dudes, is there ever a point where loneliness becomes too muchno, not really
>>34043841Notice how only men would ask and answer a question like this.
>>34043883Too overbearing, or too defining of a trait to be removed. Hence the line about fucking hookers. Paying for connection seems more of an option even if I find myself mortified by the prospect.
>>34043877Warm hug, it’s like going into a hot shower but only your pp is doing it
>>34043894because the women already know the answer?
>>34043894Alright bitch, do you think your mom has whack pussy?
What does Nona mean? I see people use it, is it a person?
>>34043841fprobably, yeah he keeps having gf's that have this kind of hypersexual vibe, so I would assume fucking is a big part of their uuh, compatibility
>>34043900It’s the feminine form of anon
>>34043849to me, means you’re special. I love you or I really want to please you, or I didn’t mind having your dna inside of me. I read somewhere like if you swallow semen or even exchange spit while kissing that persons dna will be inside of u for 3 years? Idk if it’s horseshit but it kinda made me ocd about those kind of things after that. I don’t typically like swallowing
>>34043900It’s an Italian sorta way of saying grandma
>>34043864>Asking other dudes, is there ever a point where loneliness becomes too much?Yes, and I’ve been there for like a year now.I guess it’s not “too much” in the sense that I’ve lost all hope of meeting a woman I want to marry, but I pretty much feel like I have a common cold 24/7 and frequently find myself wanting to talk to a person that just doesn’t exist.It’s not a good life.
>>34043900Meant to be a cutesy way to say “femanon”
>>34043900It’s what posters on Crystal Cafe call each other
>>34043900pet name for anon
>>34043903I assumed as much but wanted to read it. Ty.
>>34043912of course
>>34043895forget hookers, get involved in some discords for stuff you like, start talking to people more, plus distract yourself with slop while trying to make friends at work, connect with old friends, talk to weirdos on /soc/
>>34043915I hope I get that experience again someday. Spent nine years of my life in relationships and only got that once
>>34043903>if you swallow semen or even exchange spit while kissing that persons dna will be inside of u for 3 yearsidk about that but if you swallow it slightly reduces your chance of miscarriage
Sad man is sad
>>34043927sucks you're dick
>>34043841my dad killed himself lmao and my mom cheated on him w chad>>34043890thank you kindly mate but honestly I'm just really fucking depressed and an incel. I'm gonne be all smiles and sunshine at work in an hour for 9hr shift but I really want to die.
>>34043929Cums but it’s only text and I’m alone
I try not to think about it but I do wonder what my ex meant by saying he had “crazy sex” with a girl - apparently one that didn’t want to be exclusive w him and was bugging out on him for “no reason” (he’s gaslighting or she was actually genuinely unstable) either way pathetic but he made sure to stick those details in there for me. not sure what reaction he wanted but it’s hard not to wonder and then feel like shit y’know? mostly tho I’m good. Icked out, even.
>>34043940>details like what?
>>34043945the ones I mentioned. No real details.
>>34043890I' mnt efen gonna flirt with the milfs totday desudeat 222 sall sexhaesr..zzz...........soz brevI got fucing loeaded I need to stop doing drugzzzzzzzzzzz
>>34043952lame he probably just liked the intensity be a bit more desperate for his dick and he'll forget about it in no time
>>34043954hehe u silly. Get some rest my eyes are closing
So I’m not a super hairy guy but I got this little triangle patch of fuzz right on the small of my back. Should I shave it or let it be? I’m a male btw.
>>34043955I don’t want to be.Just makes me wonder n compare myself, but idek what im comparing to lmaolame is right
>>34043958back hair is gross, yeah don't shave it, wax it
I’m annoyed. I want to date so badly, but I’m not looking for anything short term and am less than half a year away from moving.I miss having a woman I love in my life.
>>34043961Yuck
>>34043963Cool
>>34043959>I don't want to be which is why he fantasizes about the one girl that was and will continue to do so
>>34043940>crazy sexwhatever you think stanley was doing to stella
Women what's your body count and how many of them did creampie you?
>>34043274I have no experience but I think so.
>>34043970Zero!
>>340439709 and 9
>>34043974marry me
>>34043976All long term relationship?
I want to take care of a pregnant woman so badly. I want to snuggle her, feed her delicious foods, feel my baby kick, watch my investments rise, buy a new house, glue myself to my girl and never let go.The notion of being a supportive husband is more enticing to me than the notion of having a wife. All everyone cares about is sex nowadays. Like, whatever happened to afterplay?
>>34043986It's really not all that glamorous...
>>34043986Drop the portfolio
>>34043987Same could be said about raising a child in general. Sometimes, you have to look past the stinky and the bad, as with anything in life.>>34043988Hapa twink with a hefty family inheritance. Business degree with a minor in Accounting to diversify my assets.
>>34043990Is everyone here a silver spoon?
I just want to talk to a chick and pick her brain. I don't understand how women work or how they think and I want to.
>>34043982longtermish
>>34043993whats there to not understand? humans are humans
>meet a girl at a coffee shop 2 weeks ago>chat for a few minutes, she's friendly, we talk about arcades>trade numbers and agree to go to an arcade together sometime>she texts me later that evening>i tell her lets meet up this weekend>she says shes busy, will be available in 2 weeks>ok, kinda long time, but we agree on a date to go>text her a few days ago to confirm plans>no response>date we agreed to go is tomorrow. still nothingI'm bummed out, I was really looking forward to that
I don't miss her.I miss the chances we had, the person I thought she was.
>>34044002daddy chillshe was probably ovulating and now is menstruating and not feeling it make plans for in two weeks when she is in heat again
Is unironically reading smut a way to learn how to be a Dom or am I stuck being a bottom forever [spoiler] I have met too many girls interested im being brat littles [/spoiler]
>>34044007NtaWomen have no idea how hard it is for a man sexually.We don't have the luxury of being less horny, we are always in fucking GO mode. If I don't unload my cum twice a day, I get tense.
>>34044010my bad g have you tried having a harem?
>>34044007chat is this real?
>>34044011They'd just sync up.
>>34044013not if you keep them away from each other use your brain big boi >>34044012ye
>>34043992I live like a pig. Janiting public transit while building my portfolio. So yes, kind of, but I'll basically never see that money until my parents kick the bucket. Not that I'm looking forward to that.
>>34044007dawg im gonna be out of town in 2 weeks, I would have to wait another whole ass monthLife is too damn short for cuties to be canceling plans because they're menstruating
So I was watching tiktok and found a gym video, like strange things that happen in the gym part 67. There was a skit where a guy was using 40 lb dumbbells and a girl came up like>hey, are the 10s free? can I take themAnd he’s like yeah sure, and she took them. This happens constantly to me, but after that I went to read the comments and one of the most liked was>girl just liked you and wanted to make a convoIs this true? I always thought girls are just chatty and it means nothing when they’re constantly bothering me with some nonessential talk like pretty clouds today. So I always try to cut it short and go on with my business (having fun)
>>34044019You have no idea what it’s like to starve
>>34044024I don't
>>34044022guess no fertile pussy for you then breh
>>34043272I know a chadlet who got on roids and his face is in craters now, kek. His facebook pic is of his roided back where he looks to the side and you can still see his face scars.
Hey, femanons, how have the threesomes been?
>>34044024You kinda did that to yourself by not eating.
>>34043996They're different and they do weird things.
>>34044023If the 10s are on the rack, of course they're free, everybody knows thatIf she asks you if dumbbells on the rack are free she's trying to get your attention probably
>>34044032like what? >>34044030it was alright
>>34044036>it was alrightIs it not as exciting as it sounds?
Why are foids like this?
>>34044036>like what?I don't know exactly that's why I want to know more. You people are just weird to me.
I wanted to do something today that I had planned for yesterday.But I woke up and was just kind of tired, think it took me too long to fall asleep yesterday. Maybe tomorrow. Hopefully tomorrow...I'm just going to shower and get some groceries.
>>34044038most things aren't but maybe thats a skill issue >>34044040autism strikes again
How black do you want your bf/gf to be?
>>34044039Because one benefits them and the other doesn't. The man is expected to pay for the whole date, while men are also expected to give half of their wealth to women. Women, of course, are not held to any standard.
>>340440430%also, is this AI?
>>34044043Custom built 4 BWC
>>34044045Yea I realized it shortly after posting though
>>34044047the apple logo should have given it away huh
>>34044045>>34044047Wait, you're right. She is now built 4 BBC
>>34044049I wonder how that works.
There's a girl at the orthodox church I've been attending; she doesn't ever stay for coffee/lunch afterwards. But if I see her before she leaves, she'll give me a big hug and talk to me a little bit before leaving. I'm not really sure if this is grounds to ask her out though.
I think I'm going to buy some fish.
>>34044051thats just how girls act in church to be the most christian in the room
>>34044051Oh and I forgot to mention that she doesn't seem to interact with any of the other young men at church at all, only me. So that's why I feel like maybe I should try.
>>34044052fih
>>34044051Church girls are cute. But I'm a manlet, so I don't see the point of attending their events to get a gf.
>>34044057I wish I felt gulugulu in my stomach.
>>34044059is that an euphemism?
>>34044054Slam that hoe pussy into the altar, make her scream inshallah.
>>34044050BWC is for genuine black hotties only
>>34044060Yeah.
>>34044043I don't. I am racist, I think some black women are pretty. I just don't want them that's all.
Either gender. Do you see any job positions as red flags?Sometimes I wonder about EMTs, ICU Nurses, and other jobs where experiencing death firsthand is commonplace is something I should worry about when looking for someone to build a life with.
>>34044064high five
>>34044063There's that final line in Kanye West's "Gold Digger" that always gets me:>And then he'll leave your ass for a white girl
>>34044066fhaving a job is a red flag
>>34044069imagine having bumble merch
>triggered the homo aw sheit
I checked out of societyYeah, I went home from a party to go to bed.
>>34044075>partyhell naw
>>34043979Okay. Who are you?
>>34044077your father
>>34044066MA woman acting as if shitposting on 4chan and running discord servers is her job.I know from personal experience that type of person should not be given any serious thought.
>>34044079ewwww that the fuckkk
>>34044073>>34044075I do wish that females would suffer somehow, but men not working just means that rich Chads have bigger harems than before.
I've cum 8 times since I got home like 9 hours ago today.
>>34044085ewwww that the fuckkk
>>34044085https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=STVAl9nr3Hw
>>34044042>autism strikes againWhat do you mean? I want to know more about you.
>>34044079
>>34044066Office non-jobs that are basically just desk monkeying and juggling nonsense numbers and figures. Any person who's happy with that kind of "work" was probably born without a soul
>>34043271I know a bald guy I'd date, if he was fat too I'd try to make him lose it
>>34044079This shit looks incredibly painful and unpleasant. I hate men so fucking much.
>>34044105I'd be gentle with you bb girl.
>>34044105The weak should fear the strong.
Gypsy girls are very cute.
>>34044111There's this actually cute one with nice tits that was soooo fucking eager to please a white western Euro dick, just in the hope he'd get her out of her shithole.
>>34044112Posted it again award.
>>34044110He jerks his dick off that hard and thinks women would feel just as good if he did the same to them. He sees piss spurting out from the pressure and think she's cumming from pleasure. That man is a low empathy gooner.
>>34044113I got approached by a cute one for a scam. I think back that I could have touched her while asking her more questions about her scam.
>>34044111You know what I've realized?Gypsies and Spanish people look oddly similar.I don't know a ton of gypsies though, so I can't tell if their mentality is similar too.
>>34044116What was the scam? Was she trying to sell you some rosary beads or shit?If she was desperate, you could have gotten a blowjob out of it for a few bucks.
>>34044119She was pretending to be deaf and wanted me to sign up for something. >If she was desperate, you could have gotten a blowjob out of it for a few bucks.Have you done that, kek? Not a bad idea but the cute ones probably already have bfs. Maybe I'll try next time and we'll go behind a bush.>>34044117I would say gypsies look more brown and have that Roma/half-Indian complexion while Spaniards have more European blood.
>>34044125>Have you done that, kek?No, I don't really get approached by scammers. Probably because I am on the taller side and they are intimidated by that. Or I look spooky and not like an easy victim, I don't know.>Not a bad idea but the cute ones probably already have bfs.Maybe, but if she really was a scammer, she probably would do it anyway. See it as a test of character.
>>34044133Grow up.
>>34044030>Hey, femanons, how have the threesomes been?Haven't had the pleasure.
>>34043841>Do you think your dad lays good pipe?FProbably. My mom seems to have no complaints, and she complains about everything.>>34043865>I’m almost sad I missed out on soctogaI showed my abs and butt on there.>>34043970>Women what's your body count and how many of them did creampie you?If other women count, 7. If not, 3. And two of them gave me the baby gravy.>>34044030>Hey, femanons, how have the threesomes been?Non-existent, thanks for reminding me.>>34044066>Do you see any job positions as red flags?Yeah, high stress jobs. They tend to come with a lot of baggage and those issues seep into your personal life. Like I would never date a cop or anyone that works in an ER. Too high of a chance of abuse and cheating.>>34044069>And then he'll leave your ass for a white girlA lot of black men guage their success this way. They like to put white women on a pedestal that says "I made it" while denigrating black women, for nothing more than social status.>>34044085Based>>34044111>Gypsy girls are very cute.Esmeralda set the bar too high. Broke my heart when I found out Gypsies were actually Indian.
>>34044135What do you mean. I see shit on the internet and it pisses me off all day. That's actually why I started avoiding political spaces online.
>Be careful who you start dating. A lot of people ain't looking for love, they're looking for help.Wish I knew and realized this before I met her.
>>34043265Girls, do you like sperm?
>>34044149relationships are only for sane peopleiow, nobody
I have lost 20 pounds from the start of the year. I'm 6ft tall and I was 185lbs and now I'm down to 165 and I STILL HAVE FUCKING LOVE HANDLES, FUCK. I just want to look good with my shit off.
>>34044154You likely lost muscle too, so it's not 20 lbs of fat, and it may have been water weight. The issue is that you never lose fat cells, even if you lose weight.
>>34044154That's a normal weight, for both M and F.
>>34044161I've been staying active.>>34044162Yeas but I don't look good with my shirt off. I'm gonna get a gf in 2026 and I need to look good for this hypothetical woman.
>>34044163Seeing getting a gf as a goal to achieve rarely works out. It should happen naturally.
>>34044163>Yeas but I don't look good with my shirt off.Most women don't care about the details, as long as you aren't overweight.But if you are really that insecure about yourself at a perfect weight, start working out your tummy specifically.
>>34044125This one is apparently a Czech gypsy porn actress and she could just as well pass as a Spaniard imo.
>>34044163What a feminine post
>>34043280I wish this had sound. I wanna know what she's saying.
>>34044170Is she good?
>>34044042Was it FFM or MFM?
>>34044184ffm
>>34044105>>34044082What'd I miss?
>>34044167Thank you I will, I need to work on core stability anyway.>>34044172Fuck you too faggot.
>>34044189Massaposting
>>34044189black girl getting finger blasted and squirting
>>34044189Black chick getting finger banged super hard and squirting.
>>34044144>Esmeralda set the bar too highRomaArmy on youtube is pretty hot
>>34044186Good girl
>>34044186Did you like the woman?
>>34044196No.
>>34044150>Girls, do you like sperm?Depends on whose.
>>34044197uhm >>34044199she was ok
>>34044202doesn't all sperm taste the same?
>>34044201Guess my tat fetish is showing.
>>34044008Being a dom isn't something you can learn. Being a *top* requires a great deal of study (factual stuff, not smut) but being a dom is something you have to feel.
>>34044203Can you tell us a bit more?
>>34043940I think you should be asking why he's emotionally abusing you.
>>34043903>Idk if it’s horseshitIt definitely is.
>>34044144>If other women count, 7Wasn't it only 2 last year? Can you leave some for the rest of us?
>>34044203What would you have changed about it?
>>34043877>how does it feel to have your penis enveloped by a vaginaDepends on the vagina in question. There's a surprising amount of variation between them.
Just took the greatest photo of myself that’ll ever exist
>>34044215we've already been over this yesterday, is this a daily thing for you? >>34044226I think she had a crush on my bf, which made it a bit weird, I think it would have been better if there was no such dynamics
>>34043903Not their DNA, but your body will produce new cells using the nutrients in their semen. That includes neurons, which I think is pretty hot. Oral sex literally makes you a part of each other.
>>34044212She is not pretty regardless of tattoos.
>>34044232Oh, that is awkward.
>>34044235yeah, a little bit
Why don't lonely black girls just date white guys? There seems to be a lot of interest in pic women according /v/
>>34044233By that definition, every animal you've ever eaten meat from is now a part of you.
>>34044144>I showed my abs and butt on thereWas that a long time ago?
>>34044242No. Most of your cells aren't permanent.
>>34044207>doesn't all sperm taste the same?No! Depends on genes, and strongly on diet.
>>34044239Poc*
>>34044196Crackwhore pickme >>34044224It was 3 last year. My wife, my ex, and my best friend. >>34044228Every photo with you is the greatest to ever exist. You're so gorgeous.>>34044239Because white guys want the idea of a black woman, not the reality. It's easy enough to find someone attractive, but it's another overcoming cultural differences.
>>34044245Like 3 or 4 years ago
>>34044247what diet makes good sperm?
>>34044249What's the reality like?
>>34044249O-oh, thanks Actuary
>>34044234Pretty isn't necessarily the same as hot. Gianna Michaels is hot, but not pretty.>>34044249Yeah, she's a pick me. But there's plenty of misandrists I'd smash, so I don't see why the opposite would be unkosher.
>>34044249>It was 3 last year. My wife, my ex, and my best friendSo who else is new besides the gym guy?
>>34044249>my best friendWhat was the occasion?
>>34044249Girls will never beat easy mode allegations...
>>34044266Does she get more pussy than you?
>>34044253>What's the reality like?The reality is that you usually run in different circles, have different values, and usually aren't accepted by the other's family. A white man can never truly know the living experience of a woman of color, and women of color tend to downplay the lived experience of white men due to being on the outside looking in. >>34044255>O-oh, thanks ActuaryDe nada, hermoso >>34044259>So who else is new besides the gym guy?Shit, I've said too much. It was my best friend's husband. >>34044261>What was the occasion?No special occasion. We were just hanging out and things went there. This was after my breakup with my ex a couple years ago before my wife and I got back together. Then her husband asked me to have a threesome with them, and I didn't do anything with him then. >>34044266>Girls will never beat easy mode allegations...I wouldn't say easy. There's a higher risk for women, but higher return rates. Men have lower risk but much lower chance of reward. Like guys are still viable partners into their 40's, meanwhile most men don't want a woman past her early 30's because it's too late to start a family.
>>34044267Easily, more in a year than I'll get in a lifetime. I should really visit Vietnam or something and get my bodycount to 40
>>34044269>Like guys are still viable partners into their 40'sNot true. That only happens if he gets a good career going, which is more unlikely to happen than ever for men now.
>>34044269>Like guys are still viable partners into their 40's, meanwhile most men don't want a woman past her early 30's because it's too late to start a family.I'm just going to disagree on this, single men in their 30s and 40s are gonna remain single forever. They're universally unwanted
>>>/v/728348751King of /v/ 2025
>>34044274>>34044276This is depressing. I keep seeing both men and women talk about how they're almost 40 and never been in a relationship or had sex and I feel so bad for them. Yeah, it's up to them to change that, but it doesn't change the fact that it's a lonely existence.
>>34044269how come you have so much sex with other people but still no threesome?
>>34044280For females, it's their own choice. But for men, they've likely been alone their entire lives. If you're born as a non-Chad, you'll remain that way.
>>34044280https://youtu.be/lc6Sxr4DYXg
>>34044280There's no way to change it, it's natural selection, out of your control
>>34044280
>>34044180Judge for yourself, her name is Ashley Ocean.But her type drives me absolutely insane. Skinny, dark hair, dark eyes.I'd do anything for a woman like her.
>>34044269How'd you hookup with the other 2 women?
i'm a dumbass and caught feelings for this girl and now i'm letting old feelings come up and potentially ruining shitwhat the fuck do i do
>>34044105What's missing from your picture is a recollection of your best casual sex memories.
>>34044282>Waaah, I'll remain alone forever>Chooses to stay locked up inside and spam "men are dropping out of society" pity rantsPoor you
>>34044281>how come you have so much sex with other people but still no threesome?I have had threesomes. I've talked about it before.>>34044282>If you're born as a non-Chad, you'll remain that way.Hard disagree. Many men don't want to self-improve. It's hard, but it's possible. Is it going to make you 6 feet tall and handsome? No, but you owe it to yourself to be the best you that you can be.>>34044283>tl;dwPiers has always been a cuck to me.>>34044284It seems more like sexual selection than natural. >>34044288>How'd you hookup with the other 2 women?They were a couple my wife knows. We ran into each other at PRIDE this year.
>>34044289Elaborate. How do you know this gir and why is it so bad to have feelings for her
Sex pest and entitled whore hours, goody
>>34044293NTA but you can do as much grass touching as you want. Out there, every woman is always partnered. It's just as impossible to even talk to someone in a romantic context as it would be by staying home for the rest of your life. The "go outside" meme has to die.
>>34044294>They were a couple my wife knows. We ran into each other at PRIDE this yearKek, some stereotype are true. Was it a foursome?
>>34044298Most hours are incel hours on here. Don't be greedy.
>>34044298question?
I don't want to take steroids and break my back with deadlifts to get a gf. Everyone else in history just existed, worked the best job they could just like me and wifed someone. To even have a chance at dating I should go to the gym, at my age 29 take hormone therapy and probably fuck up my joints and heart...
>>34044301Wouldn’t know, but sure, because you people don’t have enough outlets
>>34044294>>tl;dw>Piers has always been a cuck to me.Aren't you also a cuck and called MKG your king?
>>34044294>Many men don't want to self-improve.Absolute bullshit. Why do you think king Andrew Tate became the most famous man on the planet? Every man is on some grindset CEO psychopath path larp and gyms are full of men. Female creatures still don't want gymcels, because height and face are the most important things and out of your control.>inb4 surgeryNot realistic options.>>34044293You deserved the abuse lol
>>34044304>Wouldn’t knowTourist?
>>34044269>Shit, I've said too much. It was my best friend's husband. So did she pick a good husband?
>>34044298What's your question for the opposite sex?
>Many men don't want to self-improve.Many men don't want to be fake clowns for women and overall that's a good thing. Another good thing is that your lot doesn't get to fuck with every aspect of society. At least not yet.
>>34044296she's a bartender and suddenly a guy who i had beef with because of girl starts showing up there and it's been really bothering me
>>34044302>>34044312Why are the men here so disgusting
>>34044320Where's the question mark?
>>34044305She's not qt
>>34044320Your holes or the promise of holes have no power here. Men don't have to fear ostracization or getting fired and can be honest.
>>34044320Why are men on 4chan disgusting, is that really your question?
>>34044299You need to go outside more
>>34044320YWNBAW
MENWould you ever pay a girl for sex? It could be a hot girl you know, or a hot escort or sex worker or whatever. Why or why not? If you can give a more elaborate answer I would really appreciate it because I want to understand
>>34044325You need to spam useless mantras more.
>>34044300>Was it a foursome?More of a 3-on-1>>34044303Spoiler alert: most women prefer attainable builds and find bodybuilders gross.>>34044305Neither of those things are true. I use "king" loosely. Like saying based.>>34044308>Female creatures still don't want gymcels, because height and face are the most important things and out of your control.Or maybe it's a shit personality that slops up the drivel that the chinless wonder pedals. He says women are worthless whores while raping them and pimping them out and people think he's a positive influence on masculinity. Blaming women for all of your problems isn't self-improvement, it's excuses and blame shifting.>>34044311>So did she pick a good husband?Yeah, he's a really great guy. He reminds me of Nick Offerman.
>>34044327Yeah, I have.
>>34044327No.
>>34044329>I use "king" loosely. Like saying based.A hebephile who cheats on his wife is based to you?
>>34044327Yes but at the same time probably not. Because I don't want to get attached to her and ruin my savings.
>>34044329>More of a 3-on-1Were you the 1?
>>34044321Don't reply to her.She is the lazy (You) farmer that adds no value to the thread.
>>34044329You're really stupid. I think you're just posting for the sake of posting.
>>34044252>what diet makes good sperm?Not too much meat, lots of fruit.
>>34044329>Spoiler alert: most women prefer attainable builds and find bodybuilders gross.True but at this point I'd have to use roids to get to that point. Aging sucks man, if I run I can feel my joints hurting and I'm not even overweight or anything
>>34043265White boss who is my crush brought up how she was talking to another coworker who said that my "type" was more Latina", I said I guess I'm partial to that in a joking mannerShe then said why couldn't it be a regular white girl. Does that mean she possibly has some interest in me even though texting has kind of fizzled out? Caught me off guard and I autistically said "I still like the white girls, aren't they the beauty standard". We have made out before but a few days later she basically sent me what I perceived to be a friendzoned text (I said I had fun at her party and we should hang out again, then she said, it's always good to hang out with everyone as friends)Also she recently found out her roommate is looking to move out and has been pestering me the past few days that I should move in and coming up with ways to entice me. What's that about? Surely it's just in jest right?Thoughts?
>>34044342Good fucking lord retard create a unique header
>>34044341NTA. That's probably not true unless you're 45+
>>34044338I genuinely don't understand why people reply to her.She barely says anything interesting and makes everything about her. She is basically the same as qt, just more coherent. She really, really likes to hear herself talk.And of course she also refuses to put on a name or trip so people could filter her out, just like the other narcissists.
>>34044329>Spoiler alert: most women prefer attainable builds and find bodybuilders gross.Women can't tell the difference between a lean bodybuilder and a normal guy because they only go for a select few men who all look mostly the same. Those ones define their standards for dating.
>>34044345I wish, I'm bending my knee right now and I can feel the kneecap
>>34044346>And of course she also refuses to put on a name or trip so people could filter her out, just like the other narcissists.You think covert namefags are worse than overt namefags?
>>34044344lmao
>>34044340how about no meat and exclusively fruits and eggs?
>>34044348I meant the steroids part
>>34044328You don't seem to mind all the malicious doomerpilled spam, it's only the actual advice (and I'll repeat it again little bitchboy, GO OUTSIDE MORE) that bothers you. Get over yourself.
>>34044327>Would you ever pay a girl for sex?I have. It was something I got into quite regularly for a while in my late 20s. I was too autistic at that point to really be able to make friends or sustain a relationship, so it was a form of human contact as much as a sex thing. I usually used to pay for a full hour, and spend quite a bit of time chatting; if I liked the girl I might become a regular.
>>34044350Obviously?One can be easily filtered out, the other choses to be an attention whor for everybody.Even worse when they are avatarfags on top, like these two are.
>>34044333The namefags are all friends on their discord. It's why JH defends MKG too.
>>34044352>how about no meat and exclusively fruits and eggs?That works! Also, please don't smoke, and go easy on alcohol.
>>34044354You get over posts online that you don't like, they aren't personal attacks just because they diverge from your imagined narrative where everyone succeeds in life by simply going outside.
>>34044333>hebephileFuck off.Say pedo, like every sane person.
>>34044353I can't build muscle at all so that's 100% true
>>34044361You only have yourself to blame and you know it
>>34044355What were you chatting about with a prostitute? Didn't you feel like she's faking interest because you are paying her? Or you just didn't registered it because you were autistic and glad to have a girl talking to you? What about now?
>more gaslighting
>>34044346I made my gf cum the first time we had sex (I was a virgin) using her advice. How many /adv/isors can legitimately say they've helped somebody on here?
>>34044335How can you be sure you won't get attached to her from the first time?
>>34044363How are you immune to thermodynamics?
>>34044366You can try leading a horse to water but sometimes you just have to gas it
>>34044369I can't. It's what would probably happen and she'd notice, which would also prevent me from seeing her again. That's why it's pointless to even try.
>>34044360How many different sperm samples have you tasted?
>>34044349>can this female creatures faggot just kill himself, the worst autists are the indignant autists who think anything they say mattersSputtering into the void is actually a pretty good punishment for them.
>>34044356>One can be easily filtered outMost people don't know how to do this, or they're simply too lazy, if you wanna farm more, you become an overt namefag
>>34044366You were offered working advice and some rather gentle criticism.
>>34044327I would not pay for sex but I would do chores for a hot friend in exchange for sex if she wanted to repay me this way.
>>34044370Building muscle isn't thermodynamics anon... It's genetics
>>34044379retard
>>34044377>t. 300 lbs American feminist in mobility scooter
>>34044376>Most people don't know how to do thisI don't see how that would be relevant or my issue, even if it were true.
Foids, have you ever snowballed?
>>34044349>says the biggest autist of this thread
>>34044382Being covert means they are lesser attention-whores
>>34044379So if you work out hard and eat lots of protein, where will that energy go?
>>34044380Rude, we aren't talking about losing weight here, that's thermodynamics, we are talking about building muscle and I can't build muscle. Even in the army I couldn't do one pushup, not one, couldn't do it despite year long physical exercise. You know the only reason why I passed the fitness test was because they thought I was taking the piss
>>34044333Everyone here is a terrible person. The one exception is Exhibanon.>>34044336>Were you the 1?Yeah>>34044341https://youtu.be/EWC8_vp-bWI>>34044346I don't really have anyone to talk to or vent to at the moment, especially since I mostly listen to other people's problems. But I try to be helpful when I can. A lot of people just don't ask for genuine advice.>>34044367You're welcome, king.
>>34044357>can't go one thread without bringing up jhKek
>>34044386Fat probably
>>34044381You should wife her up if you don't like being alone
>>34044389>noooo I must defend my queen or she won't reply on discord!
>>34044388>YeahBased.
>>34044388>The one exception is Exhibanon.She doesn't know
>>34044391
>>34044392>has no response to being called out for his obsessionDouble kekI wonder how much of the archive is just you dogwhistling for your crush to respond to you if you look up "jh" in the archive?
>>34044394Please don't tell me he's a pedophile. I'll throw up.
>>34044395Fakecel
>>34044397He posts sfw loli of demihuman anime characters so he's going to be strung up by his sockets by the resident parasocial freak
>>34044362>Say pedo, like every sane person.NTA, but some people prefer to use language precisely rather than sloppily. Not to mention that there's some ambiguity. People tend to use "pedo" to mean someone who sexually abuses children; if you use the word in its more precise, technical sense, most paedophiles do not sexually abuse children, and most people who sexually abuse children are not paedophiles. That is occasionally a useful distinction to make; so is the distinction between paedophile, hebephile and ephebophile. So no, *lazy* people say "pedo".
>>34044398A feminist who allows herself to be wifed is a fake feminist. A poser.
Femcels, what would make you want to date a basedboy?
>>34044396>the retarded poopy pants simp thinks only one person posts about her
>>34044385Yes, and...?
>>34044403>a basedboyA what now?
Why don't the lonely single femanons just date fat and balding guys?
>>34044401Nobody cares, pedo.
>>34044404You definitely respond most often with how you always repeat the same response verbatim every time you're called out So what happened baby boy? Did you play chess with her and she got bored of talking with you? Or did you exchange emails and she stopped responding? Tell us why you are such a spurned simp
>>34044402Even better, ask her out
>>34044407That would destroy their self perception, a woman lives and dies on her vanity
>>34044406Anon is talking about onions.
<Pic related
Why are some people unable to accept the notion that not everyone can build muscle
>>34044407I already answered your question but you ignored me >:(
>>34044414Low iq people can’t fathom an existence besides their own
>>34044414women swim with their pussies in a pool of muscular men from dating apps
>>34044414You can buuld muscle it just takes more work for some.
>>34044412I like onions, they have layers
>>34044341https://www.reddit.com/r/LengfOrGirf/comments/1ks6qr2/dont_bother_going_to_the_gym_be_tall/>>34044388https://youtu.be/EWC8_vp-bWlThis is also correct
>>34044409>Or did you exchange emails and she stopped responding? Nope, I'm not as pathetic as you. She's just annoying with her blogposts.
>>34044419So you think a s*yboy is deep?
>>34044418That's a cop out I mean you literally cannot build muscle to lift weights
>>34044415He has BDP. He's not asking for an answer. It's a ruminative, attention-seeking behavior.
>>34044365>What were you chatting about with a prostitute? Me. Her. All sorts. >Didn't you feel like she's faking interest because you are paying her? No, actually. When you're autistic, people quite often find you boring. That's the first combination of signals you have to learn to recognise. Hookers are just perfectly normal people: some of them have no interest in engaging, others are quite friendly and chatty.>Or you just didn't registered it because you were autistic and glad to have a girl talking to you? There was one of them I ended up dating on a non-commercial basis for a while because she liked me. There can't have been any financial incentive for that.>What about now?I've gotten better at masking over the years, I have a fairly reasonable non-paid-for body count now.
>>34044422She isn't hereThe only person who wanted to even bring her up here was youIf you hate her so much, why is over HALF of every mention of her over the past month in the archive you talking about her unprompted? You can check 4plebs right now and see itYou'll deny it's you but you'll see your own embarrassment and hopefully cringe to death you spammer
>>34044409Jh plays chess? I bet she sucks, lol.
>>34044422>blogpostsWhen was the last time she 'blogposted'? It's always two sentences per reply max.
>>34044424You need to do more than just one set a day if you are overweight.
>>34044373>How many different sperm samples have you tasted?Not nearly as many as I've heard about. We gossip. You gf's female friends all know how you taste.
https://youtu.be/G8u3P7Xqlvo
>>34044429So you're saying you pay her far more attention than that guy
>>34044427It was relevant with the MKG name another anon brought up. It's not that serious, buddy.>You'll denyBecause it's literally not me, you fucking retard. You can see the typing style is different in the archives already. Go shit your pants again, moron.
>>34044431>You gf's female friends all know how you taste.Such a woman thing.
>>34044431Hot
The JH likes men but hates them because of their jizz.In the same way, men can have crushes on JH but hate her.
This place should just be ask anything and not the opposite gender shit
>>34044414Because it is simply not true
>>34044440Ask?
>>34044430I've never been overweight
>>34044443Just make it a general chat so the degenerates fuck off
>>34044440Can someone explain something confusing from my biochemistry notes to me
>>34044440the real atoga for people who are actually interested in women is here, bro >>34006534
>>34044426I find it hard to believe you are truly autistic when you dated a bunch of girls and have a body count. Do you know what the clinical condition of "autism" really means or are you just using it as a meme?
Women, are you excited?
>>34044449I thought that thread was literally moid central
>>34044449I don’t need to be around even more retarded sexpests
>>34044441This shit makes me tear up, nobody believes me, not even here
>>34044451Real insane shit is about to happen.Most men at least has the foresight to not break their legs so they can be taller, but I don't think most women have the mental capacity to not literally split their hipbone in half.
>>34044456What do you have?
>>34044451>Moids inflicting grotesque punishments on themselves for not being born femaleWhat a time to be alive
>>34044460Shitty genes I bet
>>34044449Being into women is not the same as having the inclination to become a cringy pick-up artist simp.
>>34044458>womenAnon...
>>34044449>How to Get Women GeneralTo get = to claim?To get = to understand?Foids, do you want to be got by a stinky moid?
>>34044435You will say anything makes bringing up your crush 'relevant'. If you hate her so much you would stop giving her so much attention>>34044438It really is obvious that he is just a simp who was ignored and he is mad that she made his pp hard
>>34044464Yes, you don't even realize that most of the cosmetic surgeries women are doing to themselves were invented for transgender people, do you.
>>34044466>stop giving her so much attentionBro, you're the one who gives her the most attention ITT
>>34044469I didn't bring her up faggot
>>34044464Anon most of the women on atoga (and the internet in general) are tranners
>>34044471You're the one who sperged out about her and still baits anons into continuing to talk about that topic
>>34044467>>34044472The word you're looking for is men.
Women of /atoga/, would you date popular electronic musician Flume?
>>34044479Ah, it's that guy again?
>>34044474a few transgender men will do it, but the majority will be insane women who not only get BBL but also the hip split.
>>34044414>Why are some people unable to accept the notion that not everyone can build muscleEveryone can. You may be limited to a certain amount by your genetics, but anyone can build muscle through diet and exercise.
>>34044479Nice false flag faggot, I hate JH, keep simping for her
>>34044479Grim shit
>>34044481Always has been. Watch his damage control now, kek.
>>34044277I still ship them
Am I faceblind, or would you say Lady gaga and Scarlett Johansson shares some resemblance to each other.
i think i am cringe and a simp its over
>>34044277King K. Rool should have won it this year.
>>34044488Aw man you’re really gonna samefag to save face? Anyone who posts here knows how much you talk about JH, no one cares. If you’re this mad I called you unclefucker you should take some meds
>>34044490they both have 2 eyes, 1 nose, 1 mouth and 2 ears
>>34044490They look kind of similar, yeahround chin and prominent cheek bone.
/atoga/ women, would you like if I skeeted all over your face in front of a crowd of fascinated and horrified onlookers?
>>34044388>Everyone here is a terrible person. The one exception is Exhibanon.I think it's cruel the way you treat him as your orbiter. You say he's great, but only online. If you met him IRL, you'd treat him like dirt. If you were approached IRL by someone shabbily dressed and overweight, who mumbled and wouldn't look you in the eyes when talking to you, whose only interests in life are porn and anime and vidya, then he'd become a hilarious story to laugh about with your friends later. But online you pretend to like him perfectly as he is, and it's cruel to get his hopes up.
Only JH can cause this much discourse without even being around much anymore. Real celebrity shit.
>>34044506NTA but what's all that matter? Men act like I'm a subhuman online but grovel and cry and beg to eat a turd out of my ass in real life. I can't be expected to treat them the same way when they aren't consistent in their treatment of me.
>>34044507have you tried being a part of the solution maybe
>>34044507It’s just one guy
Thoughts on punitive rape as a human right?
>>34044509It's all entertaining to me kek>>34044510There are at least a handful itt right now thoUnless he's samefagging to himself and pretending to be all of them
>>34044512He does that, yes
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j3x4Ymw9qMk>I'm a million miles away>I'm sailing like a driftwood>On a windy bay
>>34044490I wish I was as thin as the lady from Wicked (I'm a male man btw)
>>34044511I know this is a ragebait question but a lot of people don't understand that some acts debase the person performing the act too, possibly even to a greater extent than the victim. An executioner is harmed less by killing than a rapist is by raping
>>34044516We have the technology to construct robot rape machines.
>>34044511Because all criminals are men and men can't be raped. Also rape doesn't get rid of the moid
I have decided I will be honest from now onSure I will say a lot of stupid shit but I think being honest is better than not saying anything
>>34044521>being honest is better than not saying anythingI agree on principle but generally irl this is a bad idea
>>34044523When are you checking out?
>>34044486>>34044485>>34044481Who got nuked?
>>34044511>PicSo many liberals bitch about the death penalty already that we might see it get dissolved in our lifetime.
>>34044516I always wondered how executioners, as well as vet techs that put down sick animals, aren't just tempted to use the lethal injection chemicals on themselves.It must be really, really tempting when you have quick access to an easy self-checkout method every single fucking day.
>>34044486you weren't jokingi can't bring myself to give a shit about regularfags who are clearly just in need of help
>>34044526Japan, in 1945.
>>34044524I will report back on monday
>>34044526The autist JH spammer, did a bunch of archiving digging to pretend he’s not the one obsessed with her
>>34044511The whole fucking premise of the prison system or even of the electric chair is not stooping down - as a society - to the level of the acts you abhor so much. Besides it would already be bad enough if someone innocent gets locked away for years by mistake, if you actively traumatize them with (sexual or otherwise) torture, yeah...
>>34044490Not to me. They look alike enough to not be baffled that you see a resemblance but that's it. Now Natalie Portman and Keira Knightley, those do look alike.
Is anyone else fascinated with nudity in a non sexual way
>>34044451No, never thought my hips weren't wide enough. And by far most women have their hips broaden with/after pregnancy and childbirth anyway, sometimes dramatically so, so just like a boob job this seems like a retarded thing to go through if you haven't had kids and do want them.
>>34044552No.That's the kind of thing a deviant would say.Rapist vibes.You either don't mind nudity, or you're interested in nudity sexually.Being "fascinated" by nudity is creep shit.
>>34044552Not with nudity but with sexuality, yeah, whether or not I find the topic vaguely sexy myself does not impact the level of fascination, I could hear people talk about their random fantasies/turn ons forever. It just feels like such a random and freestyle part of the psyche, surprising, and usually there's so much layers (you have a kink AND you feel shame/guilt/judgment about the kink). Just really interesting psychologically.I understand being fascinated with nudity though. Bodies are pretty wild and obviously it is only when nude that you really see the whole of individual quirks, patterns recurring (e.g. angular or rounded shapes all over), what makes the body unique. I think many if not most people that draw, paint or photograph have some level of non-sexual fascination with nude bodies.
It's not alarming, it's natural. They defend themselves from something that women have built.
>>34044556Damn
How would you react if your brother killed himself?
>>34044507>Only JH can cause this much discourse without even being around much anymore. Real celebrity shit.>Rent free>You're a cuckyou just want to talk about her because you're obsessed with mulatto ass
>>34044570I don't have a brother but if my sister killed herself I would be gutted, absolutely gutted for so many reasons.>she is the only person I lived through our childhood with and she had my back throughout the best and worst times>I wouldn't say nobody understands me better than she does but we sure understand each other in a way that is not replaceable>she has a young child and very very loving long term partner and my heart would break for them, especially her sonMore than anything else though, I would feel like a part of me died. My child self, my childhood, something I cannot convey in words but she knew about wordlessly anyway. I would miss her forever. I don't know how long it would take me to sort of function as a dead shell again but it would take time.
>>34044570Jealousy and envy for having the balls to do what I can’t
>>34044222How? We don’t talk anymore.
>>34044511>rape penaltythey're in prison i thought...
>>34044556No it isn’t
>>34044570awful, but I've bent over backwards to be a friend to him and he doesn't want that. he wants to be top dog and he isn't. I don't hold it against him, our home was a challenging place to grow up. I do worry sometimes about the inevitable King Lear-esque blood feud.
>>34043940>>34043959I agree with the anon you are responding to here. In my experience "crazy sex" for young men and women in 9 out of 10 cases means they were so drunk/horny they were able to truly let go and do whatever comes to mind without worrying about how she will view him or anything like that. I know it's not nice to dwell on but fact is most men and women are not JUST fueled but also hindered by tenderness sexually. The whole idea of disrespecting someone or giving them a bad time maybe. My bf and I have always had a great sex life but I know he has fucked ONS he did not really know with more wild abandon, no doubt. There is an effect that comes from not giving a fuck if the other person gets weirded out or laughs about your dirty talk/whatever inside that you simply cannot fake with a partner you are really invested in and you want to think the world of you. This isn't some huge tragic thing. After all if you really love each other and have a lot of trust in the relationship, you will also have fantastic sex of a wholly other kind that you could never have in that way with someone you don't care about. But it works both ways. For some men this is more pronounced than others, some men have severe hang ups about their own kinks, e.g. they love roughing up women but still feel they can't do that to their beloved, there is still part of them that finds it disrespectful in an unsexy way too and that gets triggered if they respect the woman a lot. If men are really compartmentalized this way you say they have madonna/whore complex, but for most people these double standards apply somewhat, just much less extreme.
>>34043940>it’s hard not to wonder and then feel like shitThat was his goal.If you did not appear jealous or something in front of him, then he did not fully succeed at what he wanted to do.>>34044570My brain would go into a mode asking how his family can survive now in the best way and how I should help him.
Uhh. I had a dream I was trying to rub one out, and I couldn’t get comfy. So I switched rooms. But everytime I got close, spiders started talking to me and moving around in my room??? So I ran out. Wtf.
>>34044590John Dies at the End (2012)
>>34044590Kek that's unfortunate. It is super common for sex dreams to get sort of interrupted though. I think it is because you are subconsciously afraid you won't get to do it/finish and dreams are so subconscious that just having the fear manifests it as a reality.I used to dream all the time about being 11/10 horny and suddenly with someone I was incredibly attracted to but being unable to find a place to be alone together, like being all frantic going from one place to another and each time you think you are alone you hear someone else's voice and realize you have to get out again...
>>34044586Sigh, yeah, I get that. It’s just hard not to compare myself to this hypothetical person, yk? And like to also think he’s exaggerating to make himself feel better, but that’s cope. I know he knew I’d be reading those things he said though. Or maybe that’s also cope. Le sigh. Oh well.
>>34044586Good ol suicide fuel
>>34044593Lol ye, spiders have also been a weird sort of theme for me in dreams. They represent my fears, or pests in my life (like external people).
if you're afraid of spiders why do you swallow so many while asleep HMMMMMMMMMMM?
>>34044560>>34044566Can you moids finally kill yourselves already?
>>34044595Oh yeah I know. Trust me if I had been in your position, especially ages 16-25ish, I would have driven myself insane wondering what about me was "mediocre" in comparison. Maybe it helps to turn it around in your head and imagine that you probaby would also feel different and more free with a partner who was clearly super into you but that you did not care about. It's not just him but also for you, the wild version you could've shown someone who does not know the real you, probably also looks different than the sex you had with him where he did know you and you did care. Putting yourself in that role also makes it easier to conclude that even if the ONS scenario is technically wilder and in that sense more exciting, that does not mean you actually prefer it over more loving/intimate sex when it comes down to it. All that said, it is also supremely possible that he put it that way specifically to get under your skin. And if he did, apparently if anything he is pretty insecure about how attractive you find him and he reckoned you thinking of him as someone who rocked someone's world or had some colorful past would make you think more highly of him. So, ironically, pretty damn sad.
I sure love reading about how everyone here has friends and family and lovers who care about them and have had healthy and good sex lives and good jobs or familial wealth Merry Christmas, only 4 more to go after this one
>>34044587Nah, I didn’t reach out. Were no contact. Infact I disabled my social medias too. Just done giving him material. I’ve started going on dates here and there, but it doesn’t compare at all to what he’s been doing himself. But it’s ok. Bc I know he’s not truly happy. Nothing he does is sticking. Like he literally mentioned on his reddit he told her “her blowjobs were perfect” and she bugged out saying nothing is perfect, I can’t trust anything you say and then he agreed and she got insulted. Like why the fuck would they fight about that? It’s almost reaffirming to me his patterns. Lol. And then one of his last replies was directed at me, saying he’s confident he could, but hookups wouldn’t make him feel good about himself , which “proves that sex isnt all he cares about @ my ex” (me). confusing stuff but I had to just let it go. It seems like he’s been realizing some demons after whatever situation didn’t work out for him… he knows I’m against casual sex and he made me feel used in the past.
>>34044599??? I can't believe I'm saying this but sex isn't everything, it's not even close.
>>34044608Cool, thanks
>>34044604Thank you.Yeah, he was insecure with me. And I feel bad about that but I tried to love him with all of his flaws. I think sometimes we had issues around intimacy, and him feeling like I wasn’t as attracted to him, which I guess was sometimes true. But in other ways I was also very attracted bc he shaped my first sexual experiences and le trauma bond. So he’s been trying to like, indirectly prove his desirability through these experiences. And to my surprise, it seems that he is finding success. But he’s mainly been going out to bars and using dating apps, so I dunno. None of it really lands the way it should on me. Sure, I get pangs of jealousy and feeling insecure myself. But more than that, I just feel sad and turned off by it and it gives me even more fuel to move on myself. Anyway, I really appreciate your take and thoughtful response. It’s been hard for me to unpack about this.
>>34044586Huh. I've always had much better sex with people I know precisely because I can let loose and just be myself while fucking them. With ONS I usually have much worse sex because I'm not able to just be myself with them.It's only the people I care about and know well who I don't care about "weirding out" because I know they won't get weirded out.
>>34044600Makes sense. I think it is also usually a self-sustaining thing, the more often you dreamed about something, the more easily your brain will fall back on that in the future as well. If shadows changed into spiders in one dream then part of you will remember that seeing shadows the next dream and if you expect spiders they will be there, that's the way it goes. I don't know if it's any consolation but as a child I would dream again and again about getting to eat something insanely ridiculous that does not exist (like a perfectly ripe raspberry that smelled like Heaven and was somehow as big as my whole face so I would be able to take big mouthfuls) and right when I was supposed to take the first bite, I would reach a point of excitement where I would wake myself up.
>>34044543We all know that's you, Cuckworm SargeNice try at deflecting
>>34044605I’m sorry anon. I know it can seem that way, but please realize that if we’re on this thread we’re more than likely lonely or fucked up too. Holidays can be really really hard. I’ve had sex in the past sure, but not in 2 and a half years. And I’ve spent many christmases and new years miserable with my dysfunctional family. I hope things look up for you.
Women you just won the custody caseFor your Steam account! And even better, lost custody of your kids! Yep it's gamer time!What is the first video game you boot up to celebrate?
>>34044612Aww the cartoon tier food in the dream but not being able to actually taste it haha
>>34044609I know it's a cop out. But I take it you think you care a lot about love. If you think it is suicide fuel to consider you cannot give your loved one every single best sexual experience they ever had, you are hugely disrespecting love and its weight, its scarcity, though. It is rare enough to really deeply connect with someone as it is.
>>34044617Terminally Online Moid Simulator.
>>34044620You wouldn’t understand and that’s ok. This’ll pass, I’d rather you didn’t respond at all to be honest
>>34044611Sure it works both ways. I have never even done casual sex because in my attempts I am the same, I found it so exciting it just went straight to daunting and stressful instead of both fun and a little scary. I maybe should have specified this is not set in stone, just a common way to feel. And at least speaking for myself I am pretty sure I would also be able to feel that way, just under the right circumstances which have never happened so far. But I have had experiences e.g. being flirted with by a stranger where I could feel, cool, this person has no clue who I am so I can be anyone? It just never went as far as to translate into a sexual desire but I am sure that would have been possible if I had generally carried less anxiety around sexual topics.
Nobody wont me
Last thing I’ll say he also painted her as someone emotionally unstable so I feel like it’s that meme of oh the sex was pretty crazy cause maybe she was just very animalistic or sorry. Maybe he was also just pent up. Whatever. Ultimately it really doesn’t matter and I’m better off not knowing more. Good for him. It’s his life and my life and we’ve drifted like two ships in the sea, but a thread does remain. It’s hard not to care completely bc he was my first and all. Just sucks that he’s feeling used, but he’s directing it towards me. Maybe it’s helped him to confront some things though. I’m not going to be there as his emotional doormat anymore. Sometimes I think about what I would do if I got a call that he was in a really bad situation. And it’s sad to say, even though I would probably show up, a part of me would just feel resentment and my body would tense up. I hope one day we get to make peace with each other because living with this unresolved thing in your heart towards somebody really paints the undercurrent of all other life experiences and keeps this thread alive. But for now I understand this is how it has to be as we both grow.
Women how would you feel if your bf tried to delay marriage?My gf said she wants to get married within next 2-3 years, I think it's too early for her. She's 19, I'm 36. I want to wait till she's 25. We're in serious relationship
>>34044623I mean we're on 4chan, I also spent close to 15 years yearning for love and intimacy before I first experienced it. I have never been with anyone who wasn't massively more experienced than I was and this is still how I feel. >This'll passThat's something I guess. I hope it does soon.
I think it's mostly women's fault in the destruction of cross gender friendship.No women will ever stop a simp from treating her like a princess even if she knows he's trying to get into her pants.She just pretends to be oblivious so they can milk him until he gets fed up and asks "the question" and then they gaslight him into thinking he's the one at fault.
>>34044602This triggered the foid. Show the spot on the doll where stinky moids have touched you.
>>34044621Won't that just make you more depressed about getting divorced.
>>34044627NAG but it’s a bit early for her to be dating a man your age at all
>>34044628Thanks
>>34044630I'm not the one posting the same copypasta about checking out of society every fucking day.
>>34044629If we don’t ask The Question up front, that is our fault.
>>34044627You are totally right, your age gap is serious enough already, she is a literal teenager and her brain isn't done developing or even close to it.That said I remember being nineteen and realize that telling her you'll get married at 25 will sound like she has to wait until she's almost dead to finally get married. I would just tell her let's see in 2-3 years. Chances are she herself really overestimates how quickly she feels ready for it. It would surprise me if the timeline even went down to 1-2 years in a year or that it'll just remain 2-3 years for years.
State genderWho is your favourite family member? Your favourite memory with him/her?
>>34044639My dad because at least he made me hard
>>34044629Sure thing buddy. It's not like simp behavior ever made me uncomfortable. Nope. Men are the biggest victims and it's always women's fault. Want me to get you a bottle?
>>34044639MProbably my little sister.We spent three weeks in Western Europe with our granddad when we were teenagers. Fun trip.
>>34044629Expanding on this, I think most women has weaponized this intentional ignorance.The reason why the majority of the world think women are just inherently dumber is because they are, but they're doing it on purpose as a manipulation tactic.
Dating is scary as fuck now
>>34044627Your sperm cells will have deteriorated by then giving your children a higher chance of birth defects. Either quit being a fag and marry her in 2 years and knock her up or dump her and let a real man have her.
>>34044629Eh. I actually had this situation and I tried to stop it and set boundaries early on. Did I stop it completely! Of course not. But I also cared about him and we were hanging out, spending time together. It was mutually beneficial, I thought. I just couldn’t return the same desire he had to date me, in an official way. I told him one, hey, I don’t want to use you emotionally because you do have feelings for me and stuff like that. He wrote me this whole thing saying it’s worth it for him, blah blah. I felt like he was manic pixie dream girling me a little bit bc it came on so quick, but at the same time, our friendship grew into something real. Anyway, as time went on I began to start to distance myself, because I realized the situation wasn’t going anywhere. He eventually got a nonbinary very mentally ill partner, and I became friends with them, too. I found out they fucked and he lost his virginity and all that. We began to talk less and less. I found out through his partner that he was realizing that he was a simp for me, that he was a beta orbiter, all this stuff, and I think they encouraged him to “set boundaries” or distance from me as some sort of test on me of gaining respect. I find all this out through this partner- never him, as we continue to speak less and less. This created tension for me. When I would message him he wouldn’t open or reply for a day or more. I wanted to address the whole thing thanking him for his friendship and letting him know he meant something to me. But me and his partner got into a huge mentally ill fight and he never once defended me and was letting the partner just speak on his behalf and also say cruel things to me. So I became resentful and pissed at him too. The last straw, I messaged him saying does he personally have anything to say about this? Bc I don’t trust his partners narrative. And I found out they were stalking me and my ex behind my back. HE was a culprit in it.
>>34044634Me neither.
>>34044645As a woman I agree. Men are very good at faking being nice before abusing and hurting you. Then if you didn't see it coming, you'll be victim blamed for choosing wrong even though men would chimp out if they were treated the same way. I'm pretty much going full 4B at this point.>>34044648Sorry femanon, but you hurt a man's feelings, so you're at fault because despite sperging out about "muh accountability" all the time, men never actually want to take accountability for anything.
>>34044645if you're a woman, then it's a golden era for dating
>>34044639F, my sister hands down no competition. >favourite memory So hard to pick just one but okay. As a kid I was hugely into those toy vending machines, just that it was a surprise what you'd get and the whole ritual of getting to use it. When I was really litte, like four years old maybe, my then eight year old sister would tell me she had magic powers and she could teleport one out of the machine for me. Randomly she would tell me it felt like "tonight's the night" and then in the morning I would wake up and fight one under my pillow. It broke my brain at that age. I didn't 100% believe her without reservations, but my kid logic went "how could she even have bought one, when, she was here all this time, I can't remember the last time we passed a machine like that", not reaizing my older sister had a LOT more self control than I did and just had a huge stash she would spread out over months of gifts. It was inexplicable to me and I remember eyeing her up and all the logic inside telling me it couldn't be, and then there was the part of me that was like... but my sister CAN do a lot of seemingly impossible things though... Like I remember both feeling so pampered by her and the awe I felt. She was my goddess. I would've done anything she told me to.
I did it again.I'm spending more money to "complete" my setup.Bought two taller monitor stands that aren't the desk clamp type, surprisingly hard to find.also bought a cheapo massage gun, well, I bought two, gonna give my mom one while I keep the other.They were pretty cheap though, don't know how long those will last.
>>34044651>I was a retarded nigger with no perception of anything and therefore must blame all men and die aloneHonestly good on you, you are doing voluntary eugenics by helping this way, but you would help faster by killing yourself so you don't waste our resources either.
>>34044648No response from him. This was all after we saw each other irl and me and his partner had “a talk” outside, and me and him didn’t once even say hi or make eye contact with each other. We were good friends. I tried to be there for him, but just had tried to set boundaries. And he was there for me, too, at a time in my life where I really needed that sort of kind male presence. And we made memories and talked about Dostoevsky and all kinds of stuff. So it just felt icky to be treated that way, but not have it be confronted. After he gave absolutely no response, the partner was like “he shows me when you accuse me when we’re lying in bed together” - like wtf. So I sent him one last text, saying, he could have spoken to me at any point about how he felt, that I cared about him and still do, that I’m hurt but I wish him luck and if he ever needs to talk in the future I’m here.This is his first relationship and maybe it’s going good for him but I’m also concerned about it but I don’t care anymore. He knows that I was in a toxic relationship in the past and I had been going through the break up feelings for a while. So if and when he goes through that, maybe we’ll talk. Or maybe not.But finding out he felt like a “simp” and how I wasn’t reciprocating his “advances” and being dropped like a fly to him fucking this other person, does hurt.I know men think like this, but I think that’s the issue. Befriending someone only because you expect something in return from them romantically or sexually, and then dehumanizing them when they didn’t give it to you. It’s very hurtful actually. The partner accused me of saying it’s just because I don’t have his supply and attention anymore, and that’s only maybe 10% true.
>>34044654
>>34044655Johnny Depp really should've known better then getting together with Amber Heard. He deserved all the abuse she gave on him.
>>34044655Shut up faggot
>>34044629Nah I disagree. In most of these cases the woman does tell him she doesn't feel attracted or "that way" about him and he just does not quite believe her or cannot give up the chase.Realize a lot of what you would think of as "simping" (buying gifts for a friend, making lots of time for them, cooking for them and other domestic stuff, worrying when they're sick, sending cutesy little "just thinking of you" texts etc) is totally normal for a very intense friendship between two women. A lot of the time the woman simped over will have a gut feeling the guy just wants to fuck her, but if he denies it and she cannot rationally explain what he does that is unfit for a friendship, she usually shrugs it off. And what are you going to do? "Confront" someone with their niceties being strategic and not sincere? That's not a thing, once someone has denied (usually even to themselves) they have an ulterior motive, not like you can do much more than either take them at their word or cut them off yourself.
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>>34044632It can look like this but honestly we're doing awesome.>>34044638Sounds great thank you!>>34044647Touch some grass.
>>34044659Fuck Johnny Depp, it was literally other women simping for him that made him get so much support, nice job attacking your own dumbfuck. Now I think even women will agree you need to kill yourself.
>>34044665Damn, and here I thought men were concerned about men being abused by women? Talk about internalized misandry.
>>34044659NTA but I have to say I was so fucking disappointed when he left the mother of his children and his life partner for like, what, twenty years, for Amber Heard... Not just the cliche of the beautiful dramatically younger woman but also not someone who seemed interesting, talented or even bright or kind.
>>34044664Your children won't be able to touch grass because they'll be too mentally disabled to be allowed to go outside due to your retarded selfish millennial sentiments about relationships prioritized over actual biological reality.
>>34044651I’m man but can unfortunately relate with most of what was said.We also lead each other on so easily and ghost each other at the drop of a hat now.The current state of things seems to encourage us to just waste each other’s time
my pp is 9 inches on viagra should i start onlyfans
>>34044648>>34044656literally your faultfriendships growing in to romances is natural and healthy. this thing women have invented where you only get into relationships with men you fuck instantly? they used to burn people at the stake for it and will again in future.
>>34044606>heIt doesn't matter what he does.I know getting some form of "confirmation" that the person is kinda shit and it was not just all in your head, is something that can help too. But ultimately it's not going to help too much long term, I know from experience.You're on two different paths now, whether he does well or shitty should be of no concern to you. But again, I understand that's easier said than done.>It’s almost reaffirming to me his patterns.I understand this sentiment and it's one I had too.Cut all contact too and then later on, like a year after we last talked, had a friend tell me "I think your ex is talking about you". Was shown the texts, where she blamed everything on me, despite she was the one who said she doesn't want to talk to me anymore. And then went on about how I promised her things and didn't fulfill them. Which is so ironic, since she started deleting our chat history before she said she doesn't want to talk to me anymore.She was still going through the same issues she was making up in her mind, and I imagine your ex is doing the same with the new woman. It was actually bizarre to read and made me shake my head for the rest of the day. I mean that unironically, I kept shaking my head several times when I randomly had to think of her texts. lolI have not iniated contact again, and if she tried, I would just tell her that this is what she wanted and I don't want her back. Since then I had actually met somebody who is such a wonderful person and didn't need to play her stupid schizo games.And while I am not together with that person for entirely different reasons, you don't know how great a partner can be, until you meet a great partner. I wish you the same. :)
>>34044673No you talk like an annoying tranny and act like a rapist
>>34044668>Chad>MenLol, literally different species.
>>34044674>friendships growing in to romances is natural and healthyNta, but this is fucking retarded. Stop getting your understanding of social cues from highschool rom-coms.
>>34044676>you talk likeschizo
>>34044661The funny thing is, your claim, the>Realize a lot of what you would think of as "simping" is totally normal for a very intense friendship between two women.and how most women don't do these things to the men fake friend situationagain, this is the weaponized ignorance.She knows what's happening, she knows she won't reciprocate, she knows he wants more, she's just reaping the benefits of the situation until it becomes too hot to handle, than it's the men's fault.
Wish I had a woman behind me so I could feel like a great man to at least one person.Doing it all alone sucks.
>>34044661>In most of these cases the woman does tell him she doesn't feel attracted or "that way" about him and he just does not quite believe her or cannot give up the chase.Exactly the case with what happened with me.Also, feelings aren’t always 100% black and white. You can have some affectionate feelings for someone, or be some level of attracted, while not wanting to fully outright date them for whatever other variables.>And what are you going to do? "Confront" someone with their niceties being strategic and not sincere? Typically a recipe for disaster.I remember I tried to do this. I was told “I’m just not shitting myself to come hangout with you anymore” after I told them I didn’t reciprocate romantic feelings. I was like oh-thought you actually just wanted to h-hangout. Lol. But I understood.
>>34044681>thanthen
>>34044678I support abusing all men regardless if they're "Chad" or not. I hope you find your own Amber Heard.
>>34044675Aw thank you :)
>>34044680You type like an annoying tranny and act like a rapist
>>34044665This.I'm a man and I was Team Amber too. Foids all hated her because she was beautiful. I've seen this happen at work also.
>>34044679Jokes on you I got my understanding of social cues from YA star wars expanded universe novels :^
>>34044686>I Hope you find love at least once in your life Thank you for the kind words, but that doesn't change that if you're going to be this much of a bitter defeatist you really should just kill yourself and stop wasting resources and time. The world would genuinely be a better place if you were dead and I don't mean that as a insult, but as a fact, if you care at all about improving it, please, start by killing yourself.
H-happy Saturday
>>34044690I was team Amber. From my own toxic relationship I recognized so much gaslighting and slander in that court case. It was really fucked up to see him win in the end, and just sit there completely silent. She even had photos with iPhone metadata of her bruises and shit, with the whole her throwing something to slash his finger, that could’ve very well been “reactive abuse” but they painted her out to be crazy. Meanwhile Johnny was an alcoholic.
>>34044689>You type likeprojection
>>34044681>She knows what's happening, she knows she won't reciprocate, she knows he wants more, she's just reaping the benefits of the situation until it becomes too hot to handle, than it's the men's fault.What the fuck are we supposed to do though? Just cut it off at the root? I mean, idk.
>>34044695What the fuck did you just say to me nigger?You ever say that to me again, and I will kill you, understand?
>>34044698That's the thing femanon, women are dammned if they do, and dammned if they don't. Moids will always blame you no matter what you do.
>>34044690Like, that court case was literally a modern witch hunt trial.
>>34044681>and how most women don't do these things to the men fake friend situationI used to. I stopped because it was taken the wrong way. The women I know who still do it are the women that get caught up in these emotional misalignments about what you are from each other.I know that I'm probably not going to convince you reality is messy on the other side as well though. But most women in like their early twenties or older have already been through this whole situation and they know an unrequited friendship/crush like this blows up in your face 9/10 times and ends with the guy feeling really hurt and telling everyone you are a raging cold-hearted cunt. Budding drama is something few people enjoy especially after a certain age.
>>34044695What’s happy about it
>>34044681>>34044703Also for the record I was too mild here, I did not stop because it was taken the wrong way, but rather because specific things I did were used as arguments for why they were angry I now still wouldn't fuck them. After you have a guy yelling about how you came by with movies and snacks when he was home alone sick in an enraged way, like you make sure to stop trust me.
>>34044698Again, weaponized ignorance.She knows there's a mismatch in energy and intention, but the situation is beneficial to her so she lets that shit brew until it gets ugly, and then it's the man's fault for getting emotional after getting mixed signals and finally having an outburst, literally gaslighting and emotional manipulation 101.Like getting unpaid internship for 6 months and then getting told you're not hired after doing real work all this time.
>>34044698>Just cut it off at the root?Yes. If a guy is pushing for something you don’t want, cut him off.
>>34044704I’m alive and breathing and maybe I’ll have a better Saturday in the future
>>34044688You're welcome!Many people fall for the wrong person every now and then, but at least it helps you to look out for things better the next time and understand what you definitely do not want.
>>34044709now that you mention it, it really is just the same rhetoric rapist men use isn't it, going "she should've known"if she didn't want to have sex, why did she get drunk with me and then come to my place?
>>34044708>you came by with movies and snacks when he was home alone sickyeah if you did that, that's 100% a relationship thing not a friend thing. again, you are at fault here. you will get no validation because you are wrong.
>>34044709>She knows there's a mismatch in energy and intentionNTA but it is rare for friendships to actually be 50/50. There is very often a person who reaches out more, voices more explicit affection, wants to spend more time etc. Though if it's a long friendship, those roles can be swapped over time.>Like getting unpaid internship for 6 months and then getting told you're not hired after doing real work all this time.Friendship is its own reward for many if not most people. It's not anybody else's fault if you saw it as a humiliating stepping stone to what you actually want. Even in your internship metaphor, it is on you if they were upfront from the start that it's just an internship that probably will not turn into paid work and you still only stayed because you hoped it would.
If you had 4 years and 7 months to live, what would you do?
>>34044716>yeah if you did that, that's 100% a relationship thing not a friend thing....for a man, yes, I learned that day. None of my female friends would ever react with anything other than appreciation to it. Hell I sent one of my closest female friends a "can we call soon? I miss you and want to hear your voice, X"-message just now and there's zero chance she will read anything romantic or sexual into it.Basically this is exactly what I mean with the mismatch, guys feel led on by women doing things that they are used to doing in friendships.
>>34044709Sigh. Sure, I can understand that sentiment. But a friendship isn’t supposed to be as transactional as an unpaid internship. And internships aren’t always guaranteed to get you hired either. You know it’s for the experience.Anyway, I do get what you’re saying. But having it blow up in your face when from a girls pov you weren’t truly doing anything wrong, like you weren’t mistreating them, really fucking sucks. And then losing that friendship completely also sucks bc it makes you feel like they never actually cared about you in the first place. It was just about hoping what they could get out of it sorta thing. Idk, it’s super messy. Those two novel posts were about me and my situation. Now me and my friend don’t talk. They never had the guts to respond or reach out to me. And let their new partner do the body guarding for them which caused hella drama for me and honestly impacted me mentally as well.
>>34044718I’d probably take at least one month-long vacation. I’d probably also spend most of that time with family.
>>34044715>if she didn't want to have sex, why did she get drunk with me and then come to my place?Peak.Women sound like this all the time.
I think making him wait to have sex backfired, because when I let him do it he still broke up with me
>>34044721Well that’s worthless for me because my family is awful>>34044724Yeah in my experience her making me wait made me feel worthless and like I wasn’t good enough
>>34044726But you still did it?
>>34044728Did what, have sex? Yeah, I loved her and wanted to be with her
Sometimes I just get the urge to rewatch amogushttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=obmlZH3X9gs
>>34044731So you had sex and then broke up with her
>>34044718Fap daily, fuck hookers as often as possible, do hard drugs in my last 6 months, try to induce overdose to die beforehand, fail and realize I have been wasting my life and suicide bomb the next World Jewish Congress.Only if I did have 4 years left of course.But I don't. So right now I can do nothing and continue to let the world burn.Honestly this is probably why there is no healthcare in the USA, there is already enough people with something to lose, the elites probably benefit from people not knowing how soon they will die abruptly and try to use their remaining time effectively.
If you were attracted and had feelings why would you not want sex. You're telling them the opposite.
boys, what should I rub one to?
>>34044740Mpreg
>>34044734No, we lasted 3 years after
>>34044740My diary desu.
>>34044741idk what that is..
>>34044738A lot of young women are worried about being used for sex. They can be attracted and have feelings and still not feel enough trust to let their guard down and relax, enjoy sex. Arousal for many women is drowned out easily by anxiety and fears. For men too, BTW, this is a huge part of performance anxiety after all. I only started dating (or having sex) when I was a bit older. I don't think I would have made anyone wait when younger, either, simply because I would've been too afraid they would walk away over it. But I definitely would've preferred letting feelings build, having fun and enjoying the excitement without real sex instantly entering the picture (or worse, pressure to get to real sex already).
>>34044720>And then losing that friendship completely also sucks bc it makes you feel like they never actually cared about you in the first place. It was just about hoping what they could get out of it sorta thing.Not him, but it's also just hurtful being around somebody you love who doesn't love you back.>Idk, it’s super messy.Not as much as you think, because for you being vague and not confronting issues is the easy way out..Being direct about these things is always favorable. Honesty trumps whatever result it has.
>>34044744hi cutie what’s in your diary
>>34044737I’m not American and I’ve done the hard drugs. I don’t see a point in having sex either
>>34044719>zero chance she will read anything romantic or sexual into it.Because neither of you is homosexual, I take it. :|
>>34044749You are mom.
>>34044748Not her but I have been in similar situations. I have told the guy variations on "it feels like you have feelings for me beyond friendship and I want to let you know I don't feel the same way" at least five times. Not one of them actually said fine, let's never see each other again. The only guys I have ever known who could run with a straight-up rejection were the ones who were very clear about their own intentions too. If a guy's already being direct you can't necessarily force him into being more honest with himself or you. And I do think in a lot of those cases the guy legitimately thought he was fine being just friends for some time.
What is it with zoomers and the number 69?I went to the store today, bought a few things, the total price came to 69 currencies. The girl at the checkout counter couldn't help but add a "Nice!".
>>34044752No, actually, we are both bisexual and open about finding women beautiful and exciting. Hell, we only befriended each other initially because I asked her out and she took it as an invitation to just hang out, which I realized over the course of the night.
>just be worthy of being chosen >just be friendly>just be attractive>just be kind>you’re worthy of love regardless I wish people could just admit that they got lucky
Would you bake him?
>>34044759The 69 giggles are old as time, not a gen Z thing.
>>34044759Jew Kabbalah mystics have ascribed spells to 69 and 67 to further their own goals and fight the holy number of 68 which holds aryan coding.
>>34044762it's not luck if you're attractive and desirable
>>34044570I would become so depressed and reclusive idk how long it would take to recover from that.But it would change my entire life for the worse.
All women are hypergamous.
>>34044777so are all men humans aren't a monogamous species
>>34044756You are correct that a lot of men, especially the lonely/introverted/online type, think that you are going to change your mind if he just keeps sticking around and being there for you. Because he himself has already made the decision that you are his target of interest.Or he has the mentality of thinking he's outright able to buy you. lolWhich says a lot about his view on women...>And I do think in a lot of those cases the guy legitimately thought he was fine being just friends for some time.Yeah, maybe it was his first time.You are not responsible anymore once you have made it clear you are not romantically interested in them, but you should do that, which was the point I was trying to make with my post.
>>34044780This, which is why I have no empathy for druggies, alcoholics, and gambling addicts.I'll gladly watch them kill themselves. People who have no control over themselves are pathetic.
>>34044780>You are not responsible anymore once you have made it clear you are not romantically interested in them, but you should do that, which was the point I was trying to make with my post.Right, sorry for misunderstanding, I do agree with that then. Of course it can be awkward if he denies or actually does not feel that way and thinks you're full of it. But that is still minor compared to not speaking up and him maybe being quite hurt over time. >Because he himself has already made the decision that you are his target of interestYeah and I honestly personally feel a lot of young guys actively feel more comfortable with this role of being the sidekick and making a play for her heart, than being around someone straight up openly interested, having a bunch of expectations etc. I think it is also often a way to lay low and feel like by the time they have "won her over" he will also feel comfortable with her.At least, for some time I was prone to idealizing only people that I would never get with and in hindsight this was absolutely the reason for me, I was afraid of anything real so I just wanted to enjoy exciting fantasies instead.
>>34044764But the "Nice!" postfix seems almost compulsory for zoomers though.
>>34044780Would you date a 28-year-old virgin man from Canada? He may have been abused in the past...
>>34044774Nice bait
>>34044778>humans aren't a monogamous speciesyes they arejust look around"humans are meant to be carnivore/vegan" type bullshit
church lady is being pushy about me coming to the Christmas concert but in a Sweet way. And she said she wants to meet my parents, who aren’t even Christian. I’m getting kinda worried desu. I don’t want to be in a get out sort of situation.
>>34044759Modern society is so fragmented and disconnected from one another, we will find anything we can to foster a feeling of belongingEven a mundane number like 69 or 6-7, if you announce that you know about and are in on the joke, you feel a sense of belonging
>>34044780>>34044783It really isn't that complicated.All you need to answer is this.Does the women ever stop accepting the benefits.if yes, she's not in the wrong anymore.if no, she's still in the wrong.simple.Because you can blame him for not taking the hint, but if you keep taking, if you keep accepting even after telling him you don't feel the same way, which highlights the fact that you have a very clear understanding of exactly what's happening, which in some way makes the women's action even more indefensible, you're still in the wrong.
Women do you like facials?
>>34044798>Does the women ever stop accepting the benefits.It is normal to feel like you both get benefits out of a friendship. It is normal to accept someone being kind to you, listening to you etc in a friendship without feeling like you are using them, especially if you provide the same in turn and don't "take" anything you don't give. Most guys if aready told the feelings are not mutual are smart enough not to give gifts, compliments etc so their simping just looks like.... being a good friend. I don't understand why you seem to find it so hard to swallow that friendship IS a benefit to most people, not something you endure in the hope that things get better.
>>34044760you're the kind of retard that should be locked away in a nunnery
>>34044802Nah I don't. I like cum on my body though. But the face is a pain to clean up and instead of enjoying the prospect of being cum on you get to brace yourself and hope it doesn't go in your eyes or up your nose. Concentrated aim face also isn't hot. You basically have the pov of a toilet being pissed in.
>>34044806Except it did not cause issues and instead of resenting and hating her for not being sexually attracted to me, we are still friends over ten years later and I even get to enjoy playing aunt to her adorable kids. If she had said yes, we probably would've had an awkward fling that fizzled out, then nothing. Men cuck themselves by being so fucking hung up on any perceived rejection and judgement from women.
>>34044793We're not either of those, there are innumerable examples of polygamous societies, and just as many monogamous societies, it is simply a cultural choice
>>34044812Nice fallacy
>>34044805You're right. Friendship is a benefit, and of course it’s normal to accept kindness. But that's just a way to hide the real issue behind a distraction.We're not talking about accepting a coffee here.Do not try to mix reciprocal friendship with non-reciprocal emotional investment.When you accept his clearly excessive attention, you are leveraging his romantic motivation for platonic gain. The moment you accept that excessive payment after stating your rejection, you stop being an innocent friend and become the beneficiary of his delusion. You are enabling the cycle by keeping the door slightly ajar for the payment you know is rooted in non-platonic expectation.
>>34044816Am I wrong that if I'd had a dick, guys would think I was a self-hating cuck for still being friends with someone who rejected me 10+ years later, even being friends with her partner? Except it is one of the biggest sources of happiness in my life. Friendship is a fucking wonderful thing. Not necessarily more than romantic love but certainly more than sex(ual attraction) alone and more durable than most attempts at lifelong romantic love.>>34044817>When you accept his clearly excessive attentionAnon once again the level that is "clearly excessive" is hugely gendered. A guy bending over backwards to be a woman's "emotional tampon" and listen to all her thoughts and feelings, is still only doing what her female friends do too. And the woman involved usually does not realize he would not do it for his male friends. As I said, yeah, sometimes guys are more blatant with compliments, favors or gifts, but by far most of them know to lay low and cut anything like that out if they have already been told she does not feel romantic about him. You never really know what goes on in someone else's life, either. If someone always responds faster than you do and longer, you could think "huh they might like me" OR you can think "huh they apparently are kind of lonely/need social interaction more than I do right now". Neither of those is unbelievable. I don't understand why if you have already been truthful about your feelings and the guy is not truthful about his, the onus is still on you to realize that and create the distance he didn't or couldn't.
>>34044821You’re a woman, you wouldn’t get it
>>34044823If you are right, why do you resent women for not getting it when they just cannot?
>>34044821You already told him no. That single action proves that at one point, you were certain enough of his romantic interest to enforce a boundary.The argument is about what happened after that certainty.The "emotional tampon" role is only plausible deniability until it becomes clear that his high level investment is exclusive and conditional on you.You know, or found out later, that he would never offer that same extreme level of emotional subsidy to his male friends.He might be lying about his motives, but you are the only person who can stop accepting his non-platonic payment.You are not responsible for his inability to take distance, but you are 100% responsible for leveraging his romantic hope to maintain a comfortable emotional resource, which is the definition of weaponized ignorance and exploitation here.
>second time this girl in a LDR has gotten extremely affectionate towards me while we were out drinking with friends>got awkward stares from everyone and even got questions from the girl she was trying to set me up withWomen of /atoga, I need to tell her it makes me feel weird that she does this. She's pretty, sure, but as much as it feels good, it also feels uncomfortable knowing she has a bf somewhere else. But how do I politely bring this up to her?
>>34044759No girl has ever said nice to 69
>>34044827I was nta, I don’t care because I’ve never orbited a woman. Why would I when they can find whatever they want in someone else. I feel that way with both genders, I am replaceable so I don’t bother orbiting
>>34044828>The "emotional tampon" role is only plausible deniability until it becomes clear that his high level investment is exclusive and conditional on you.Anon, realistically, how would I even know that? I have been in this exact situation, where I had told a friend his attention felt romantic and I did not feel that way. He said huh, interesting, I don't feel it is romantic, I am just being myself with you. This guy had a lot of female friends - more than male friends - and I never saw him interact with those. We had met because we were fellow students in a very small course and we had next to no overlap in social circles. How in the world would I have been able to even have a hunch whether he listened to other girls as long or as much? Yeah I had a gut feeling but it's quite something to care more about your own gut feeling (and I was young and inexperienced) than about someone else's explicit statement on their own feelings. >you are 100% responsible for leveraging his romantic hope to maintain a comfortable emotional resourceExcept I was also a comfortable emotional resource to him. If he valued my time, listening, care etc not as much, okay, that is out of my control. I am arguing you but I do agree if it goes all the way to having a friend you can call up whenever to cry about your day and you still think he's just so sweet, you are being willfully blind. Most situations are not nearly as blatant though.
State age, genderWould you go for someone out of your league?
Is this true?
>>34044506>If you met him IRL, you'd treat him like dirt.I'm not some sociopath. I treat everyone with respect until they give me a reason not to.>>34044552>Is anyone else fascinated with nudity in a non sexual wayArtistically, yes. The human form is pretty great.>>34044570>How would you react if your brother killed himself?I'd laugh myself to death if it was my youngest brother. Be slightly perturbed if it was my middle brother, and conflicted if it was my eldest brother.>>34044639>Who is your favourite family member? Your favourite memory with him/her?FMy uncle. He was always there for me when no one else was and was everything I wished my dad was. My favorite memory of him was when he gave me my dog. He was a bluetick puppy I had for almost 15 years, and that dog was my best friend in the world. He kept me from killing myself on several occasions.>>34044802>Women do you like facials?No, too much risk of it getting in my hair.
I think it's really sad that men and women can't usually be friends. Talking from a man's perspective though, if you like a girl and are attracted it's SO easy to catch feelings.And like, they're there. You have to go out get another woman, they do not come to you.I also don't want to be used.
>>3404484032F, yeah sure. Though not going to lie I don't think I would be super comfortable over time if they were actually, say, younger, more conventionally attractive and more successful than me. But for a fling yeah, it's up to the other person to decide if I can get them or not, I can only try.
>>34044840Sure I have nothing to lose
>>34044844It is true but don't tell someone they're "brave" for wearing something, it can read passive aggressive rather than as a compliment. As for why, as happy as a woman might be with her body or not, it does not reflect her personality the way her style does and in that sense it feels kind of impersonal to be complimented on. And the women that get complimented on their body the most are usually VERY aware men are into their body on average so they are more likely to want reassurance in other areas, like her intelligence or humor.
>>34044851Vanity animals
>>34044846I really don't understand that, I develop feelings for my friends all the time but I'm not an ape so I just enjoy the butterflies rather than pursue someone who isn't compatible due to a lack of mutual interest if nothing else. No one has come to me either and that is in no way relevant to my feelings for someone.
>>34044854What, you think men don't have an ego or do not enjoy being complimented or admired by women?
>>34044856Sure they do
>>34044855Wow I can’t wait to be the compatible option
>>34044851I think he's being silly since we know that's a catty backhanded compliment women give each other
>>34044855To be fair I was all up ITT arguing why it's not women's fault when men remain silently friendzoned, but I still get how and why this happens. Women are so much more affectionate, emotional, warm etc with one another than men are a lot of the time, especially young guys. Yeah they will love their bros and deep down everyone knows it but there is not a lot of overt nurturing or appreciative vibes the way there is between women who will giggle over everything and nothing together, braid each other's hair, tell each other how hot they look in any outfit, you name it. A lot of young men are very starved for deeper connection and attention, for physicality and affection. It is kind of natural that this makes it very hard to not think of a friend (a woman whose company you like, you feel ccomfortable with) as romantic potential. I guess you could even compare it to being so starving any kind of food smell triggers your hunger, even if it's food you would never choose if given choices.
>>34044839You are absolutely right that you can't be in his social circle, and his explicit denial complicates things. But that only means your ethical duty doesn't require spying, it requires investigation or withdrawal.The test isn't whether you know what he does for his other friends, the test is whether he is willing to accept platonic reciprocity that costs him his romantic motive. You could have simply asked him to back off and focus on his own romantic life, by requesting that he take a break from being your primary emotional contact, maybe actually search for a girlfriend, or commit more time to his other existing Male friendships for a set period.The reason you don't make this healthy request is because you know his intense attention is conditional on access to you. You were not just a comfortable resource, you were leveraging your rejection to keep an exclusive, high-effort emotional resource, and THAT is the exploitation. When his self-denial broke, you used his own earlier lie ("I am just being myself") to gaslight him, claiming he was hysterical for breaking the boundary YOU tacitly Allowed him to cross for months.
>>34044861Maybe you're right and it's just a troll slipping one explosive option in with the other two benign ones. But tbf I have heard and given the "I would NEVER dare to wear that" as a compliment if someone wears something particularly striking/bold/unique and looks great in it. A lot is in the tone and delivery but I would generally just avoid the word brave there...
So you’re just gonna type all day about how full of love women are Why are you people even here, go get a coffee with your friends irl, go talk to your husbands
>>34044844>you're so brave for wearing that lmao what, thats ride afthe rest sounds like you want to be my gay bestie
>>3404484043MI did. It went badly. Probably wouldn't do it again.
My favorite part about being alone is how much it makes me want to die and everything I do is just a pathetic attempt at trying to feel even a fraction of what it's like to be in love
>>34044870I hate interacting with people irl
>>34044870most people of both sexes dramatically overrate how loving and romantic they really are, women are just culturally allowed to not get reality checked for it.
Women, do you want men to be bisexual?
>>34044844lol
Wait I am so ugly lol even if I wear make up my face is so horrible
>>34044880Very manipulative post.
>>34044834Clearly this is not true.
>>34044874Right, much better to lord over the losers
I need a chin reduction this is embarassing
>>34044873It ain't that serious, man.
>>34044880skill issue
>>34044865>You could have simply asked him to back off and focus on his own romantic lifeFor the record this guy did have quite an active dating and sex life. Which was another reason why I did not necessarily suspect ulterior motives despite my gut feeling saying otherwise. He was fine being told I was too busy to be in touch much for some time and he was even the one saying that himself too at times. >The reason you don't make this healthy requestBut i did, anon. It gets really tiring needing to talk back to a string of assumptions. These situations look less black and white and messier in practice than in your head. And yeah once again if it wasn't clear - I do feel this is a guy I in practice strung along without realizing it, through some toxic cocktail of personal insecurities, a lack of real life experience and an inclination to want to be able to rationalize my every decision instead of listening to intuition. Also we never argued over it when he stopped reaching out. I sent a few messages to make sure he wasn't dropping off the radar because of some personal crisis and once it was clear to me he did not want to hear from me specifically, I stopped.
>>34044883they are my people
>>34044873If your life is this empty, having a partner isn't going to fix that much.
>>34044886Someone who’s never been alone
Plapping big titty women
>>34044891I didn't say it was empty
>>34044890Fuck off and die
>>34044870>Why are you people even hereIn practical terms, my partner's fallen asleep watching a movie in bed and I have no plans for today. As for the motivation, it is because I spent like ten years on this website when I was super depressed and I don't want to fuck off and go live my best life without looking back now that I no longer am. I want people to know you can be a huge fucking loser and still get more of a (social) life in time.
>>34044892I've been alone my entire life, unless you count living with family members.
>>34044898At least you admit you’re doing it for narcissism >>34044899Sure
>>34044876Only a little bit. But not in practice.
>>34044900>At least you admit you’re doing it for narcissismNot what I said but whatever, it won't matter to you anyway, I replied.
>>34044897someone's in a bad mood
>>34044900>SureI don't know if you think I'm a woman but I'm a guy, and why would I lie about having no friends or romantic relationships?
>no reply for 2 hours It’s over. In truth, it never really even began.
>>34044876I love bisexual men because they are usually a lot less judgy about female sexuality and a lot less rigid about gender roles in a relationship or during sex. Even for just friendship they are usually less hung up on having to hate everything feminine to be real men - it is hardly fun to spend time with someone who feels pressure to look down on everything associated with your sex.
>>34044840MI only go for people out of my league. I'm tall so I can get away with it, and women are the same amount of bullshit whether they're a 2 or an 11 and usually the latter is in better physical and mental health. there's no reason to compromise.
>>34044896I inferred it, from how you seem to have nothing else fulfilling going on.
>>34044903Not what you said explicitly but it’s very obvious you’re doing it as a form of “wow glad I’m not like you losers anymore look at how far I’ve gotten gosh maybe you can get there too haha”What a waste >>34044907Why would anyone lie about anything? Tell me more about alone you are with all those loving family members and money they give you
>>34044909Sounds like you're just the problem in reverse lol
>>34044908but in my heart, it was so real
>>34044912I do everything else people say they find fulfilling. But I'm just not the find of person who if fulfilled by a career or hobby alone. I need more
>>34044898>I want people to know you can be a huge fucking loser and still get more of a (social) life in time.how
>>34044791I'm not gay.>>34044783>I was afraid of anything real so I just wanted to enjoy exciting fantasies instead.That's also how parasocial relationships on places like Twitch begin.>>34044798>It really isn't that complicated.I give gifts to my male and female friends.I spend time with them, even the typical "nerdy" stuff like gaming.I even cook for my friends, yet none of them assume I wanna fuck them.>Do not try to mix reciprocal friendship with non-reciprocal emotional investment.People can have very different standards for what counts as what. A lot of this has to do with the household you grew up in.I agree with there being a point where it becomes "too much" and it clearly should be cut off by the receiver too. However, that point might be very different for you than for others.>>34044828>until it becomes clear that his high level investment is exclusive and conditional on you.You don't necessarily know how he behaves around others.Doubly so if it's just online.>>34044865It's getting a bit ridiculous how you just keep throwing extreme assumptions at her, without asking first, which is a bit ironic considering you just wrote "it requires investigation".
>>34044914Nah, I've had friends since high school, if anything I went through a whole "cool girl" phase of feigning interest in anything men were interested in. I grew out of that but I still enjoy male company and traditionally masculine hobbies I don't relate to are still kind of exotic and interesting to me for those reasons alone.
>>34044871It was in response to this
>>34044888Women's default state is basically is profitable, passive negligence.The complexity of your situation certainly dismantles the argument of a deliberate, calculated campaign of gaslighting.However, your own defense confirms the remaining moral fault. Your claim is the exact definition of the negligent exploitation we are talking about.You didn't need to be a villain, you just needed to be passively benefiting from a known pathology.You had two facts: a high-effort emotional resource being poured into you, and your own "gut feeling" saying that payment was conditional.Imagine a female streamer, who receives massive amounts of money from a singular man. She later finds out that this man was actually not rich, and was putting himself in massive debt just to donate for her attention.Not even talking about refunding him, would you still accept money from this person?If yes, then again, moral fault, if no then no moral fault.You were culpable for negligent exploitation because you knowingly enabled and maintained that self-destructive transaction for the comfort it provided you.
It's really annoying when somebody is being rude to you and then one day decides to try and be best buddies with you. I'm not just going to forget your previous behavior because you want us to shake hands and have a dance together or whatever.
>>34044920That doesn't dispute what I said lol
>>34044918Have a vagina and the world will always accept you
>>34044908then you wonder why you're single
>>34044898That’s really sweet, anon. I suppose there’s a kind of comfort on here that never goes away. Like remembering who you were as a child or teenager, even if you were a “loser.”
>>34044917>I'm just not the find of person who if fulfilled by a career or hobby aloneMost people aren't. Most people aren't that single minded.
>>34044926It’s really not that simple dude…
>>34044926It's really that simple dude...
>>34044918I know it's not a very satisfying answer but I hope it is still also reassuring. I am now early thirties and have seen a lot of people struggle, most get better with time as long as they do not opt out of trying. The relationship with yourself is not unlike a relationship with another person - if you have a conflict with them and you try to work on it, even if your attempts/strategies are misguided, over time the very fact that you both realize you are in it for real and are seriously desiring and investing effort into making it better, creates more trust, more love, more relaxation and THAT often causes issues to soften. It is also inevitable that you start to understand more of yourself (both your history and what does and does not work for you) over time and with more life experience.NGL I have had around nine years of professional therapy too but I can honestly say I don't think it would've turned out differently otherwise, it would just have taken me longer, the biggest thing is not giving up on yourself or the people that love you. I wish I could give you a more straightforward playthrough but the real loophole is realizing you only live for yourself and you are allowed to focus all your energy and attention on what works for you, even if that would work for literally nobody else.
>>34044930Yeah it is, sorry to burst your bubble but your existence is easy mode
>>34044932> the people that love you.Woman alert, taking for granted the fact that she is loved and cared for
How am I supposed to not hate women when they prove my biases right with their behaviour?
>>34044936Accept that you don’t want to hate them and willingly blind yourself
>>34044925Then maybe you did not understand what I said. I said I like bisexual men because they tend to legitimately enjoy female company and not look down on female-associated hobbies (like fashion/make up, just to name one). I love male company, around half my friends are male and I am fine engaging in or hearing about male hobbies including uncool/nerdy associated ones, would not feel pressure to make comments like "being a girl I don't really care about any of this" like I heard pretty often the other way around. So no I do not show the behavior I said I dislike. But they are not really equivalent in the first place, either, because for women it is usually shown as cool to be into male stuff, anyway, not as unfeminine or unattractive. It's not men's fault they are shamed for being too feminine, supposedly, but if they internalize it and try to dissociate themselves from feminine stuff it's definitely no fun to be around them for a woman who is obviously feminine by definition.
>>34044929Then what is the point of calling me and my life empty.
>>34044936Because your biases are probably dumb shit like "wtf, they are attracted to attractive men" or "they are distrustful of potentially dangerous people"
>>34044923I guess then the question becomes this.>Is a woman's privilege her fault? Is it her fault for being a woman and being allowed to benefit from all the social grace and natural benefits given to her just for being a woman.To this, I would say No. She's not at fault. You can't blame an attractive person for being treated better just because they're attractive.But then the other question>Must a person recognize the power they hold? Must a women knowing she's a women, be aware of the power she holds over others in social interaction and relationship dynamics?To this, I would say Yes. A person must recognize the influence they hold because that influence determines the ethical impact of their actions. Failure to do so transforms passive privilege into active negligence.She has a duty of honesty and non-deception in her social dealings. While she may not be deceiving others with her words, she is deceiving herself about the nature of the transaction to maintain the benefit. The failure to recognize the premium price being paid is a failure in the duty of good faith.
>>34044928There is, it goes both ways too, I hear people voice insecurities and fears that I only realize I no longer have myself once I hear them again. And at the same time I am able (at least sometimes, of course, not trying to pretend my every post is the beacon of hopefulness I hope for) to try to be the person I needed myself when I was voicing feeling hopeless a hundred different ways by screaming in the void. I take it you relate, too, happy to hear from you anon. Have a pretty flower.
Does the ol dick in the popcorn box trick actually work?
>>34044934It is only an extreme minority of people that are not loved by anyone at all. By far most of us are loved by our parents/siblings if by nobody else, even if those parents were also flawed or even outright abusive. It is just not a kind of love that usually fullfills a person the way lonely people dream about. But that doesn't negate the love either.
>>34044944An exercise in self indulgence simply because you only react to neutral and positive and will never confront a hostile or angry person, but good job turning your cope into an excellent source of self fellatio
>>34044939Or we could just not like it lolNot everything has to be a sexual competition
My fingers stink
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lGRKAGIx-vg
>>34044946Oh ok wow you solved it I guess my dad really loved me when he shot my dog and my mom loved me when she choked me thanks anonI can’t wait to read “sorry, I know how this feels because my dad shot my mom while she was choking my dog, you’re still worthy of love” like that’ll mean anything
>>34044923Anon I feel we are very close together in viewpoints now. I do not disagree that he offered me more than I offered him, no doubt, in hindsight. I do not find nothing to fault in my behavior. But it was legitimately misguided. I was actively confused by the stereotype that friendzoned guys are forever alone types and I had a very hard time wrapping my head around my friend who had a colorful sex life (while I was celibate) as that kind of poor, cucked and denied guy. He was also six years older than me so I figured he knew what he was doing and apparently this was "his normal" and I was the one reading more into it.Had I known, as I think he did, that he would ultimately walk away feeling hurt, then yes I would have distanced myself. I would have no longer been able to enjoy his attentive attention in the first place. He would've made me feel guilty and it would've been easy to avoid him. That is also what I did with anybody reminding me of him in the future, just to be sure.
>>34044950stop digging in your butt then.
>>34044942>they are attracted to attractive menWomen not considering most men to even be people is true.>"they are distrustful of potentially dangerous people"But women love dangerous men, otherwise they wouldn't date every abuser to have ever been born.
>>34044948I react to questions about painful and difficult stuff all the time, also with examples of my own life, you would just not recognize those posts as also me. Nor do I want that because then you get the internet persona thing and if I wanted that I'd just post as a tripfag.It is true that I do not respond to posts so angry that I don't for a second have the illusion that I can get through, anyway. There needs to be some level of conversation possible. If someone responds to any attempt at a more hopeful perspective with "you're just an evil cunt trying to trick me into..." then yeah I'm not going to keep pouring my time into that, apparently I am then just in no position to make anything better and that's fine, that happens all the time.
>>34044956Why is every incel such a dumb fuck obsessed with the same 3 topics? You’re not 15 anymore retard, you should hate women for their self aggrandizing hippy virtue-less souls, not because of who they choose to fuck
>>34044953I'm not going to share what my parents did but I didn't need the therapy for nothing, no, which is why I explicitly inluded someone loving you does not necessarily mean they can make you feel loved or treat you that way. If you are not ready to feel that way that's fine, enormous anger is a necessary part of coming to terms with your past if it was that grim.
>>34044959But I DO hate women because they lack souls and have no real personality.
>>34044949Simply not liking it is something else and is totally fine. You will never have 100% overlap in interests. It's the need to voice disdain that is an issue.
>>34044962So you’re gonna feed the spiel that the anger only hurts the self and it’s better to let it go or use it for something else and become your own inner parent or something? Do you not understand that no one will love a man by virtue of his existence? That’s what women get to have
>>34044940Like I said, I don't think having a partner would suddenly make everything else fulfilling. And it wouldn't be be fulfilling enough in it's own right to make up for the emptiness of the rest of your life.
>>34044966I'm sure my male interests would eventually overwhelm you lol
>>34044943lolyour argument only works if you assume women are naturally good, and moral. You wouldn't blame a lion for killing prey, why would you blame woman for accepting money from a self destructive man.It's just how women operate.
>>34044963You’re missing the point. They don’t have virtue or ethics, not truly. Not one single woman would ever sacrifice for her principles UNLESS it was a vanity thing
>>34044974>Not one single woman would ever sacrifice for her principles UNLESS it was a vanity thingThis is not gender specific.
>>34044967>So you’re gonna feed the spiel that the anger only hurts the selfI literally said the anger is necessary (and justified and healthy, I could have added). So no that's not what I meant. If you were abused, especially as a child, you just need that rage to distance yourself from their behavior and allow to grow into a different kind of person. I cannot deny, though, that you were dead-on that I think people are ultimately most happy to be their own inner parent, yes. That does not mean denying yourself anger. It means more, not denying to yourself the sadness, the loneliness and pain that is in that anger too. Hardly anybody is loved "by virtue of their existence", that's a fate reserved for only the very most attractive, young, white, healthy people there are. It is true that people are on average more easily disarmed, endeared, taken with women. But they are also quicker to conclude this particular woman is a cunt if she isn't nice enough, exactly because they value female kindness (or even just positivity) so much. What's more, most relationships strand, even most marriages. Friendships last seven years on average from what I know. Everybody needs to find a balance between enjoying interpersonal warmth and not needing it to last forever and be unconditional - because then they will inevitably set themselves up for bitter disappointment. If not because this person stops loving you then because they stop living. I know it probably sounds really edgy like you are just not philosophical enough if you feel lonely. But loneliness is the human condition and if you stop fighting that it becomes easier to appreciate any semblance of kindness you receive instead of trying to test it and find out where its limits are.
Jesus fucking Christ I fucking hate men. You horrible soulless creatures. You have no capacity for forming real human connection, no understanding, no love. You are vile.
>>34044972Not this women bad shit again.What's the point of generalizing against an entire Gender based on one person's morally failed judgment and self-deception?
>>34044970Maybe they would, sure, I'm not trying to pretend I could listen to five hours of Warhammer stories enthralled. But because I have hated being on the receiving end so much I am always very careful not to write off a whole hobby as boring/pathetic/uninteresting just because I do not personally enjoy it. Besides it's so relative. Men enjoying making warhammer figures is no different to women enjoying, say, coloring mandalas. We find the same kind of benefits (relaxation and peace of mind in this case) out of different things so it is not as different as it seems, anyway.
>>34044977Alright, I’ll stop raging, because I know who you are and I respect you and your work Thanks.
>>34044983Maybe it's just a difference in consideration Most women i have met aren't that considerate
>>34043305m>met my first gf at work>later I was in a brief situationship thing with a male internet friendthat's it, both were over ten years ago and I have learned better than to inflict myself on others
>>34044981This but with women
>ghosted againIt's over
>>34044981Sorry, sis
>>34044984A surprising turn of events! But for real I appreciate it, my posts are not always on the level of understanding and lucidity I would like them to be but I can say honestly I am without exception always hoping it is read by someone who feels comforted or inspired by it in some way.
>>34044968You are entitled to your opinion
>>34044983You color a south african president?
>>34044988They have extracted all the benefit they wanted from you.
>>34044976But it's overwhelmingly women who would do that.
>>34044982women are as different from one another when it comes matters of ethics and socializing as are bananas in a bunch
>>34044985Yeah I actually should have included it in the post, obviously being a woman it is hard for me to judge both how prevalent it is and how much women make an effort to be kind to men (because I usually hear women comment on these topics to myself, obviously) but I have definitely heard women also talking with real disdain about certain male hobbies, or even using stuff like emotion about a sports event to make a crude "men are just kids at the end of the day amirite" comment. So I know there can definitely be an equivalent the other way around and I don't think that is any more excusable.
>>34044985NTA, do you think you're considerate? You've spent this whole conversation antagonistically insisting she's wrong.>Sounds like you're just the problem in reverse lol
>>34044990It wouldn’t be surprising if you knew who I was, but you talked to me after my suicide attempt so there’s only so much I can feed my own anger before it dies away. It’s not that I don’t understand these things, I’m just a very bitter and sad person. Keep doing what you’re doing, though, genuinely
>>34044994No, both genders do it equally, women just have men defending them since they're women.They appear to catch less flak, and I suppose they really do catch less flak in function if simp men are letting them off.
>>34044991Get out there and make yourself feel better about yourself instead of pining about what you don't have.
>>34044992As is tradition. But seriously if you're not just joking, mandalas are patterns like pic related and very common for coloring books aiming for adults more than kids.
>>34044992>>34045003Right of course I forget to include the pic.
chick media is mostly them being abused 24/7 some of it they like (abusechad) some of it they don't (they like escaping it (into the arms of yet another abusechad (nice to her)))
>>34045005When you think about it, dating abusers is another way women utilized weaponized negligence.
>>34045004>Christian Mental Health Services>Instructing people to color a Hindu/Buddhist symbolPaganism.
>>34045003I was both joking and didn't know
>>34044999Right. I am happy to hear you are still with us and still around, anon. I hope you are too but I take it that it's probably a day to day kind of thing.>It's not that I don't understand these things, I'm just a very bitter and sad person.Yeah I get that honestly. In general anything you want to say about happiness or love I think is not usually an issue of people being unable to believe you logically but rather their life experience screaming at them to lay low, to expect the worst. Damage like that can only be undone by someone else showing you love or kindness, showing with their actions that it can be a way you could not earlier believe, that you never saw before. And when you think about it, it also makes total sense that real lived experience cannot be negated by any kind of written or voiced message, that it needs to be proven wrong (or at least more complex) with more lived experience.But I cannot actually show anyone with real actions here, I have only words and I have to settle for those maybe reaching someone juuust at the right time, when their real life experience makes them open to it. Or that their guard breaks down and then they suddenly feel all those empty messages resonating after all. I know it worked that way for me after a few years of being pretty emotionally dead. Once that changed a lot of stuff came flooding back and started to impact me anyway. You don't have to stop being bitter and sad before you can. Nobody can do more than they can. But I hope it means something to you at least that speaking up and revealing me this has made my night.
>>34044909That's interesting. I've never really thought about it but all of my best female friends are ones I've talked to about BL/yaoi, lol.
>>34045005don't forget the other genres "complaining while rich and/or happily married" and "cheating on abusechad A with abusechad B"
>>34045010Enjoy them! There are lots of types. They are often psychedelic in feeling.
>>34044998No I just don't appreciate the self righteous attitude
>>34045017Guess what...
>>34044923>Women's default state is basically is profitable, passive negligence.evil shit
>>34045023Yeah it's really evil that men think this way about women. Vile, disgusting creatures
>>34044923Do you think that stores should ban fat people from buying unhealthy food?
>>34045021I have a self-righteous attitude? Why I'd never
>>34045011I cast an arbitrary suicide date far off in the future as a cope for it, but I have been okay overall. I still can’t really imagine a future where I feel comfortable and happy with positive relationships but I am working on myself. I am quite emotionally numb at the moment, but I do remember the things you say. The courage to pay it forward, yeah? > You don't have to stop being bitter and sad before you can.This is nice too. Thank you. I hate being in the throes of this, it’s embarrassing and gross, but I have nowhere else to externalize it, so I just say garbage. I have to believe the garbage in the moment or it’s all worthless and I just stay numbed and broken inside. I guess it’s a cry for companionship. > speaking up and revealing me this has made my night.I’m glad, because you remind me of someone that hates my guts, so I’m glad I can give back. You are a good person, I’ve seen it
>>34045001"just stop being depressed"
i know dating apps are really shit but i always wondered how good they could be if we had some black mirror brain scan to show compatibility over a million different simulated relationships, wouldnt that be nicegranted the risks are innumerable so it wouldnt be worth it anyway but i honestly feel like just finding the right person is such a huge barrier
>>34045027Women are like evil corporate entities, I'm glad we agree.
>>34045030Unironically t. used to be even more depressed
>>34045027body-fat calipers should be integrated into self-checkout kiosks by default
>>34043993Wassup
>>34045027i think fat people should be barred from basic human dignity and rights.
>>34045036Yeah it's almost like people should be responsible for their own behaviour and not blame it on the system, men, women, the race who shall not be named etc etc ad nauseam
>>34045033the algos are already as good as telepathic but the app devs have no incentive to make good matches easy and women have no interest in looksmatching or anything recognizable as compatibility
>>34045001>>34045030"Your mental illness is not your fault, but it is your responsibility."Take it from someone with severe traumas, it only gets better if you put in the work for it to get better. It's awful, it's painful, and it feels like a sisyphean task most days. But I stopped sometimes to look back from a place of actual happiness and can't even recognize the person I used to be. And that's not to say those traumas and that depression still don't affect me. They're something I have to wrestle with most days. But there is the capacity to feel, and grow, and love, and do all the other things you thought you weren't able to do or weren't worthy of.
Is it true that all women want is to be ontologically domesticated and shackled via their womb
>>34045029>I cast an arbitrary suicide date far off in the future as a cope for itGood. I feel people place too much emphasis on suicidal people needing to vow to never commit suicide or whatever, which is an insane thing to ask of someone. You would not tell a friend they better live out their natural life span no matter how much they end up suffering or for how long. There is no love in that. Vowing to yourself that whatever happens you must keep going, is just a way to give yourself a very long and potentially horrible way ahead. I think it is completely fine to both arbitrarily pick a date (you will see how you feel about it when it gets closer, anyway) or to promise yourself you will end it if XYZ happens. It is not about seeing anything through, it is about acknowledging to yourself that putting your well-being first can very much include not taking suicide off the table entirely. With ex-addicts we easily accept that they are sober one day at a time and unable to say if they will still be three years from now. I think it is similar. Forever is too long a time to ponder when you are already feeling very bad. There is no reason to do that to yourself at all. Yes, I wrote you that and I remember you once before mentioned that in particular really helping you, which is amazing and the fact that this impacted you more than just soothing things tells me you will absolutely pay it forward too. You might even do it already without realizing how you impact others in turn.>I hate being in the throes of this, it's embarrassing and gross, but I have nowhere to externalize it, so I just say garbage. Totally normal and common. >I guess it's a cry for companionship.It usually is. People that actually hate all others or are antisocial do not lament not having love in their life. They do not miss what they cannot feel or understand. They shout nobody could love them in some usually not even conscious hope that someone will hear and prove them wrong.
>>34045027goes against capitalism; mcdonalds will just sell more salad.
Sometimes I look at mentally ill bitches and think to myself 'nooo you are way too hot to be depressed'
>>34044840Yeah
>>34044981You really like that image huh?
>>34045051the hotter they are, the hotter the abusechad that pumped and dumped them
>>34045029>>34045048There is also a universally human urge to voice your fears and worst case scenarios, specifically to take the sting out of it. The more hurtful the scenario, the more powerful and scary it is in the dark of your head. You develop meta fears like, people would hate/judge me if they knew I felt this. It can be really cathartic for that reason alone to say it and admit what you are afraid of. It can be the psychological equivalent to turning on the lights and peering underneath your bed. So in summary just really really normal. The internet is also just generally filled with frustrated people. Even under the most basic news articles you find people raging and it's just because they take their life stress and find an outlet for it. It is hardly just you. Don't worry about that. It sounds like you are doing all you can to process your life. That should be enough for anyone, very much including yourself. Godspeed and I wish you all the strength and happiness there is in the future. I hope you one day find yourself telling someone to pay it forward and realizing how far you came.
>>34045055I have it on standby lol
>>34045043Who said I'm not working on that every day Who said I don't think I have the capacity to love
>>34045060https://archive.4plebs.org/adv/search/image/fJkgfgmkAYjwU10ENNyiEA/The funny thing is, I even replied to your first usage on atoga.*pat pat*
>>34045030What's the alternative? "just be depressed"? That's a shit way of existing and you gotta do what you can to make things better for yourself.I think this >>34045043 anon said it better.
Why don't the lonely, single femanons in this thread just date fat and balding guys?
>>34045058God bless you, anon. Thank you for your kindness
>>34045065You guys keep taking "I'm lonely" as "I do nothing with my life and wallow constantly" I'm tired of explaining myself
>>34045066Fat and Balding reporting in, if any fems are interested.
>>34045068Oh you are just avoidant gotcha
>>34045071You're doing it again what is the point of conversating with you
Women, thoughts on fat and balding but tall guys?
It's actually extremely narcissistic to *not* just admit you don't have an *actual* solution to a problem. Most people just say copeslop like looksmaxx as though that fixes it, and when it doesn't fix it it's "skill issue, works on my machine".
>>34045079Why do native English speakers always talk in buzzwords
>>34045081This >>34045075 is a euro.
>>34045078Lose weight
>>34045068>You guys keep taking "I'm lonely" as "I do nothing with my life and wallow constantly"No. I take "I'm lonely and it makes me want to die" as meaning that.And even if you do things with your life, they don't seem to be the right things for you.
>>34045063Oh dear, I've crashed out that many times? How embarrassing
>>34045079What does this say
>>34045086What makes you "crash out"?I only remembered it from a few days ago and then was curious enough to check. They have the same filename too. lol
>>34045085And what would the right thing for me be
>>34045066When I'm lonely I want emotional intimacy, not some knuckle-dragging urine stained XY ogre trying to nut in my face regardless of his BMI and hairline
I'm thinking about buying a 40 something inch tv or monitor as my side monitor, I'll then retire my 2011 monitor.Move my newer AOC monitor to the side as a vertical.using oled as my main, the TV as a side, and a vertical as a browsing aid.
>>34045092>knuckle-dragging urine stained XY ogreWhy you no like Bambam? :(
I'm convinced women don't actually exist.
>>34045090That I don't know. Start identifying what isn't working and start replacing that with things that work better, would probably be step 1.And no, it's not a "just" thing. It's a long and hard and difficult process, but it's better than the alternative.
>>34045089Tbh I'm mostly just joking or reacting to something in the thread
>>34045098So you say you hate men, for fun?
Men that I swiped on only matching with me 3 weeks later. What does that mean?
I had a dream where I was getting married and I felt nothing but dread and anxiety and I couldn't even remember who I was marrying. God is telling me something.
oh fuck yes
>>34045100They're either done fucking the other girls, or it's like>fuck... I guess she really is the only passable one around.
>>34045092What if I am proficient in emotional intimacy and the dragging of knuckles?
>>34045100Nothing? Tinder doesn't show every like to men because they want men to pay for it.
>>34045104Then you're still ugly.
>>34045105Thats messed up
>>34045099I hate EVIL moids, there just happens to be a lot of u
most depression (especially social/romantically inspired) is a simple result of people expecting every day or even most of them to be enjoyable and happy. but why would it be? life sucks. It's boring, disappointing, miserable, monotonous and frustrating. if you go in expecting it to not suck for 80% of the time you are bound to be depressed. Just accepting this fact will lessen the blow. this is why people dive into fiction when they're lonely because even tragic fictions still often depict unrealistically idyllic romance.
>>34045109You just hate me because I'm ugly.
>>34045100The app told them they had a match Knowing they had a match made them swipe moreThe app knowingly buried you for 3 weeks to get 3 weeks of frantic swiping and maybe some shekels
/atoga/a - hopet - theo - covertg - narcissista - replies
>>34045109I see, I see.Curious what evil moids you have met in the past.You wanna tell me?
>>34045100I had my fun and now want to settle
>emotional intimacy is only valuable if he's beautiful
>>34045104That can't be right, the male committee already announced that they only commit acts of emotional closeness to trade for sex with women
covert narcissism is just normalfag speak for any human that's not on some pills all the time.
Femanons, is it true that you dont like dudes with loud cars? Im not talking riced out 90s civics with ebay fartcans, but instead something cool like a v8 mustang. Would a guy with a straight piped sportscar give you the ick or would he make you wet?
>>34045108Yeah, I have 2 likes from months ago and I still get the "ran out of profiles" thing.
>>34045118Fie on the committee. I connect cause feelsgoodman.
>>34045117I mean yeah. It sucks but the truth is being ugly basically makes everything you do be seen in the worst way possible. thats just life
>>34045123How do you know?
>>34045115My former boss was very evil. Also, the bullies at school, that moid that harassed me on the subway once, the customer that cussed out my coworker yesterday....
>>3404512290s civic with ebay fartcan would make me wet but it all depends on your target demographic probably not so much if you're in the market for larping as stable breeding material
>>34045114Hi
>>34045134missed you
>>34045114skill issue, I'm overt narc masterrace
>>34045136Good.
>>34045127It just tells me that when she say's she's looking for "emotional intimacy", that's not *actually* what she's looking for.
Where do I meet clingy gf
>>34045141the black market
>>34045128It shows in the likes section. Can see their distance too, just the profile pic is made blurry.
>>34045140Not really.It's back to the "would you call a lion evil for killing a prey" thing againIt's not her fault she gets more intimate with attractive people, that's just how life is.
>>34045143Evil
peekaboo motherfucker
>>34045142They just sell pork rhinds, orange soda and collared greens
>>34045146
Physical attraction is the only attraction that matters to women. Everything else is just abusechad tactics or beta provider cope.
>>34045147((pork rind)) ((orange soda)) ((collard greens))
I've seen plenty of happy ugly couples, y'all should just try dating people in your league.
>>34045153exactly. Ugly men need to face the music
>>34045153Ew
>>34045144And I have to look for fulfilment in other avenues of life.
>>34045140Not really. She IS looking for it. She just wants it from a specific person. Thats just how people are, dont fault them for it.
>>34045153The problem is one gender can't admit when they're ugly.
This really is the end for fat and balding men.
I know one ugly woman with a hot husband Many ugly men with hot wives
>>34045153I dont want to date other ugly people. I hate that I'm ugly, why would I also want to have sex with and love another ugly person? That doesn't make any sense.>then you'll die aloneYes. But the logic stands
>>34045168Good.
Good day to all big booty atogans
>>34045176Fat and balding male anons are so fucking back, lmao.
>>34045168>Many ugly men with hot wivesLie.
humans have turned marriage into a demonic act.
>>34045184Anon is just one of those confused people who don't realize they have a type.
>>34044357Riiiight....It *must* be a conspiracy of a close knit cabal. It couldn't possibly be that many different people can independently see through your complete and utter bullshit.Gotcha.>>34044435>It was relevant with the MKG name another anon brought up.It's really, really not. The fact that you can't imagine that possibility, let alone see how it's obvious to others is part of your problem.Listen anon, there's a poster itt that I don't like. Do you know what I do? I move on to the next post whenever I encounter one of his and then don't spare another thought about him. You're jumping at the chance to share your thoughts about strangers on the internet.Lighten up, let shit go, and move the fuck on. You'll keep your hair for longer that way and maybe prevent some arterial wear and tear.
>>34045189Aren't you that rapist pedo guy that raped that girl?
>>34045127>>34045163Holy shit, you're so persistently annoying and your posts are so fucking dumb.woman does something>That's just how life isugly retarded woman with hot man only>That's just life, that's how life ishot man gets everything because he's hot>That's just how people arewoman does privileged woman things>That's just how life is, that's just life, that's just how life is, that's just lifeShut the fuck up!
genderhow many types of dumplings can you namehow many can you make from scratch
>>34044276>single men in their 30s and 40s are gonna remain single forever. They're universally unwanted>>34044274>That only happens if he gets a good career going, which is more unlikely to happen than ever for men now.Please share with everyone how you know this to be true without sitting statistics from an incel source.
femanon spent the last decade getting cummed on and i was a virgin the entire time, what do i win where is my prize
>>34045191Nah, you're thinking of your dad again. I'm sorry anon, I'm sure one day you'll meet him.
>>34045203unlike you
>>34045203quite a revealing post.
>>34045185>humansAs opposed to....?
>>34043274are you gonna put her in your ass>>34043299last night i had my first actual sex dream, it was james madison eating me out, fucking me, and eating me out until i needed his help to walk>>34043311all moids hate women the same
Fat and Balding men are checking into /atoga/ at an encouraging rate
>>34045201your prize is that you've never been cummed on
>>34045201what if I've had sex, but never seen or touched or interacted with cum im basically still half a virgin right
>>34045193Yeah thats my point. The only response is "thats just how humans are". It's like whining about having to breathe or that you're gonna die. Who gives a fuck you faggot?
>>34045209*alarming
>>34045210Why are you denying them that pleasure?
>>34043352you are deluded if you think every woman has mood swings or depression spirals>>34043455accept it
>>34045195PotatoGnochiRizzotoThe amazing tasting ones mom made with scratch chicken soupI could prolly do the last if I made a call
>>34045081>>34045087The post says: "If you don't have a workable solution to a problem, it is vain to pretend otherwise rather than simply admitting that you don't know and can't help."The subtext of the post seems to say: "NO! Tell me some *other* way I can get pussy without any effort, changing myself in any way, or leaving my comfort zone!"
how do i stop imagining a "super hot kind of person" whenever someone brings up their SO or is otherwise just being anonymous themselves
>>34045204I have no interest in meeting that anon's father.
>>34045226meet your heroes enough times to get the delusions beaten out of you
Getting replies from the 8/10 and not the 9/10. Feelsbadman.
>>34045226stop watching so much tv and expecting everyone in real life to be gorgeous
>>34045133>90s civic with ebay fartcan would make me wetugh are you trains?
>>34045230Have a reply from a 3/10 then.
>>34045206No. THIS is a revealing post.
>>34045230I'm actually a 4/10
>>34045233wat
Femanons, would you date a man who doesn't want any children or pets?
>>34045243yeah, fuck making life even harder than it already is by adding unnecessary responsibilities
I swear every time I eat seafood, I get weird dreams the following night. Last night I had a vivid dream where my car broke down and I asked my step mom to drive me to work, and she promptly told me to fuck and die.Then we went to the beach and I met a baby giraffe there. I was isolated from everyone in my family, so I just took this baby giraffe around with me. At first he was kinda mean.. like he'd bite my fingers, and hiss. But then we started playing and going up to other picnics families had going on at the beach, and I remember taking a little girl's crayons and drawing something so funny it actually made the giraffe laugh. By that point, we were the bestest friends.After we left the beach and went back to my room, for some reason my step mom started bending over in front of my wastebasket while I was sitting there, crosslegged, playing mario with my baby giraffe. I tried to scooch over, but it didn't work. I was playing footsies with her butt, and when she noticed, she gave me the most evil staredown, and then I looked over at the giraffe who didn't change expressions. Cheeky fuck. Anyway, she started squatting over the trash can outside my room, butt ass naked, and then when she caught me staring, she got really offended, and took it outside. Me and the giraffe watched from behind the glass door, and when she caught us, she called the rest of the family, who kicked me out. But they didn't let me keep my giraffe. I was so heartbroken I woke upWhat did this dream mean? Why did eating a pound of eel do this to me
>>34045224unwifeable :(
Kek, MGK schooling them again
>>34045243the only time i even imagined wanting kids was a little when i was like 12, and im an antinatalist anyway.no pets would be fine for me
>>34045243I want kids so that's a deal breaker. I don't really care about pets, it's nice to have them though if you can care for them properly
femanon how do i make you cry (good)
Shut up, bitch. *plap plap plap*
>>34045248gawk gawk
>>34045243NoI think it's a red flag if a man is not interested in getting me pregnant
>>34045249I bet 12 is only like 6 years in the past for you, lol.
Why chicks always want babies and then they put on cocomelon until the kid only knows youtube shorts and can barely fucntion in real life
>>34045260If I wanted you pregnant you would beWhy should I date you for a privilege that is already mine by birthright
How often do you crave cunnilingus?
>>34045257Gawk tuah?
Every time I seen those unmployed bum boyfriend skits the comment sections are always completely filled with women saying how it reminds them of their exes. I'm starting to think moneymaxxing is just cope.
>>34045277here >>34045151
>>34045122Personally, I'm a slut for JDM, but it would depend on the engine in the Mustang. The 5.0 sounds clean as fuck.>>34045133>probably not so much if you're in the market for larping as stable breeding materialNever pretend to be something you're not. If they don't love you at your "oh my god, I love your loud exhaust. I'm soaked. Let's go home and watch Tokyo Drift while you give me backshots," then they don't deserve you at your, "Sorry, babe. You have to sit in the back because my laptop is in the passenger seat.">>34045268>How often do you crave cunnilingus?A few times a day, honestly.>>34045273Gag on that thang
>>340451951. dumbling
>>34045193>Waah! Shut the fuck up if you're not going to reaffirm my world view!
How do I stop being anxious around men?
>>34045245the eel is slippery, serpentine, liminal, symbolizing the ingestion of unconscious content, so you literally ate opening the real of the subconscious on a more serious note, heavy protein before sleep can increase rem vividness and heavy fat content can help with satiety and thus deep sleep (some people swear by giving their baby a spook of butter to get them to sleep through the night) car breaking down: very classic dream symbol, the car represents autonomy, the ego, direction, ability to function, ability to get to where you want to go, it breaking down means loss of that agency and functioning stepmom: she tells you to fuck off and die, maternal figure rejection, conditional love and caregiving, "you are not worth the effort", basically mommy issues, feeling like you're not good enough to be loved unconditionally the beach: liminal space, border between land (solid, the conscious) and water (deep, dark, always in motion, the subconscious) the space where your subconscious tries to communicate with your conscious baby giraffe: fragile, out of place, vulnerable, uncoordinated, abandonment it's defensive and mistrustful at first, biting youthis symbol is an inner companion, a soul fragment it's an animal, meaning it's a part of you that doesn't feel humanit bonds with you through humor and play, giving you a sense of "I'll take care of you, because nobody else will" isolation: pretty on the nose, you feel exiled, excluded from the collective, you try to find belonging and meaning, companionship outside of it and find it in the misplaced baby giraffe thats just as lost and alone as you playing and bonding with the giraffe: the crayons symbolize pre-verbal expression, using humor and creativity to, for emotional regulation a survival method for the psyche to deal with feeling excluded
>>34045292why are you anxious around men
>>34045193Uggo mad
>>34045293room & mario: regression symbols, bedroom is the safe space, escapism into a safe, rule-based fantasy world where things actually go well if you do the right things)it's an adaptive retreat from a reality that feels like it doesn't function as it should step-mother and violation of boundaries: grotesque sexual farce, corruption of the maternal imageshe initiates, you're punished for noticing and also for not noticing, everyone is in turmoil, except the giraffe, who seems to know that this is just absurd, humiliation ritual, power asymmetrylosing the giraffe: you get expelled and your only comfort and companion is taken away not only are you not allowed to belong, you're also stripped of any coping mechanisms to deal with the pain of not belonging in summary, you feel cast out, like you can't trust anyone to protect you or care for you, shamed, humiliated, stripped of support and when you try to find ways to cope with creativity, humor and caring for your out of place self, that feels like it's going to get taken away any moment too the dream feels weird because the subconscious often uses absurdity to soften despair pretty uncomfortable dream all in all
>>34045292imagine them naked and with tiny penises
>>34045261... yeah?>>34045264i dont want babies, retard. moids are the ones who all want babies
Let’s all thank god that sufemacist is not reproducing
>>34045307she will be pregnant by morning
>>34045307are you reproducing?
>>34045307I can fix her.
>>34045307She should marry a fat and balding guy.
No more sufemacist. Poof! She’s gone. Ceded the gene pool.
>>34045294Nta but why wouldn't you
>>34045310Yes, with you.
>>34045307>sufemacistI like new words but I'm not sure I like new words invented on discord
Women, what are your thoughts on forced bi?
Any fem want to go on a Danube river cruise with me?
>>34045323no
>>34045316why would you?being flagged with a loaded gun should make you anxiousknowing you can fall from a height should make you anxiousthose are the things that make me anxiousnot sure why anything else makes people anxious
>>34045327can you whistle beautiful blue danube tho?
Post results and let others guess your gender.https://www.idrlabs.com/personality-style/test.php
>>34045343no
>>34045343I'll let you know tomorrow.
That is not ok mm kay? Mm
Lord Empress, please don't make me cum!!!
It is an amazing feeling finally realising that every post in atoga is actually made by me.
>be man>grow up>told im a sensitive pussy repeatedly, mother hits me when I cry/get upset about things >refuse to be emotional towards anything for 10+ years>now women think im a sociopath and/or using them because i dont feel comfortable being intimate or emotional in such situationshow does one remedy this, and both genders how do you handle poor emotional regulation if its something you've been through
>>34045293>>34045296Thanks freud-kun. I never have dreams like this, and usually can't remember my dreams at all. DHA's a hell of a drugI still miss my giraffe
This is exactly my type.How do I get a gf just like this?
>>34045359The physically attractive and popular type? By being attractive and social and around her age. In my experience you don't need to be as famous as her.
>>34045343The test told me they couldn't give me a specific personality, kek.
>>34045343
are there any events that women aged 20-30 go to at the same scale as like anime conventions or concerts?
>>34045370Anime conventions and concerts.
>>34045356it's dr sigismund schlomo foid (:
>>34045359>1 million views>"unemployed"she's not struggling
>>34045371anything else?
>>34045343lol
>>34044424And you're someone who needs to think less and do more.
>>34045363Actually you know what, I'll try guessing some of the others.>>34045343High in sadistic and narcissistic tendencies makes me think male.>>34045365High in antisocial and schizoid traits makes me think male.>>34045375Hmmm, unsure. You're possibly male, but female is just as likely with those traits.
>>34045378>High in antisocial and schizoid traits makes me think male.nope
>>34045354my strategy has been to opt outthere are a lot of healthy lifestyles that they simply can't engage with, ever
>>34045379Interesting. Well I'm no psychiatrist.
>>34045378>High in sadistic and narcissistic tendencies makes me think male.Wrong.
>>34045388Ah, you're a Dommy mommy. My apologies.
>>34045343idk, why they are saying I am a schizo
>>34045380i mean handle poor regulation in yourself if its something you struggle with individually, not something your lovers have donei am aware of how undesirable this is
>>34045391I want to say female, but given that I've been wrong with all my other guesses, that probably means you may actually be male.
>>34045343what does it mean
>>34045390It's alright, I had the feeling that people would guess wrong from the very beginning on.
>>34045398Male>>34045401Female
>>34045391Must be a conspiracy against you.
>>34045343lovely
>>34045404>Malecorrect
If she doesn't worship you like you're the second coming of the messiah, she ain't good for you.
>>34045406Male
I will never get over the fact that there are guys who get blowjobs from cosplay egirls and I never will.
>>34045405lmfao
>>34045378I'm m
Vlandian banner knightBattanian fian champion Strugian heavy axeman Knight/MamlukeMarksman/Master ArcherHuscarl
>>34045404>FemaleWrong.
>>34045411wrong
>>34045392>handle poor regulation in yourself this point is complex and personal and really something that a therapist might be able to help you with. things that work for me are related to visualization exercises, breath exercises, and challenging outdoor physicality/perception exercises. nothing can make you immune to a history of tacit abuse but you can survive it and prosper.
>>34045343It just said multiple personalities and/or I clicked wrong answers. Also, a lot of the questions are multi-faceted and poorly structured which made some of them hard to give answers to.
If he (or she; or anyone, really) says "ain't", then look for someone else.
>>34045424ain't that the truth
>>34045343>>34045363>>34045365>>34045391>>34045398>>34045401>>34045406>all these antisocials>all these avoidants>all these schizoids>all these schizotypals
>>34045433Are you really surprised that 4chan is filled with antisocials, avoidants, schizoids, and schizotypals?
>>34045433orgy when
>>34045433This is the avoidant website
>>34045436Absolutely not.
>>34045433how tf does that surprise you
>>34045433>I went to the antisocial avoidant loser website and all I found were antisocial avoidant losersyou are a stupid person
>>34045433Real schizoids are refreshing to be around. They are better than normal people. And if you think this place is "le crazy and mentally ill" you should check out other literally any other board. I recommend /pol/, /r9k/ and /v/.
When was the last time someone used this thread for its intended purpose?
>>34045437>nobody attends
>>34045447>if you think this place is "le crazy and mentally ill" you should check outAlso check out every social media. Reddit and twitter and the boards I mentioned are 1000x more mentally ill than anything in /atoga/
>>34045448shur up
Why did men stop simping for women? Men don't yearn anymore.
>>34045447i wouldnt want to be around someone who derives zero enjoyment from my presence
From a clueless F to men of /atoga/I bought a massive machine as a christmas present for my father.>something he has talked about for years, but one I can finally afford.I had to rent a pick-up to transport it.How disappointed would you be to receive a thousand dollar machine the 14th day instead of the 24th/25th?Is this acceptable? I have nowhere to hide it or store it before the day comes and it weights so much I have to hire men just to unload it. And I am going to my fathers place tomorrow for the extended holiday stay.
>>34045468I don't think it matters what day, but what is the huge contraption?
>>34045468What machine is it? Put a tarp over it.
>>34045468Silly fem
>>34045471I dont understand the specifics, but its some special sort of lathe
>>34045455moids have always hated women
>>34045468first time I did something like that for my dad he was blown away. the day won't matter.
>>34045477>some special sort of lathe*heavy breathing*>>34045455do what she did
>>34045343Is this bad? The 100% categories seem dramatic.
>>34045122Yes, hate ricersRice ricers
>>34045468> the machine
>>34045090Find things that you enjoy, not what you think that you should enjoy or what you think that others enjoy.
>>34045468thats adorable
>>34045456Would you prefer people who dislike you? Or people who pretend to like you? Or people that suck up to you for their own benefit? Or people who got brainwashed by some stupid shit they saw on tiktok? Speaking to schizoids is raw information transfer with none of the pretenses that come with socialization. Some autists are the same way but only if they're interested in a real subject and not some tumblr cartoon fandom or anime.
So he used his fight money to buy two of every animal on earth? Then he hurdled them on to a boat? Then he beat the crap out of every single one!? And ever since that day every time a bunch of animals are in one place it's called a Zoo. Unless it's a farm ofcourse.
>>34045496wat
>>34045496What Bible did you read where Noah beat the shit out of all the animals? Because the true story is that he sacrificed them to Yaweh.
>>34045494>Would you prefer people who dislike you? Or people who pretend to like you? Or people that suck up to you for their own benefit? Or people who got brainwashed by some stupid shit they saw on tiktok?well no but that wasn't what I was saying either.
>>34045501Sun Tzu did that. And I'd say he know a little bit more about war than you do pal because he invented it! The he perfected it so that no living man could best him in the ring of honour!
>>34045507meds
>>34045504Most of what I know about the holy bibble is from nostampcollector athf and tf2
>>34045343I don't feel like doing it again, so here are my results from 2 or so years ago I still have saved.>>34045441>surprise>>34045440>>34045447I am here because the chance of having a somewhat normal conversation is higher here than on those boards. lol>They are better than normal people.Insane cope. lol
Wo oh wo ist meine freaky Berliner gf?
>>34045515Fuck me sideways.
>>34045517in Berlin wahrscheinlich
>>34045485>spent entire life alone100% dependent fuck
>>34045520shit i replied to the wrong person, fuck it
>>34045520>>34045485holy MOLY do we have some betas ITT
>>34045485Yes, it is bad, you disgusting freak. Did you ask because you were secretly hoping to be insulted? I bet this is turning you on. Damned pervert.
>>34045524it's a miracle that i can function in society desu
>>34045528Are you sure you do?
>>34045519I have no interest in ever going to Germany thoughbeit
I am
State gender.If you were of the opposite gender, what type of girl/guy would you like to be?
Uffff bas sam najeo sam se uffff
>>34045531i do! i swear.
>>34045535What types of girls are there. I don't even get what this means, I'm sorry
>>34045406this is even worse than I had expected for you
>>34045535FUhhh...I guess I'd be a twink.
>>34045535FA shota or a bishounen.
Almost made an impulsive buy again.Caught myself in the act when I was entering the delivery address and CC info.Decided to slap myself in the face, lol.
>>34045544i feel that, what were u gonna buy...
>>34045544And your question for the opposite gender is.....?
>>34044601spidor
>>34045544Shoppers alcoholics anonymous
>>34045525be nice bro i was seriously asking..
>>34045532on that case, it's probably not going to happen >>34045534nice >>34045535>like to be the kind of guy that drives a 90s civic with ebay fartcan, smokes too much, lives in an abandoned motel he broke into, where he cooks on a portable stove on the bed, makes money cleaning out houses of deceased people nobody wants to clean and has a massive cock
>>34045548FR
>>34045545Was going to buy a 32" 4k monitor, it was only 60 hz, but I planned on using it to watch youtube as my third monitor.I think I'm going to hold on, I have the cash, I just feel like I shouldn't buy it.I think I'm going to stop buying monitors until I upgrade my center monitor.
>>34045546Can't you read between the lines? The question was has this ever happened to you and why did you stop your self.
>>34045540thanks, I'm surprised by the low narc%
>>34045554lmaooo yeah... probably hsould hold off
>women who have sex are damaged goods>sufemacist must hate males because she needs dickwhat did moids mean by this?
>>34045558I would say the rest balances that and amplifies it maybe, though narcissism isnt your biggest issue
>>34045561that they want to be the only one that gets to fuck every single woman on earth
>>34045561?
>>34045562oh yeah? what is my biggest issue then?
>>34045566the rest
>>34045568insightful
>>34045561Are transwomen moids in your philosophy? If not why don't you just get dick from them? They'll 100% leg you peg them too.
>>34045569you dont take anything here seriously anyway
>>34045575I do if it actually makes me think
>>34045549I saw "100% masochistic" and just couldn't resist writing something like that. But if you want my honest opinion, then I would say that, for 4chan standards, your results are probably not that bad.
>>34045561Fuck if I know, that doesn't make much sense to me.But I still wanna slap your cute butt.
>>34045561The truth for men is whatever is most convenient to say at that moment
>>34045589you forgot >whats your body count>fat
>>34045590That is a funny answer to that question!
>>34045535>If you were of the opposite gender, what type of girl/guy would you like to be?FI would be an absolute fuckboy.
my 5x5 music chart for december is now complete-- it looks kinda the same as how it looks during other months which is gay, but there's some wintery albums. ty for attending my blog.
>>34045599Is the 5x5 chart in the room with us?
>>34045605you're not in my room
>>34045611You are in the chatroom with me
>>34045613wtf.
>>34045613Imagine us all crammed into one room like the Black Hole of Calcutta.
Mousey, underweight, unkempt hair, small breasted, nerdy gf
>>34045573im not against trans, so im actually neutral on mtfs and i despise ftms as much as i hate any moid.i am not attracted to trans women.>>34045563>>34045589>>34045590unfortunately real
>>34045630>im not against trans, so im actually neutral on mtfs and i despise ftms as much as i hate any moid.Nta, but it's interesting how I'm pretty much the opposite. I'm okay with ftms because they're biologically female but mtfs are biological males and can therefore fuck off.
>>34045627got subanese crystalline shards poking out my lungs
shit on a dick
>>34045638True, women do be shitting on Chad's dick a lot.
>>34045636Sugondese NUTS lmao
>>34045636>>34045641sufemadeeznuts
>>34045561yes, there's a cognitive dissonance, we know, and its intentional. Its Heads I Win, Tails You Lose
Guys, at what point do you face the music and leave accept that it will never happen
>>34045638#chemin du roy
>>34045468Print out on cardstock paper a personalized Certificate of Ownership for your machine, then put that certificate in an envelope, and hand that envelope to your father today, on the 13th. Tell him it's a certificate of ownership for "something", but he has to wait until the 25th to open it, so that he can still be "surprised" even if he absolutely totally 100% knows what it's for.You put some mystery back into his life that preempts the delivery on the 14th, and you still get to have the "ritual" of opening presents to enjoy together on the 25th.
>>34045648kek, literally me, except the hitting on girls part.
>>34045648https://youtu.be/Dy_eP-mqWowthis is the music
>>34045648>Guy openly says he'll be watching a woman workout and doesn't think that will end poorly
>>34045657wow
>>34045657lol
>>34045659a manipulative rapist graph if I've ever seen one.
>>34045662oh.
>>34045662It's so incredibly performative.
>>34045662Nah>>34045665I think I'm too literal or their questions were phrased too poorly.Plus, there's shit like I am literally a sadist but *only* to someone who has earned my sadism. Not random jack off strangers. Wanting to inconvenience stranger is rude and unconscionable.Standard questions aren't quite applicable.And a bunch of the narcissist questions were half right but half wrong. Like, I am smarter and think faster but that doesn't mean that I deserve jack shit.
>>34045677Another aspect is that I'm NOT antisocial at all. I'm simply used to being alone.
Somebody competent please make a new thread, I don't want to see this shit anymore.
>>34045677real psychopath shit.
>>34045686Psychopath? NahDefinitely a lunatic tho.
>if bars too low == mentally ill evil>if bars too high == mentally ill pathetic
>>34045687this too, is a psychopathic post.
>>34045691This too, is worn post.
>>34045690The important thing is that they found a way to feel superior.
>>34045693*wormCaught the typo right as I tapped "Post"
What are some potential signs that a girl secretly loves being called mommy?
>>34045723If she is like 100 pounds heavier than you
>>34043881yes just no mommytalk
Do ladies like hearing a man grunt and moan ect during sex? Had sex after a long dry spell with this girl I've been seeing for a little bit now. I felt like I was being over the top, especially when I came and held her down and just went like "UGGHHHHNNNN" through my gritted teeth
>>34045323No.
>>34045729How could I know I never had sex
>>34045685You're too incompetent to make a thread on 4chan?
>>34044329>More of a 3-on-1How did that work? One woman on oral and the other two on boobs?
>>34045679NTA. I think you mean asocial
>>34043881Probably moid hands, but that sounds great
>>34045744For a good atoga OP, yeah.
I despise virginposters who reply to questions when they clearly have no answers, FUCK OFF.
>>34045535I didn't get much choice in what type of guy I am so I don't see why that would be different if I was a girl. I'd be a girlfailure.
>>34045468>How disappointed would you be to receive a thousand dollar machineUm, anon...
>>34045343FFuck
>>34045763>sadisticscary lesbian
>>34045763You fit in well.How are you?
>>34045763Honest test taker.>>34045657Dishonest test taker.
>>34045763Nice try. Her dependency would be way higher. Funny larp though.
>>34045763please abuse me and kick me in the ribs mommy
>>34045729>Do ladies like hearing a man grunt and moan ect during sex?Oh yeah. Very much.
Fake smiling makes me cringe. I wish everyone would me alone so I didn’t have to pretend to be happy.
>>34045764>scary lesbianBoo!>>34045765>How are you?I'm managing. Feeling lonely. I might be ready to.get another dog, because my house feels empty with just me here.>>34045767>Her dependency would be way higher.Real, but not a LARP. I'm actually very independent and have been since I was little. Partially because of the tism. Partially from being developmentally stunted from neglect and abuse.>>34045768That would be mean. I once kicked someone in the liver and felt so bad.
>>34045774You don't have to pretend to be happy, Anon.
>>34045779I have to. Everyone else will notice and I will bring down the mood.
>>34045343Very Concerning.
>>34045776have you ever been with any guy or are you purely lesbian
>>34045757plap
>>34045782>and I will bring down the mooBut that's what you wanted. That's what you wished for!
>>34045776Oh it's you, nevermind. kek
>>34045789Mooo…. I’d be happier and deader as a cow.
>>34045791A breeding cow?
giant cow tits
>>34045776> 86% 86%The perfect switch
>>34045793No. Just a cow that gets killed for meat.
>>34045797Boring.
>>34045799Yeah that's the point. Why would I want to be a breeding cow. That would be more horrifying than life right now
>>34045801But then you'd have a purpose.
>>34045804Breeding is scary.
>>34045804The thought of one's sole purpose being to push out young is so nauseatingly horrifying, my breath caught
Just ate a microwave hotdog.
>>34045801You must be a breeding cow, we need more workers for bigger GDP, economy stupid
>>34045814did it taste good
Is this common?
>>34045814congrats/sorry
>>34045819It was pretty good.The packaging called it "german style smoked sausage", it had cheese and some instant mash on it too.I also drizzled some chili oil on it.340 kcal tho. before the chili oil.
>>34045807>>34045808We could just give you birth control.You'd still be kept cosy and fed.
>>34045822Feel sorry for me, because I'm kind of craving something more filling...
>>34045821Women being stupid? Yes, very.
>>34045818Whatever. I’d rather be a dead cow. Fuck it’s going to be Christmas soon which means fake smiling and talking to ppl I don’t want to think about. GOD I HATE NOVEMBER AND DECEMBER WORST MONTHS EVER
>>34045821No.
>>34045821Yeah, I only fall in love with men if they never interact with me in any way and therefore fail to break the illusion of being warm, clever and romantic
>>34045830first christmas totally alone this year. Bit worried but at least i save money on gift giving.
>>34045830I went biking in the snow today. So comfy and fun. December is my favourite month as long as there's snow.
>>34045844Sounds very dangerous.
>>34045838what r u worried about
>>34045343Damn. That's a big L.Maybe I should continue to avoid people.
>>34045847Why?
Am I half a virgin if I had sex but he never came?
>>34045852Evil shit.
My family is doing a secret Santa thing this year and I got my father in law his favorite brand of whiskey for Christmas. Anyone else doing anything special for Christmas?
>>34045794I went on a date with a woman who wore a 34M bra.
>>34045856No, you're just part of the 65% of women who've never had an orgasm.
>>34045856No
>>34045852>that histrionicjeez girl
>>34045852>100% Histrionic*Kill Bill Siren Noise*
>>34045852>14%>57%Fake Domme
>>34045863lmaoo crazy that sound was in my head just as i saw it
>>34045860I did orgasm>>34045861I feel robbed of the full experience since there was no. male substance expunged
>weekend half overSo what have you folks done so far?
>>34045648Girl is in the right. Guy is a retard.You're supposed to build rapport and become friends before asking for her number after you've earned trust. Doing it right away with no context is legit creepy
>>34045856>t. old man fucker
>>34045848Idk. Just feels lonely is all
>>34045869Slept for 16 hours
>>34045868Oh I misread. Yeah you're still not a virgin even if he didn't cum.
>>34045455If I do too much of that itt, a man with Asperger's says mean things to me and the girl I'm flirting with.
>>34045535MIf I were a girl I'd like to be a blonde athletic Stacy
>>34045869finals week coming so studying a lot atm
>>34045869read some books. scifi and work stuff. played some videogames.
>>34045865I'm not a sadist. I'm a pleasure domme and I think my problems are my fault and I'm escalating punishing myself.
>>34045878kek, you're still in school? 4chan is a site for 30yos. Go join a discord channel or something, the boomers are trying to talk.
>>34045869Bought alcohol as a Christmas gift for my father in law. Had a job interview.
>>34045868It's endearing that women like cum so much.
>>34045869Ate a hotdog.
>>34045535MThe power of being a woman would get to my head far too quickly I think if I could choose, I'd pick a corporate slave in a mine planet in the year 2301 A.D all the way in space who grows up shaved headed and forced to work 14 hours a day so I can lead a revolution.
>>34045884I don't know if I like it, I've never seen it
>>34045873Oh :/ Put a movie on or play some videogames with ppl or call someone to chat with if they’re also not doing anything? Sorry idk I’m usually satisfied being alone.
>>34045869Drank some beer and watched The Simpsons last night, spent most of today doing Christmas stuff with my dad's half of the family, am now drinking beer and watching The Simpsons.
>>34045852Never stick your dick in crazy, boys.
>>34045879What videogames did you play?
>>34045880>I'm a pleasure dommeI take it back, those are the best.
I love dogs.
>>34045883gl with the job! also what u get him, whiskey?
Should I straight up just send a spontaneous text message asking my crush (who is also my friend) if she wants to go out with me?
>>34045887Well, you wanted to see it at least
>>34045847Nah, is fun. I have fat tyres that give plenty of grip and prevent me from going too fast.
>>34045899I mostly wanted him to cum so I knew he liked it
>>34045898How tall are you
>>34045856No.
>>34045891cyberpunk and project zomboid
>>34045896Yup, his favorite brand. I've been out of work for a while, and that gap is making me struggle, but this place is part of a casino resort, and the manager told me she'd be happy to send my resume to other places in the resort if the current place didn't work out.
>>34045882This site gets new young users every day. It's good for its long term survival
>>34045898Why wouldn't you do that in person?
>>34045903....5'8. She's shorterWhy?
>>34045882im 26. i just decided to go back.
>>34045907epic. also that’s nice of her
Did you know Cynthia Erivo is only like 5ftcould've sworn she was taller.
What's the difference between three cocks and a joke? JH can't take the joke.....
>>34045910Because...then we'd already be out.
>>34045917wow shes hella short
>>34045917Smol
>>34045920You’re retarded.
>>34045917Unconscious bias.You're just afraid of black people.
Hello. I would like one ***friend please!
>>34045917>Smol black womanHmm, kinda like that. Could do without the septum piercing though.
>>34045927gilfriend???? like a tuna?
>>34045927Say hello to your new goyfriend.
>>34045927Men don't get to just demand a girlfriend, Anon.Better go move a mountain, for a chance of getting one.
>>34045929>>34045932Why can't you guys count
>>34045932Is there a girlfriend trapped under the mountain?
>>34045936They say you can find one in the deepest depth of Hades' realm.
>>34045935grlfriend???
Do I have to throw out all the blackberries if only one is moldy?
>>34045941You don't have to do anything you don't want to, Anon.The consequences tho...
>>34045941I feel like the correct answer is probably yes, but no.
>>34045935Toyfriend…
>>34045927Boy should be a slur.Men should feel insulted being called boy. ManfriendWomanfriend
>>34045941Should've thrown them all out back in 2009
>>34045946I don't care what you think.
>>34045946MalehumanfriendFemalehumanfriend>>34045948lol
How was everyone’s Caturday?
>>34045952my faggot cat is sleeping on my chair so i’m sitting on a metal folding chair in my room
>>34045952Cooking.Reading.Despairing.And you?
I think I fumbled the 9/10 but I have two 8/10s still on the hook
>>34045946>Boy should be a slur.It is if you say it to a black guy.
>>34045946Do you feel insulted for being called a girl? It's infantalizing.
>>34045952Went outside, hands got cold, when i was back inside i touched my cat with my cold hands.
>>34045955Why
>>34045952Pretty good. My cats are cats.
My friend was saying it's embarrassing that she met her boyfriend in high school, to a girl who met hers on Tinder. In front of a girl who doesn't have one at all
>>34045957Yeah. Except from other women. Then it's like "Hey girlie pop" *butterflies and rainbows*
>>34045343MWho want me
>>34045969lolevil
>>34045969>that entire left column being that highnightmarish.
>>34045969(please don't be him *praying*)
>>34045813Nobody's guessin genders, so: I'm M
>>34045954Go to work, come back and be comfy. Probably going to put on an audio book for half an hour.>>34045959>>34045962Are your cats the kind who have declared war on Christmas yet?
Why do women read erotica when they could cuddle, have sex or just receive head from their boyfriend?
>>34045975Maybe because I don't have a boyfriend??
Almost impulse bought another mechanical keyboard with an Alice layout
>>34045975Why wouldn't they do both when they can just do both?
>>34045975A. I don't read erotica, I read degenerate visual novels from JapanB. My boyfriend is a degenerate who approves of the degenerate VNs I play.
>>34045974No, my cats are devout Christians.
>>34045975Where is my boyfriend?
>>34045979>Alicehttps://youtu.be/70_szWBOaic
>>34045979Explain Alice layout >>34045982I wonder why after they were persecuted through the middle ages
Women, why do you keep guy friends you don't intend to fuckl?You know they're all waiting for a chance to try and smash right?
>>34045983You rejected him because he wanted monogamy and you wanted to sleep around.
>>34045985
Meanwhile in hell…
>>34045976>>34045983Outside, he just doesn't realise it yet>>34045981But that's the same thing, I wouldn't watch porn or read eroge in a relationship despite having terabytes of the stuff
>>34045989Ah yes, the "I'm special, please pay attention to me" layout.
>>34045985>I wonder why after they were persecuted through the middle agesThey don't hold the crimes of man against God.
>>34045989>>34045990Gross
>>34045989Neat>>34045989Ok what is this one? I’m gonna learn the keyboards tonight.
>>34045986>You know they're all waiting for a chance to try and smash right?This is why I no longer get close to males. This is especially frustrating because my hobbies tend to be male dominated.>I wouldn't watch porn or read eroge in a relationship despite having terabytes of the stuffGay. I would never abandon my hobbies for a relationship. Eroge stories are great.
>>34045987I didn't, and I'm not.
>>34045983https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rK5TyISxZ_M
>>34045997dvorak.https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dvorak_keyboard_layout
>>34046001WHERE THE HELL IS MY HUSBANDWHAT IS TAKING HIM SO LONGWHOOOOOOOTO FIND ME
I fucking hate women. I wish they'd all fuck off.
Someone bake right now OR ELSE.
I hate my setupEverything is so messy.I want to throw it all away.
>>34046005They can come hang out with me instead.
>>34046009stop consooming, it looks fine
>>34046008What do you want me to bake? Cookies? Cupcakes?
You people are nuts.
>>34046011At the very least, I need a monitor shelf so I can stop using that box.I want one like this so I can slide my keyboard under it
>>34046008Uh. *preheats oven*(Pic unrelated, felt compelled to image post)
>>34046009Get rid of the speakers, or at least get them more out of the way. Ditch the mpk mini box and get a similarly high raised platform that you could fit stuff underneath.
>>34046014Yes, thanks for noticing.
Men, what would you do if you were the boyfriend in this situation? This Chad just stole your girl right in front of you to prove hoes aren't loyal, then tells you to leave her. https://files.catbox.moe/hhfwno.mp4
>>34046014you wouldn't be able to tell if we were coworkers, but you'd definitely think i'm autistic
>>34046020I shan’t be clicking.
anyone else here adopted?do you feel like you actually have parents or do you just feel like some kind of feral child? my mom was crazy and regretted adopting me and i don't have much of a connection to my dad so i really feel like an orphan lmfao
>>34046017I'm waiting on two monitor stands, those speakers should ideally be a little bit further apart, but they're being blocked by my two monitors.once I mount them Higher, I'll be able to get rid of a lot of shit on my desk.
>>34046010Creep
Being chaste SUCKS
>>34045946but i like being a good boy :3
>>34046028Why?If you're chaste, that's because that's what you're comfortable with.
>>34046020Why is this buffering so much.Piece os garbage.*farts on your question*
>>34046031No it's because 80% of women are fat, and I'm not in the top 20% of men.
>>34046031Yes, ultimately, but I want my dick sucked right now
Men need to understand that worshipping athletes or celebrities demonstrates that you're lower value than them to women. Whether it's true or not is irrelevant, men should always consider themselves as being the most important person is their own world. You can admire other men, but never fanboy.
>>34046036Oh, so you're not Chaste, you're just a loser.
>>34046023that's just because you have insane parents
>>34046036The index for bmi and obesity are so retarded.
>>34046039Chances are that even if you were in a relationship you wouldn't be able to get your dick sucked right now.Though you might not be down bad to the point of feeling deprived of dick sucking the way you do at the moment.
>>34046043No, they're fine. People overblow how bad the index is because they want to minimize the issue of everybody being fat as hell.
Single girls who want a relationship, what's stopping you from talking to a random guy tomorrow at your school or local library and getting a date?
>>34046040FThe only person I worship is our Lord and savior, Jesus Christ. He'd score more baskets in a game than Kobe, Bron Bron, and Jordan together.
>>34046041That wasn’t me>>34046044I would prefer to be eating pussy right now if I’m being perfectly honest. Not sure why I didn’t just say that first
>>34046049i think they're all ugly and unfunny
>>34046048Not true because BMI only makes sense if everyone is fairy little twinks. You put on any musculature and suddenly you're overweight.
>>34046053The other post doesn't display chaste behavior either.
>>34046033
>>34046009Too much stuff
>>34046058Perhaps celibate would’ve been more accurate, but one definition of chaste is>Abstaining from sexual relations that are not sanctioned by certain religious laws or moral principles.which is applicable in my case
>>34046057Everyone who says this is fat lmao, it's never a jacked nigga saying BMI is trash
>>34046063Not really, like at all.You do realize the definition of abstain, right?
Why are women such evil whores?
>>34046049>>34046056This
>>34046057It works for the majority of people
So cold
>>34046057Your mind is warped by steroid use.you don't accidentally become jacked without knowing. Natural bodybuilders in the off season are on like the high side of 'normal'. Nobody that far off of the bell curve is there by accident and they know they don't have to worry about it. That doesn't apply to literally 99% of people though.
>>34046067They ate the snake and the apple and then god cursed them and made them fat. Something like that I don't remember
>>34046067rude
>>34046070it's quite chilly. bundle up.
>>34046075>>34046075>>34046075NEW
>>34046064I only say it because it's better to go off body fat percentage. I have a friend who is 6'1 and 245 lbs and DEXA puts his bf% at 13, but according to BMI he's obese. But apparently 140 is a healthy weight for him? Gtfo of here.
>>34044640>My dad because at least he made me hardBro...
>>34045343jfc
>>34046085Your friend is one in a million, and the other 999,999 people complaining about BMI are fat, fat, fat, fat, fatty fat fatsos. Statistically speaking, of course.
>>34045441Me asf
>>34044911How tall?
>>34044981Ghosted?
>>34046009Ugh if I was your girlfriend I'd make it look nice but I'm not
>>34046005Stfu
>>34045919I can take both.
>>34046132Kill yourself, bitch.
>>34045729i would hardly know, but i want to fuck a moid and hear him moan, and i actually see women complaining about silent moids>>34046005no way, you're exactly like every other moid to ever live, so speeeeciaaal
