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I got drunk and told my gf my fantasy of wanting to see her have sex with a black man and she got really horny and we fucked really hard she was literally drenched.
Couple days after that she asked me to tell her the hottest fantasy scenario where and how it'd happen and again we ended up having great sex.

But what do I do now? I'm scared I might have steered the relationship in a direction where it'll eventually go wrong.

I really need advice obviously I can't ask this kind of shit outside of 4chan but everyone here thinks I make it up because we have weirdo larpers no one is taken seriously
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you cooked bro... find her a bull and become a cuck or end the relationship
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>>34044644
Fuck off I'm serious
Wtf do I do??
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>>34044770
well your relationship will eventually be over with that fetish by definition.
You can't just go off and have sex with other people, that's like one of the only rules about relationships.

She fucks some other guy while you masturbate, great. But your relationship is over, don't delude yourself.
You concent to her fucking other guys, and you gave her all the controll because it gets you off.
I don't think this thread is real though, I think you're a /gif/troon, or a jeet spamming outside the containment zone.
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>>34044799
I didn't consent to her actually fucking other guys it was just a fantasy. She asked what my fantasy was. She never said she'd actually do it
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>>34044137
It’s just a fantasy. Don’t act on it or encourage her to act on it, just keep it as a fantasy.
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>>34044137
become a wigger. be the black man your gf wants to fuck. simple as.
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>>34044137
What you did is basically what old married couples do to try and spice up their dying sex life. You done goofed, you planted the seed in her head of wanting other people. You might be able to salvage your fuck up by never telling your gf anything like that again. If she brings it up, tell her it was just a fantasy and that’s where it needs to stay.
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>>34044137
You have to quit porn, dawg. Your kink isn't healthy.
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>>34044137
A ton of these cuck relationships are actually about domination, degrading the woman by pimping her out to the nastiest niggers around she'd never fuck of her own accord. Its probably what gets your gf off, considering that chicks fucking love being degraded sexually.

>I can't ask this kind of shit outside of 4chan
Leading to the next point, which is that there is a person you can and should talk to about this, who is your gf.
What gets her off on it exactly and so on.
And most importantly, making it clear that this is only a phantasy and you aren't down for taking it to reality in any way. Most likely your gf sees it the same way already, phantasizing together is hot but it doesn't mean you have to ever do it IRL.
The way I can see this going wrong is you both psyopping yourselves into believing you have to actually do it at some point because the other one wants it, destroying your relationshsip due to a failure in communicating honestly.
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>>34045016
I know it actually went well for a year or so...
Fml
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>>34044137
Kys is my advice
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turn back now and things will be ok
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>>34045341
And bts , if its really the submissive aspect that gets her off, theres plenty of other ways to make her feel like a proper slut that don't involve the local wildlife.
Talk to your gf , thats the only sensible advice here. And don't listen to retards who hang out on here on a saturday night.
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>these are the people that call you a nigger
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>>34045457
Its a 4chan habit tbqh. I'm not from the US, so the only IRL nigger I ever was an anime autist programmer.
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>>34044799
>You can't just go off and have sex with other people, that's like one of the only rules about relationships
That's a bizarrely naive statement. Absolutely nothing in a relationship is a rule unless at least one of the people involved wants it to be. If both he and she are enthusiastic about her fucking someone else, then it's not a rule: it might be in your relationship, or mine, but not in theirs.
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>>34044137
>But what do I do now?
You talk to her and make your feelings clear. Chances are that she hasn't the slightest desire to *actually* fuck anyone else either. There's no reason why you can't keep exchanging hot fantasies as long as you like. But you have a major problem: you're on here talking to us about this when you should be talking to her. Get off 4chan and actually communicate like a human being for once.
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>>34045341
Oh, that makes sense. I'll just make it clear I don't actually want it to happen irl, just in fantasies
>>34045488
I will see her tomorrow and talk about this
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>>34045344
this definitely came from porn. just quit it again and tell your gf you have a severe porn addiction.
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>>34045344
You only watched porn for a year?
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>>34045457
We're jealous of your bbc
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>>34047090
No I kind of stopped for a year
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>>34044137
It's OVER
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I just told her I'm more into the stag/vixen stuff than cuckolding
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>>34048324
Are you the OP
Can u shorten everything to me in a sentence
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>>34048333
Yes I am the op. Surely the post is not that long. Just read it
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>>34048324
But you do plan to have her fuck another guy?
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>>34045475
Why is what you're describing known as an "Open relationship"? Mr obnoxious faggot, Why does that term exist according to you?
Why does everyone not call what is known as an "open relationship", "A relationship" if there are no rules, and it's the same thing.

I'm not going to read your reply, this thread is just ragebait.
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>>34048458
No
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>>34050404
Your first sentence says otherwise, disgusting cuck. Please kill yourself as soon as possible.
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>>34045475
People like you would cheat and say “b-but we never established we were exclusive” months into dating.
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>>34050472
>retard doesn't understand the difference between fantasy and reality



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