Why did I end up a kissless dateless handholdless virgin at 30 years old, when every single other man I've ever known in my life didn't?
Your family probably sucks and they never inspired confidence in you(?
>>34054307Not really. My family always complimented me and told me I was a handsome child. I was constantly encouraged to go out and pursue girlfriends, even at a young age.I just was so unfortunate that no women in my entire life ever expressed romantic interest in me.
>>34054354>no women in my entire life ever expressed romantic interest in me.Are these all from the same guy?
>>34054466What? I'm literally one guy. What the fuck are you even talking about?
Bump.
>>34054673Anon, you need to be happy being alone. If you don't be happy alone and wake up from all these brainwashed people, you are gonna be miserable. You do not need love to live. You don't need friends to live. You don't need people to compliment you and tell you you are great to live either. If all you got is apparently something a middle school girl would get as a 30 year old man, then that is fine too. What matters is how you can use your tools right now to better your life moving forward. You got to recognize that all these people if they lose things they're going to go fucking nuts. If you aren't like them, you're going to be way more happy than them. Your redneck friend Jimbo may turn suicidal because his wife cheated on him and divorced him leaving him with no kids. For you that wouldn't effect you, which is good. Or say for example your friend Daniel fucked up in a crypto investment losing his entire house and his girlfriend dropped him the moment his house was lost, and again if you be happy being alone that wouldn't effect you. Be happy being alone first anon.
>>34054300>Why did I end up a kissless dateless handholdless virgin at 30 years oldYou put a lot of time and effort into cultivating the most odious personality possible.
>>34054300Just bad luck literally, don't take it personally.
>>34054300they went after what they wanted and you did not
>>34054300Because you don't know any of the kissless dateless handholdless virgins at 30 years old that could be in your life because they are shut up in their rooms doing stuff like replying to you on 4chan /adv/
>>34054700fuck taht cope man. you cannot be happy and alone all the fucking time. life is about sharing whats important and meaningfull for you with others, especially a partner.
>>34055195Suit yourself.
>>34054700It's not about being happy, it's about asking "What the fuck is going on here?"It doesn't make sense that every other man I have ever known, like literally EVERY single one, has got a girlfriend or at the very least has had casual sex a few times, but I haven't.I know men who are shorter, smellier, uglier, and/or more autistic than me, and yet they got GFs and I didn't. Why? What do they have that I don't?>>34054710No, I didn't.>>34054867It feels more like a cosmic curse placed upon me by some malevolent god.>>34054875No they didn't. All my male friends, when I asked them "How did you start dating your GF?", would give me some BS story about how>uhhh well, i just went to *insert social event here*, met her, we got talking, and things just happened!No effort expended whatsoever. They just spoke to women and completely randomly ended up in a romantic encounter with her without putting in any effort at all.>>34055092I am the one and only true kissless dateless handholdless virgin. Nobody else compares to me.
>>34058332Because they're just fun people to be around with. Women love fun, so they stick to it. The only way to win a woman over is to be fun and mature. Everything else is shit.
>>34054300>Why did I end upyou're crying and whining you didn't live the life you wanted and had full will and control over? At any given moment you could have made moves to better your chances of meeting women? At 21, you didn't stop to think that maybe you should be meeting girls your own age because you will never be 21 again? Did you expect women to just appear out of thin air and develop relationships with you? You're saying this wasn't your fault? Pathetic. You could still make some moves in a few months, but if you're here being a loser instead of fixing things, maybe not.
>>34058456>At any given moment you could have made moves to better your chances of meeting women? At 21, you didn't stop to think that maybe you should be meeting girls your own age because you will never be 21 again?How exactly am I supposed to "make moves" on women when they show literally 0 signs of romantic interest in me?>Did you expect women to just appear out of thin air and develop relationships with you?No. I went out and met women. Countless women. Literally 100s if not thousands of women that I met since the age of 16. Not a single one of them ever showed any romantic interest in me. What am I supposed to do about that? You can't ever win if you're not given any chances to play.
>>34058457>when they show literally 0 signs of romantic interest in me?you were supposed to learn from your interactions and changed aspects about yourself to have better results every time (whether it be fitness, fashion, socializing skills, etc).>Literally 100s if not thousands of women that I met since the age of 16. Not a single one of them ever showed any romantic interest in me.quit lying to yourself. You would have learned how to interact with women after a few. Maybe this is why you dont get your peepee touched by them- because you are a loser. You learned that certain aspects of your personality sucks and is a bummer to be around, yet you want to change nothing about yourself so you can get women. Instead you seethe and cry like some supreme autist that no one woman finds that attractive. Kek. Be open to change and learn what makes you attractive to women. But alas- you might never learn how as you went ten whole ass years without success. Its not for everyone I guess, especially guys who like to be the loser in life instead of work.
>>34058474>you were supposed to learn from your interactions and changed aspects about yourself to have better results every time (whether it be fitness, fashion, socializing skills, etc).I lost a shit ton of weight after the age of 15/16 and have stayed fit and healthy ever since then.I developed a good fashion sense to the point that I would be regularly complimented on for my clothes (including by women).I went from being literally friendless at age 16 to having a whole social network by the age of 18 and beyond.Absolutely none of that did ANYTHING to get me any romantic attention from women.>quit lying to yourself. You would have learned how to interact with women after a few.I can interact with women easily, they just don't show any signs of romantic attraction towards me no matter what I do.
>>34058332>No they didn't. All my male friends, when I asked them "How did you start dating your GF?", would give me some BS story about how>>uhhh well, i just went to *insert social event here*, met her, we got talking, and things just happened!>No effort expended whatsoever. They just spoke to women and completely randomly ended up in a romantic encounter with her without putting in any effort at all.OK so... how many social events did you attend in the same period to meet women and how many did you approach?
>>34058499>OK so... how many social events did you attend in the same period to meet women and how many did you approach?I attended the same amount, if not more, social events as they did.One of my friends even remarked that he was "jealous" of me because he thought I was a lot more socially successful, and even more successful with women, than he was. He just assumed because of my public image that I must've been getting lots of girls.But when I would go to social events, I'd talk to lots of people, and yet women just wouldn't ever display any signs that they were romantically interested in me. They would converse with me, be friendly to me, sometimes even laugh at my jokes, but they would never ever ever flirt with me or show any signs of being into me as anything more than a potential friend.One of the only times I ever thought a girl at a party might be into me, I spent like an hour or so talking to her on the couch. I got up to grab another drink, and a male friend of mine stopped me to say "Dude, you've got this. She's so into you! Just go for it". I grabbed my drink and went back to the couch. Within 5 minutes she, out of nowhere, told me bluntly that she "had a boyfriend" and so "nothing was going to happen between us". I didn't even make a move whatsoever, and she still rejected me preemptively. I said nothing in response, and just silently got up and left the party instantly and walked home by myself at 1am. One of the most humiliating moments I EVER experienced in my life.
>>34054300OP Imma give it to you straight:You're ugly. Undesireable. The men around you in relationships are most likely oofy doofies. They're not genuinely desired either, but they make good providers.
For me it's a combination of mental illness, 0 confidence, and being dumb as fuckt. 34 year old virgin
>>34058508>They would converse with me, be friendly to me, sometimes even laugh at my jokes, but they would never ever ever flirt with me or show any signs of being into me as anything more than a potential friend.what happened when you would try to flirt with them?
