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Is 33 too old to have a fun romcom type of relationship?
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nope
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shamone
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>>34054047
No, honestly I'd say it's never too late
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>>34054047
A lot of romcom protags are in their mid to late 30s.
Watch more romcoms I guess?
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>>34057288
Yeah, that's true, but I think they might be fantasies targeting a specific demographic.
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>>34057338
Are you the annoying American who posts on /int/?
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>>34054047
I had my romcom type of relationship at 32
the whole thing
running to see her under the rain, travelling abroad to meet each other, quick dates at sunset in a cute european forest
it was dreamlike
sometimes I can't even believe it all happened
she was also WAY out of my league.
I'd advice you to travel abroad, sometimes your own people are not your public.
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>>34057449
Yeah, but I made the zainichi joke and many other memes. What have you done?
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>>34057601
was she much younger or also 32?
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>>34061560
much younger, 14 years younger than me
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>>34054047
Dude most romcoms are ppl 40 and up.
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>>34057601
Sometimes I wonder if posts like this are bait made to anger incels who barely can get a girlfriend, like had someone been talking about yachts around homeless people.
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>>34061770
not really, I was hopeless with girls when I first came here in 2008 and since then I've gone through a lot of adventures
I come here to share my advice and give hope to people
sometimes it might sound like bragging but I'm just a regular guy, a bit on the wealthier side but not even a millionaire, if I can make it most anons can. I mean I've seen some guys that are a bit rough but most are young normal kids with low self esteem and problems socializing
guess what, that describes me in 2008
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>>34061830
I'm hopeless, because I got the attraction but I can't fulfill it because I can't tell the right joke or flirtatious words without being negative and boring. You can tell me any advice there is and it isn't gonna fix that problem. It's the issue with being autistic, you can only approach women when they want someone tame out in open but you can't impress them where guys like you are at that get them all the time when they are sneaking out from their parents home to go to the club to have a fun time. Like come on man, I'm so fucking bad with women, I could have been given the name Eugene as a kid and it would have been the same thing now.
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>>34061875
At least you've stopped creating those meaningless threads you used to do
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>>34061882
Anon, I don't think you like the real me. I think the real me is too Eugene for you and you want someone who would smoke weed with you talking about a metal band and then deciding to go do skid marks in the road when drunk. Like I get why you hated those posts I made. They were essentially dorky. It wasn't dorky like oh look at this professor who was badass enough to discover quantum mechanics. Like honestly anon, I just wish you could overlook the idea of cool. You and everyone are gonna honestly get me killed if you put this idea of cool above everything else. I know you don't see it. But at some point society having this if it don't bother me not my problem attitude towards everything people are gonna suffer, badly. I'm fortunate enough to find a loophole where I can manage a decent apartment life, but there will be people who will indeed die a sufferable life if you keep up this anti-morality mantra, because you believe morality is for faggots.
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If you believe in "the one" "disney" etc then bad news op your mentally a woman.

If your talking about taking a girl your with on "cute dates" or something you could do that at 60 and no sane person would look down on your for it.

I get it man Gen Boomer and Gen X taught most of us NOTHING. GL.
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>>34061899
meds
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>>34061989
Hell no I'm right on fucking point. Look at your friends they all talk about doing real shit together they don't sit down and talk about lame things like video games and movies and all of that. They talk about things like what goes on in the world, athletics, music, events, parties, and all of that shit. Me, I'm just a fucking cardboard box.
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>>34061875
>It's the issue with being autistic, you can only approach women when they want someone tame out in open
that's not true. you can just go talk to them and pretend their girl shit is actually cool and they'll like you. they have low self esteem and are gullible if you act like they're cool
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>>34062014
Anon, it's fucking different. We have to talk about education and work. You're over there talking about stuff that gets her giggling for hours on end. Like I don't want to make a woman feel like she's in an interview. If people liked dealing with interviews movies wouldn't be at movie theaters but instead would be employment training videos. I mean do you not see what I'm talking about?
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>>34062014
Women talk to autistic men like they are babysitting a preschooler with the mom there to watch them. Compare that type of conversation with someone who is fiercly independent and you got a woman and a guy joking about sex and then initiating it.
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>>34054047
Yes, it's too old. By 33, you should be married with kids and a mortgage. No more fun times for you.
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>>34057601
>>34061718
>bragging about importing a slav mail order bride
Once she's a citizen she's gonna start fucking the pool boy
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>>34062072
No, she's gonna find this biker who talks some real shit and after he is done smoking meth they're gonna fuck and then she is going to argue with the guy and then they fuck again.
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>>34062072
I was the one from the third world country studying in Europe with daddy's money tho, she was the one from a powerful western european country
but you're gonna nitpick my story with another inconsistency just to reinforce your doom and gloom view of relationships so I'm done replying to you.
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>>34062037
no shit women are socialized to try to control the frame and make a man talk to them how they want him to. that's the whole point of learning to flirt is figuring out how to throw them off. you just haven't practiced
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>>34054047
I won't read yet another 30-something calendar of doom thread. I also won't read is it normal threads posted by formulaic, subhuman, autistic morons.



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