Is dating older women worth it? What are the pros and cons?
No. Simple as.
All real form of human being is a gross misappropriation of form created by a deceitful and evil god. The kind you shed and oils you ooze congeal to create a rotten pool of dead flesh that stinks. Your shit and piss stays plastered to your body in a most inconvenient way. Humans are disgusting whatever their age and I refuse to have sex with anything but a robot of the highest caliber.
>>34050325>Is dating older women worth it?Worth what?
>>34050325That woman is in her 20s what the hell are you talking about?
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No. A lot of them are looking for someone to bail them out of their shit decision making in life. Single moms with kids looking for a new daddy wallet, or some hag thinking she still got it looking for Chad George Clooney types.
As a former degenerate (degenerate is putting it nicely) who did it multiple times, no, most definitely no. I've done this with women of every decade and I promise it's not worth it.Most men who seriously do this are desperate. Imagine if you will, you're dating some cougar whilst you're in your 20s, but then the perfect similarly-aged girl walks into your life? Well now you have to leave the cougar, which will hurt her, and now you have to explain to that younger girl that you used to date hags "oh but I'm totally over that now."You can't ever have kids with them, you'll never grow old together (she'll just croak first), and if you ever seriously live together, you'll have to deal with all sorts of awkward financial situations. If you genuinely fall for her you have to realise you could never practically marry her.Take it from me, I've done it multiple times and regret it. The last time I pretty much had the dream, a crazy hot, smart and rich (widowed) cougar who genuinely desired me. Sex was basically on tap and this woman treated me like a king better than any girl my age could. The result? Painful breakup, I've destroyed my innocence, and now I can't look at women my age the same.The only upside is that the oldest ones did actually care about me and gave me lots of motherly advice about marriage and life. Their advice was actually supremely based and useful, and it included a note to not marry women much older than me. Older women were very direct in explaining what women actually want and this was very useful.Otherwise, don't do it. Find God, read the bible, get jacked and get a normal gf. Questions?
It’s far from worth it. I developed an interest in older women as soon as puberty started. As soon as I was of legal age older women became my entire life for several years. The media/social media probably said you’ll be having the best sex of your life, and finally getting that PS5 after she buys it for you. I was walking through dirty ass houses, and paying for some of their lifestyles. And for some of them, affection was a foreign concept. and others were stalker levels of obsessed. You’ll rarely find an in-between balance.Like the above anon, it fucked up my innocence. I shouldn’t have been dating women in their 50s and 60s while being 18/19 and beyond. I might actually be too far gone as it’s actually impossible for me to be attracted to young women now. So short answer— no, it’s not worth it.
>>34050674Damn you too, anon? (I'm the poster from above) I hope you get better. The attraction to younger women improves as long as you abstain from porn, I promise.It sounds like you enjoyed the sex and money more. I just liked smart, mature women who were sexually intense. Although I now know that you don't need to date 20 years older to get that.
>>34050325it depends how old (You) are. If you are 18-35 yesIf you are over 40 hell no. I stopped liking older woman once my mother got elderly and needed taking care of. I don't want to have to get stuck doing that for some random hag anytime soon that's a turn off.
>>34050371older than teens
Pros:>if she's taken care of herself, she will have an elegant beauty that younger women can't really pull off>if>her years of riding the carousel, overlapping with her previous marriage, and extramarital affairs, means she probably knows her way around your junk better than a younger woman>she'll be slightly better at holding a conversation and keeping your interest>could potentially be appreciative of a decent guy, but don't expect itCons:>she's more than likely used up - her best years are behind her, both in terms of her looks, and her fun, carefree attitude>to that end, you're probably going to spend a decent amount of time and energy being punished for what other men have done to her>probably also has at least a kid or two in her baggage train, so enjoy that shit>is likely trying to find someone to help financially offset single parenthood for her>not with her, for her>doesn't really understand her bargaining position - will likely try to control and manipulate you like she could get away with more easily when she was still more desirableOlder women are for hookups and flings. Her best relationship years are long gone. She already gave them to another man.
>>34051272ew. roasties- not even once.
One perk is if she's still hot when older she's probably going to stay hot for longer than other womenAs long as a woman isn't fat when she's young she'll be attractive to some degree. Many of them age like shit once they reach a certain age, some do notIf she's hot at 45 you know she'll look better at 60 than all the other fat fucks her age
>>34050325Pros: she'll stay yoursCons: she might want kids now>>34050341I really REALLY love your work on death stranding mister Kojima!
Feels retarded and delusional asking at this point as we're not even dating yet. I'm 33 she's 39 (divorced milf, 2 kids). Wanna be FWB's with her, can go even more than that but not really looking for marriage or the worst case is being a substitute dad for her teen kids. Or are those kinds usually averse to flings and are more looking for a long term (or financial) pillar instead? Also pretty low risk of pregnancy from plapping at that age innit? Other experienced anons ITT, wadyathink?
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>>34050325Every young man should go through a cougar phase. But there are pitfalls as the other anons have pointed out. The thing you gotta do is make sure you both have the right expectations and you have to target a specific demographic. You want a divorced woman close to her 50’s. Why? Because it means she probably has her own money, if she does have kids it means they’re grown up, and she can’t get pregnant to baby trap you, and they know that if they’re dating a guy under 25 what the situation is and that the relationship has an expiration date sometime in the future.
One exception would be if you where say 40 and she was say 42 and still hot and probably rich.Unlikely to knock her up and she's got money.If your under 40 or want kids there is zero benefit in dating a woman older than you. I'm in my 30s and wouldn't consider dating a woman older than 6 months above my age.
>ConsShe's going to be dead or a total granny by the time you hit middle age, if she has kids they're going to hate you, people out in public are going to silently judge you. Having children yourself might be a struggle depending on how old she is. >ProsFree shit. She's going to do everything in her power to keep you around, including sex.
They are better in bed and more likely to actually try to please you and do your fetishes, they are nicer and more respectful, pretty much everything the young women doesn't do because they can't get away with being a bitch anymore.Sad honestly that a woman finally learns how to be respectful when she is old and desperate
>>34051272>Older women are for hookups and flingsit genuinely baffles me that there are idiots out there that consider anything other than that an option. Like, are you retards serious? I'm not being trolled?
>>34050325>Is dating older women worth it?As an American, no.Most women over 30 here behave like 18 year-olds, so what's the incentive of starting a serious relationship with a woman that's been run through?
>>34050595I date only 30+ yo women. Always have. I think womans body is at its sexiest around 35 yo thats when its got the shape right. Idk you aound unhinged and kind of schizo, i disregarded everything you said.
No. I only wanted to date older as a teenager. There are too many emotionally crippling monsters. I am seeing too many taking advantage of the new laws.
>>34055666>I think womans body is at its sexiest around 35 yo thats when its got the shape right.
>>34050325My situation may be a little different. I'm a woman and when younger I had two relationships with older woman (41 and 53) while in my 20's. Being with someone mature, kind and sexy (as in knowing what they want) is great. But eventually, it becomes a mother/child relationship with your partner acting more like a mother than a lover. They don't work out.
>>34062118You're right, it's 45 not 35
>>34062343Were you a student at that time or have you already been employed? I feel that getting a job significantly changes the way other people percieve you.
>>34062343Skill issue
>>34062489Both times I was employed. I admit I have mommy issues and were probably attracted to them for the same reason things didn't work out.
