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I'm 26. I never dated when I was a teen or in my early 20s, and I still haven't. I feel like those first few relationships people have when they're young are memorable since everything's new and exciting. When you get older, everyone's kind of been there and done that, and I feel there's higher expectations you have to meet to even get into a relationship with somebody. Is true love still possible for me?
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> I'm...[basic observation]

> Is true love still possible for me?
Yes
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>>34050826
I guess to add and why I've been feeling this way. I had a younger coworker who met their boyfriend online, and she ended up moving 8 hours away to marry him. They seemed to be madly in love. I remember all the things she'd say about him - how much she loved him, all the expensive gifts she'd buy for him, and how he was her world. She once told me that she'll be with him forever. It makes me wish I could have experienced that kind of deep, intimate love.

Anyway, it's given me a lot of grief on what I missed out on. I feel like at my age it's a turn off for someone else if I'm honest about experiencing everything for the first time.
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>>34050826
Go back to school and fuck a 18yo. Last call though, when you turn 28 you ought to look towards settling down.
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>>34050899
>Go back to school and fuck a 18yo.

Good advice, OPP shoudl get it out of his system and once hes had the fifth aneuryism due to dealing with teen girl retardation he will be happy with mid twenties chicks.

>when you turn 28 you ought to look towards settling down.
Reatrded advice, life is not a checklist. All this mentality does is make people artificially desperate and settle for unsuitable partners because they are panicked of missing a boat that isn't even real.
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bump
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>>34050826
>All the time you spend tryin to get back what's been took from you there's more goin out the door. After a while you just try and get a tourniquet on it.

It's okay to feel bad about the past. It's not okay to dwell so much you miss out on the present.
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>>34050826
>26. I never dated when I was a teen or in my early 20s, and I still haven't.
you are not alone
>I feel like those first few relationships people have when they're young are memorable since everything's new and exciting.
sure- but that doesn't mean you still cannot feel the same when you are older now. Many are in the same situation as you today.
>When you get older, everyone's kind of been there and done that
not always and that is a blanket generalization.
>I feel there's higher expectations you have to meet to even get into a relationship with somebody.
this is just self-doubt and low self-esteem. No two people are alike- despite their popular upbringing. Some have high expectations, some are more open.
>Is true love still possible for me?
not if you are a crybaby loser.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OTW09hKTbbI
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I feel you bro. Almost 28 and im living the same scenario
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>>34052889
That's vanity.



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