As a man, what standards am I allowed to have when it comes to dating women? I honestly wish I could raise my standards but I feel like going beyond what I already have would just remove basically all my options. My standards are basic and I hold myself to all my own standards:>Woman that isn't obeseI don't mind chubbier women but full blown obesity I'd prefer not to date. >Woman with kidsEven this one I am feeling like I may have to relent on. It seems like most women around my age have kids already and I can't escape it. I am 34 and most women aged 29-35 in my area have kids. The dating apps are riddled with single moms also>Woman that doesn't do drugs or smokeI don't like living with smokers because their stench gets into everything. However, it seems like a lot of women are casual weed smokers. If it were common to do weed in a form that was smokeless, I'd probably not have this standard>Woman with a car and jobDoesn't even have to be a good job or car. Just something. Are any of my standards too high? I believe a lot of women have MANY MANY standards for men but are mine even that crazy? I wish I could make them higher but I honestly believe doing so would be detrimental to dating. I already don't get many chances. Making the chances fewer seems retarded. What do you think? The last time I even had a date was 2 years ago.
>Are any of my standards too high?>The last time I even had a date was 2 years ago.Supply and demand answers itself
go to church, your local grocery store, something. dating apps are worthless because it's riddled with the exact type of people who need an app just to find connection. even if you're not religious (should be, but i digress) a godly woman is the best you'll get in the way of non smoking, no kids, etc. they might be a little crazy but i'm sure you can deal
>>34052446If I lower my standards anymore though... It will be hell>>34052453I am personally religious. I don't like going to Church because people openly worshiping kind of makes me uncomfortable. However, I am really only familiar with Pentecostal churches I think because of where I grew up.
>>34052434You should just date men, faggot. Considering you want a woman that is living a man's role
>am I allowed to havewhat type of advanced faggotry is this? absolute omega cuck behavior.you have free will, you are a MAN, you can do whatever you want.thats exactly what women nowadays find offturning. that you cannot stand up for yourself or take what is yours. or at least trying it for once.>inb4 muh jewed out, we live in a so1ciety run off the mill discount excusejust dont forget that actions have reactions.
It's not your fault mate.This is assuming your not a 400 pound 40 year old that's never been employed.Western woman are so deluded I did math on it. 3-5% of the male population is all they want.
Look check this out.I'm not in the US however my income and heigh transfer accross because obviously height is the same and income transfers across to currency exchange rates.I'm basically in the top 2% in the US and even less in my country. Mids reject me, they're incredibly delusional.I actually had one woman say "I have high standards they have to make as much as my dad" ah because your boomer father is a fair comparison to a man 20-30 years younger in a different economic environment.
No fattiesNo bumsNo gold diggersWith good mannersSeems decently put together, rough around the edges is no biggieLiterally all I ask for, I'd cherish someone who desired me for real that fit the bill, im handsome and got a house to inherit amongst good money and manly skills so I know I can give the future a woman would want in life but dang dude it's just hard finding authentic love. Not Faux facade and stretched out vapid hookups. I can get sum if I wanted and didn't want to carry on with dignity but for now I am holding out for somethin real as a man
>>34055107It's not delusional if they get what they want though. Women don't have multi year dry spells other than by choice.
>>34052434these are relatively normal and finding a woman like this isn't hard. The problem is that retards will willingly surround themselves with other retards and then wonder why the dating pool is retarded.
>>34055144That's not a valid argument boomer.Statistics disagree with your premise.
>>34055137Wrong.Your obviously young or a woman. The vast majority of woman in the west are sleeping around 18-30.At 30 they panic they can't get commitment.Why the fuck should any man wife up a "reformed" slut.
>>34055149>muh heckin statisticslife isn't a calculator where everything obeys the power of le rules. I'm just saying you guys sperg out so much over the math that you end up shooting yourself in the foot when it really matters. Here's the truth, love doesn't care about the math. If statistically people are shit, so what? Just ignore them and wait till you find someone who isn't. I don't understand why you guys waste your time on fools, unless you're a fool yourself. If a woman wants to be a damn whore then I don't care go throw your life away, I won't be involved in it nor will my partner be like that, simple as.
>>34052434>Making the chances fewer seems retarded.no, its always good to have standards. Mine are basic: must not be alcoholic or drug-addled. Must not be obese or overweight with exercise regimen (because I am fit myself). Must have good relationship with parents and family if they are still around- only acceptable otherwise if violent or abusive/traumatic. No children at all. No high body count or weirdo ex that are still around. Must be average if not somewhat pretty in attractiveness.>Woman with a car and jobthis is average women today, but I wouldn't mind her having her finances together if she's willing to be with me. I make enough money.>doing so would be detrimental to datingno, settling is detrimental to your life.
>>34055154>commitmentThis is just one of the things women want. Chadcock is also high on the list. Hate to break it to you but women can fuck around deep into their 40s.If you were hoping that they'd all realise how wrong they were before becoming completely barren you're going to be disappointed.Now imagine a new generation of boomlennials made up of insufferable chad addicted cunts who didn't prepare a suitable pension but are even more entitled because they're strong independent wamins with a lifetime of chadcock validation under their belts.It only ever gets worse anon.
>>34055173>It only ever gets worse anon.you are a kike
>>34055177>kikeThey hated him because he told the truth.>kikeBut seriously you can't just call everyone a kike. Pointing out the consequences of kikery is the least jewish thing you could do.
>>34055181i'm saying the demoralizing pessimism is a kike mindset. i guess i should've worded it differently but shoulda woulda coulda
>>34055184Ok, what reason is there for optimism?
>>34055187the reason for optimism is the point of it. i'm not saying you should believe everything will always be okay and turn out for you; but, tilting your head towards defeat every time is a cucked mindset. you are a man, stand straight and look ahead. you have your whole life ahead of you, it will turn around eventually, it may be tomorrow, the next month, or the next 60 years, the point here is to persist and to prevail.
>>34052434Take what you can get
>>34052434Im from europe so the car can be optional, same with if the woman is rom ny and can take the train to work, the rest are fine because:obese: health risk, probably make the kids obese toowomen with kids: you already know whydrugs/smoke: health/mental risk for them on top of your baby if you want to have one yourselfjob: being a single breadwinner is difficult thesedays for the average guy, if you're not the average guy and well off then there's a risk of gold-digging and stuff, job is good because they can buy and maintain their own things too.the car isn't essential unless you live in the middle of nowhere and it is absolutely required.
>>34052434why dont you just try to find a woman you like first and then go from there
