Last night I had a date with an 18 year old girl but I’m 26. It felt wrong but we had such a great time and got to making out and cuddling and touching each other. I feel bad but I really like her and she says she likes me too but she says her parents are overprotective and would hate our age gap and lied to her parents about my age. What should I do? I want to keep seeing her and would like to make it work but I’m not sure if this could or even should go on.
age gaps are bullshitis she an adult? then you're good bro
Souls are real, your souls connect and she is legal. Hitler was like 42 when he met 17 year old Eva, Macron has a 25 years older woman as a wife (his former teacher).Who fucking cares.
>>34045360Is it wrong? Nearly everyone outside of 4chan would say yes. Do you give a fuck about that? Clearly not. So why ask?
>>34045452>Nearly everyone outside of 4chan would say yes.Only in Amerifatland.
>>34045362I’m just afraid of people thinking I’m a pedo. She says her dad would be pissed if he knew my age. I don’t want to get my ass kicked if I ever meet him
>>34045493>Only in Amerifatland98% of the UK population would have a problem with it.
>>34045574>I’m just afraid of people thinking I’m a pedo.You mean you're afraid of them finding out that you're a pedo.
>>34045603Only used up 24+ year old grandmas>>34045608Words have definitions. A pedo is attracted to pre pubescent minors. OP is dating an 18 year old, a fully formed adult.
>>34045360don't really think the age gap is an issue if she plans to move in with you in the future, her dad's opinions will stop mattering by thenbut if you're not being serious about this i.e. you don't want a formal relationship then you should stop dating her
>>34045608do not throw around the word pedo lightly
You went on one date. Younger girls tend to freak out over the smallest things. Take it slow
>>34045360It's the "one" in her age that freaks you. If she was 20 and you 28 it wouldn't seem so odd. If she was 28 and you 36 no one would even notice
>>34045360I see no problem with it. She's 18, her parents can go fuck themselves. Unless they're protecting her because she's special needs, then I'd question your intentions.
>>34045574>>34045608>18 years old>pedoAnyone who honestly thinks this is actually fucking retarded. Are you really concerned with what literal retards think? The key to happiness is to do what makes you happy and not give a shit what other people think. Whatever it is, there’s going to be some angry bitter idiot that’s upset with you. 18 is legal everywhere. No one can say shit.
>>34045623>A pedo is attracted to pre pubescent minors.No, you ignorant fuck. A "paedophile" is attracted to prepubescent children. "Pedo" is a colloquialism originally derived from the word "pedophile" but which has a much broader meaning, and is used to mean someone who is either attracted to, or has sex with, someone who is either below the age of consent, or so inappropriately much younger than they are that they might as well be for all the practical difference it makes. If you rape a 12 year old girl, you are going to be called a "pedo", and you cannot defend yourself against that charge by saying "well, no, actually, I'm not, because she had pubic hair". You may not be a paedophile in that situation, but you're definitely a pedo.Words do, indeed, have definitions, but in this case, not the ones you think.
>>34045360desu I have mixed feelings on one hand idgaf about this whole age gao bullshitI know its just yet another glownigger psyop to stop women from having children on the other hand Im kinda jealous towards you Op lolwomen that age should be dating me
>>34047477Bro being attracted to 18 year olds is not pedophilia. I don’t care if you’re 120 years old. If you think this you are straight up incorrect and retarded.
>>34046852This, I get it's not pedo shit but you at least had the intuition to ask here which means something. If ur gonna be with this girl then give it your best so she doesn't get encouraged to be a pump n' dump in the future. Think the parents are just worried about you making a connection w her for the ass instead of both her ass and her soul. Sounds tight though ngl.
>turning 30 next year>the dream of dating 18-21 year olds is now dead
>>34045360Wife her
>>34047838I did see her again last night and the night started off good but when I tried touching her down below she moved my hand away and then asked me to take her home. She said she felt “overstimulated” and was acting cold the rest of the night. She did tell me she has bpd and depression and she does kinda act a bit like a bratty child. I have no idea what to do. I want to keep going because she’s so cute but idk if this is something I could maintain long term. I also don’t want to ruin her or traumatize her.
>>34047514>Bro being attracted to 18 year olds is not pedophilia.No, it isn't, but it still makes you a pedo. Keep up.
i wish the older guy im interested in liked me, but he has some like avoidant issue and ignores me
>>34048755he just isn't gay
>>34047477>inventing nonsensePedo is short for pedophile you stupid dimwit. Being attracted to an adult woman is not pedophilia ergo he’s not a pedo. You don’t get to redefine words to sate your feefees. Idiot.
>>34046856kys pedo
>>34048553>bpd>long termLol. She is going to traumatize you, not the other way around.
>>34050233I think she may have more mental problems though. She acts very childish and immature and I hate to say it but it turns me on. Like when she grabs my arm and puts her head on my shoulder quickly or she’ll randomly say “I want to cuddle in bed now” or “play with my hair” all in a cute childish way and tone. I’d let her traumatize me as much as she wants. I’m enjoying how she holds me like cute loli
>>34045360While OP is busy being a moralfagging faggot how do I, a 36 year old man, get an 18 year old gf.
>>34045360I'm 35 and my wife is 19. I love her and I don't give a shit what anyone else thinks. Her father was actually fine with the relationship but he was hesitant to endorse the marriage at first because he thinks 19 is a little young to get married. But thankfully my wife wasn't interested in riding the cock carousel for 15 years before trying to settle down. She's a good woman.
>>34048553You won't ruin or traumatize shit. I sadly have gotten involved with more than 10 BPD girls in my time online, getting involved with a bpd girl goes like this: First period - you're really with them. Things feel so good, so real. Like everything you've always wanted. Her attention on me is maxed, she's open to do anything. Usually at this stage we do sexual stuff together and with some girls we say love words and completely love bomb each other, completely enamored with one another. We talk for a really really long time during this time.Second period - replies wane, excuses come up. Suddenly she's telling you some stuff, usually negative things, that she's going through / went through, and any other special situations that happened specifically to her, and any conditions she may have. A lot of girls online learned to mask this over the years, so I won't hear from them that they are bpd until a bit later, but it doesn't matter because the pattern is the same whether I get an admission or not. At this stage she will withdraw some things that you previously had, this is not a binary stage, amongst the things she can withdraw - sexual love, non sexual but caring deep love, personal attention, time spent together and replies. Excuses also mount up. If you do speak, you feel and know that something's off.Third period - she doesn't text you anymore or tries to make appointments, seems dismissive, but all throughout let's you know that she cares about you so so much otherwise why would I do this for you or why wouldn't I do that? Glaring pattern I noticed with all bpd girls is that they'll all try to preserve some level of decency when disclosing romantic partners - they'll usually tell you about abusive ex's but they'll always mention that you're special and you're the only one they're speaking to right now and that they don't do anything sexual with anyone but you :3 This is all in an effort to use you and keep you in the dark.1/2
2/2The reality is, these girls live in the reality that they make up right there in the moment when they open their mouths and tell you about it. Sex is forgotten the moment it happens, love is forgotten the moment it happens. Abandonment issues permeate the entire scene, with some bpd girls actually having an alternative third period where they let you know that you're no good and they leave. Or they ghost or randomly block, but the real reason is that your use as an emotional masturbation and actual masturbation device has seen it's course. They only live for extremes. Today you're doing well, tomorrow you're doing awful - this is your fate if you choose to walk the path alongside a BPD.
>>34045360>It felt wrongyou are completely brainwashed. there is nothing wrong with dating an 18 year old no matter how old you are. she is a fully consenting adult
>>34047477>or so inappropriately much younger than they are that they might as well be for all the practical difference it makesyou can't just make up definition of words to suit your worldview you retard. an age gap between two adults doesn't make it "pedo"
>>34047863it is not. There are lot of 18 year olds who sleep with men in their 30s because it's such a taboo now.
>>34048553>She said she felt “overstimulated”this is gen z thing where if they feel social anxiety or not good outside their house they say they're overstimulated. Gen z likes to roleplay as autistic even if they aren't
>>34045603>>34045493anglo countries are the same. In Europe and the rest of the world no one cares
>>34047477>>34048686>r*ddit spacing>Words do, indeed, have definitions, but in this case, not the ones you think.you are a brain-dead redditor
>>34051854I disagree. I live in western Europe and large age gaps are viewed weirdly. 18-26 would definitely be frowned upon.
>>34051933depends on the country and the people who you ask. leftist or american wannabes would think it's weird. But thinking it's weird doesn't compared to americans who get outraged and angry by men dating 18 year olds. famous/powerful people can get cancelled for that here, it being frowned upon doesn't compare
>>34051933It always was like that, difference is how loud people complain about it. Same with getting a thai wife. People might talk behind your back, but aren't like redditors calling them pedos and having the urge to pressure the guy to stop the relationship
>>34052030>famous/powerful people can get cancelled for that hereThat's not true, plenty of famous americans date very young women lol>>34052051I agree. It's considered creepy and weird to date someone significantly younger, especially if you're an adult dating a teenager, and most people would talk shit.The fact that OP talks about being turned on by her being childlike or calls her "loli" makes him sound like a pedo tho lol
Leave her alone bro and let her be ofc these dumb fucks will tell u to be with her baka
>>34052072>very young womenno they don't. if they do they get ridiculed or become a meme. Like DiCaprio for dating 22 year olds. It's ridiculous. Even calling an adult female a women but then also "very young" is too
>>34052108you're the brainwashed retard here baka
>>34052154Making fun of someone does not mean he is cancelled. He hasn't lost his job or suffered any repercussions for dating young, he's just ridiculed.
>>34048755avoidant issue does not mean that he does not like you, just that he has issues.
>>34045360Nobody will bat an eye in two years18 just sounds so borderline, but it’s draft age for half the world
>>34052162ridiculed for something that doesn't deserve it. before the 2020s no one cared if a man dated younger adult women. That was normal and was an an obvious thing that men would do if they could. Now it's seen as the worst thing ever, you are labeled a sexual "predator" if you do, the same label given to pedos and rapists. And on the flip side "hagmaxxing" age gaps between young boys and older women is celebrated and seen as a good thing
>>34052290>ridiculed for something that doesn't deserve itWho cares? People making jokes about him dating women 20-25 is not a big deal, it does not impact him negatively in any way.You're a fucking retard if you're horrified because people make jokes.> before the 2020s no one cared if a man dated younger adult women.People thought big age gaps were weird before 2020. When I was in high school my 18 year old classmate was dating a 24 year old and people thought it was really fucking weird that she was dating a college graduate.Again, western europe, not America. There are objectively issues with large age gaps when the younger person is a teenager. Not every large age gap relationship is terrible, but teenagers are vulnerable and it's easy to exploit them, to manipulate them, etc. Teenage girls with older partners have higher rates of STDs, teenage pregnancy, intimate partner violence, etc.>And on the flip side "hagmaxxing" age gaps between young boys and older women is celebrated and seen as a good thingI disagree. Still weird and creepy.
>>34052290Thats because it is a jewish ploy to keep birthrates plummeting. Older man + young fertile woman = many children.Younger man + old sterile hag = falling birthrates. The the jews use the low birthrates as an excuse to bring in more mindless brown slaves to replace white societies.
>>34052368All this shows is that your country has fallen for the kike antinatalism psyop longer.
Keep seeing her, by the time you reach 28/20 it's barely an issue. And be good to her, she's young and impressionable
>>34052395Dating teenagers as an adult is weird, just date people your age lol
>>34052405>could morality driven by modern media oligarchs be wrong?>no! It's all of human history prior to mass-media that was wrong!NPC
>>34052409The idea that large age gaps were the norm in the past is a fabrication. While they happened, just like they happen today, they haven't been the norm in the west for a very long time (15th century). Marrying in your 20s and having a small gap between bride and groom has been the norm for centuries in the west. For example, in the 16th century the average age at marriage in Britain was 25 for women and 27 for men, and 27 for women and 30 for men in the Netherlands. This was associated with poverty.Between 1619 and 1660, in Canerbury, the median age for brides was 22 years and 9 months and 26 years and 6 months for grooms. In 1890 in the US the average age for a bride was 22 and the average age for a groom was 26 at their first marriage.This is fairly close to how it is today - the median difference between spouses is 3 years.
>>34045403Macron is clearly mentally ill and shouldn't be in a position of power.
>>34052428you sound like a brainwashed redditor. shut up already with your virtue signaling
>>34052368>When I was in high school>Again, western europe, not America.you're an american larping. you don't even know what gave you away lol
>>34045360I'm also in an age gap relationship (20-29) and just think about it this way:What's wrong with you that you can't see women your own age? And what makes you comfortable seeing a woman so much younger and less experienced than yourself?Clearly you've got a fetish for children by your replies, I won't say the forbidden p-word but you've literally called her a childish loli yourself.Just try to place less value on looks and youth, so you don't get bored and replace her when she's "too old". You're supposed to grow old together. Be good to her, she deserves a good life.
>>34052428oh look it's that anon who uses that one study done on Germans as proof age gaps weren't a thing in the past. the world isn't germany.
>>34052495I'm not American.>>34052491>it's virtue signaling to know what I'm talking about and not talk out of my assOkay.>>34052504I did not say anything about Germany. I talked about the US, England and The Netherlands. It's just the western European marriage pattern, the norm for the last 600ish years in Western Europe is to marry in your 20s to a woman around your age.
>>34052499>What's wrong with you that you can't see women your own age?Why do people use this NPC line. Why do people act like men want women their age in the first place? Yeah I want a 30+ year old women who is way past her prime, has baggage from failed relationships and is rapidily declining in fertility. No I'm so desperate for wanting the hot 18 year old who actually will fall in love and isn't just looking for a provider to settle with
>>34052518>I did not say anything about Germany. I talked about the US, England and The Netherlands. It's just the western European marriage pattern, the norm for the last 600ish years in Western Europe is to marry in your 20s to a woman around your age.You are that German anon. No need to deny it Hans. Why are you so autistic about age gaps? Did something in your life happen that made you hate older guys dating 18 year olds?
>>34052540>You are that German anonI'm not, I don't even know who you're talking about.I am not particularly autistic about age gaps, it is just incorrect to claim that adults dating teenagers was the norm in Western Europe and North America until mass media became a thing. It has not been the norm since the middle ages.
>>34052555You are that german anon. We all know it's you. You're always on here using the same one study on age gaps in the middle ages as an argument. We're talking about 18-19 year olds here not 14 like you're study implies. That is completely different
>>34052631I am not that german anon. I did not quote any study about Germany or 14 year olds. It was just not customary for teenagers to marry, and even less so for teenagers to marry much older men. It happened, but it was not the norm in western europe.
>>34052660Your writing style is very obvious. You use the same words, phrasing and the same "study" referenced. I already found your posts in the archive, there are even other anons accusing you of being that German anon lol. You need to stop being so obsessed with this topic you're on /his/ doing that same
>>34052794I did not reference any study, anon. You're the only one who has talked about the study on the 14 year olds in Germany, which I don't even know about. Are you schizophrenic?
>>34052499I’ve been on dates with women my age or 2 years younger and it never goes well. They always say they didn’t feel a connection. But with younger women I’m so good. I dated a 20 year old when I was 25 and it was great. I just want good new pristine unused pussy desu and a cute untarnished girl who really loves me and shows me affection like this 18 year old does in her cute way.
Sucking OPs cock so hard he'll forget about her and will want to cuddle with another 26-year old guy
>>34052823are retarded in addition to being autistic? look at what you posted >>34052428 Don't deflect from the fact we know you're that age gap german anon
>>34053228Yeah. None of that is about Germany or 14 year olds, you're the only one who mentioned that.I did not reference any specific studies either.I'm not the german anon, I do not post on /his/. You're just inaccurate lmao
>>34052826>>34052535Try reading the rest of my comment. (((They))) don't want you to find a beautiful wife of good character and heart to have many children and grow old with, they want you to have a weird obsession with youth so you're never satisfied.I love age gap relationships, but most of them hate each other because they only cared about "if she's young" and don't bother looking for good qualities, or even basic sexual/romantic compatibility.Abandon the belief that women are subhuman, you will be so much happier with your life partner.
>>34053322innit
>>34053322>(((They))) don't want you to find a beautiful wife of good character and heart to have many children and grow old withYeah, OP. Jews don't like it when you get married and have kids I guess, for some reason.
>>34045608Bait
>>34053347Less the common jew and more the powers that be. Jews aren't evil, just the rich ones
>>34052495Lmao I was about to say the same thing. It's very common for amerisharts to larp as another country to pretend like they know what they're talking about.
>>34052428>The idea that large age gaps were the norm in the past is a fabrication.They were the norm. You are misunderstanding studies on the Hajnal Line where countries to the north-west of that line married later in life except it says nothing on the actual age gaps between couples. Men who married women in the late 20s picked brides in their late teens to early 20s. Similarly women who were marrying in their mid-20s were picking men in their 30s.
>>34054404That's false, the western European marriage pattern has small age difference between spouses as one of its key characteristics.
Somebody's going to try and legislate this shit at some point. They won't be satisfied just pointing fingers forever.
>>34054527It’s not, it was pretty normal as recently as the 17th century.
There's a schizo amerimutt in this thread who thinks there's some "German" here as if there's only one German in the entire world, fucking retardAnyway all I have to say is, that I'd fuck anything they moved. Any single thing. The only thing I can get at the moment is nothing though.
>>34054527you can stop German anon. We all know it's you. You really can't help yourself bringing up "western european marriage patterns" in the middle ages. Again the world isn't Germany
>>34054625No they really can't. They would have to change the military age and the military industrial complex would not want that. Also then you need to change the voting age and age for doing adult things. Too much of the world relies on the adult age being 18 to function. At best they can just increase the social shaming. But eventually young women themselves will rebel against it, most young people outside the covid generation don't want to be infantilized
>>34055393It's the anti-age gap german anon, not all germans you ESL. Go on the /his/ archive and find any thread related to age gaps and he's there
