So I’m 39 years old, almost to the big 40. Here’s the thing. I have a high paying career, wife who’s my age, and amazing kid, but god damn it if all I actually want is a young 21 year old loving side girlfriend. I am so fucking obsessed with this problem too. Like to the point where I swear if one of the young girls I work with (ages 20-23 are the young ones) decided to give me a chance I would cave in a fucking nanosecond. The constant porn consumption. The constant desire for this. I thought getting older means you finally get rid of these cravings, so why is it that it’s driving me insane, and stronger then ever?
stop watching pornget off 4changet a creative hobby far away from a screen thats trying to sell you shit
>>34054322Stop watching porn and spend time with your family. Get off 4chan.
Fuck those pussies telling you you shouldn't want this.You fucking DESERVE young, prime pussy. It is your birthright.Go one seekingdotcom or similar website and find a sugar baby.I have had several over the past 10 years. I just turned 50.Do you know what it's like to have some 19 year old take her panties off and then cry out as you push your cockhead into her sweet pink hole?? I swore I saw the face of God the first time. I've been chasing that high ever since.
Moids... Did you even want a kid? Why did you have a kid when you didn't want one? Why did you marry this woman when you didn't want to? TF? Divorce already. Your energy should be going to your kid not some random 21 year old thot
I don't see a problem here. Men, in general are attracted to beautiful, fertile women.
>>34055318Women are also naturally attracted to Chads. Would that make this normal and acceptable?>I have a husband and amazing kid, but god damn it if all I actually want is Chad's cock. I am so fucking obsessed with this problem too. Like to the point where I swear if Chad looked my way I would cave in a fucking nanosecond.
>>34055340Newflash but men and women are different. Our brain chemistry during sex is different, multiple fucking studies confirm this. Evo psych confirms this.A man can go out, fuck some broad, then come home and kiss his wife on the cheek and hug his kid and feel nothing except for the guilt of infidelity. If this were a culture where male casual polygyny were accepted, i.e. men can go out and fuck single women and whores and have one wife, I'd guarantee you men wouldn't think about the nuts they busted with the "other women" at allMeanwhile for women sex is a bonding act. If she goes out and takes Chad's cock, it's fucking over for the relationship. The man loses half his shit, the kids' upbringing is perma-fucked, and the woman will even be worse off because she's probably just going to be pumped and dumped and end up a single mom. Even the most psychopathic women will start laying landmines in front of themselves when they find new cock they want so the current relationship detonates and they can be "free." How many times have you heard about the woman dressing up to meet the other man while the poor husband is performing his oofy doofy of "stepping up around the house" to try to make her happy. Nah dawg, that ain't it at all. The only reason that we don't have polygyny is because there are always excess males, statistically men are born more often than women because Y chromosome sperm are faster swimmers. For the "excess" not killed off by war and disease, there needs to be a set aside portion of women to prevent an incel rebellion. Which is actually what we're about to fucking get.
>>34054322why though? Because of the younger and less aged body, or the more bubbly and carefree personality?
>>34055389LMAO I'm not OP but this is like asking>Why do you want that deluxe bacon double cheeseburger instead of your usual salami on rye? Is it the sizzling beef topped with melty cheese and crispy bacon or the buttery toasted buns?
>>34055388Everything I know about women I learned from Incel University online from my basement: the post.
>>34055404I literally just got back from a date where I got to grope big titties and play with pussy for hours with the implicit guarantee of sex in the next date or so.
>>34055399>I'm not OP then why do you answer?
>>34055432Because you seem stupid and need simple things explained in simple terms.
>>34055439So you're a midwit
>>34055448You ever been fucked with a steak knife? Like in and out?
>>34054322>I'm 43>Three kids instead of one>Married with a 42yo woman>I like young and beautiful tooAnon, dont fuck your marriage and kid with a "side girlfriend".I fuck hookers on a regular basis, last one was three days ago, a curvy 19 years old dominican cheaper than burger and go to moviesI just keep it safe and nobody got hurt after more than 10 years.
>>34055388>statistically men are born more often than women because Y chromosome sperm are faster swimmers.This is so fucking wrong. The opposite is true. There are always more women than men. Which makes sense evolutionary.
Are all men like this as they age? What if I'm the provider and caretaker of my disabled husband, so he has no power and has not "earned" the right to cheat?
>>34055899Samefag. Is the answer to divorce become a sugar mama myself as soon as he cheats? I just want lifelong bonding and partnership with NO CHEATING EVER. Should I have pursued a woman instead if I wanted that? Did I make the more retarded bisexual decision?
>>34054322bro just use pornhub
>>34055907Take this as you will, but I'm marrying my girlfriend next year and I only have eyes for her. I genuinely couldn't care less about other women and am really looking forward to spending the rest of my life with her. Obviously, it's just an anecdote, but most of my friends have this or want this too
>>34054322it's called a midlife crisisI wouldn't waste a perfectly good marriage on this desuI was 35 and with a loving gf of 4 years when this happened to meI just went to a brothel and picked the youngest and freshest looking girlI mean it is kinda cheating unless your significant other is japanese (they don't consider it cheating for some reason) but it's way better than getting into a romantic relationship with a younger workmatenot only will that spell problems in your workplace but side relationships always have the potential to backfire in spectacular ways.
>>34054322Same except I’m still a dateless virgin and only attracted to 18-21 year olds.
>>34055885>https://www.bbc.com/news/health-46597323>https://www.npr.org/sections/health-shots/2015/03/30/396384911/why-are-more-baby-boys-born-than-girls/I'm sorry you fucking retard, you were saying again?Sorry, absolutely fucking retard that can't even use google, what the fuck were you saying now?
Ive never understood the lust so many men have for early 20s women, for me, my whole life ive gotten the hardest for 27-39 women, early 20s they are like green bananas = tasteless and hard, past 40 like brown bananas (mushy and taste a bit off)28-38 is where its at.
>>34054322>The constant porn consumption. The constant desire for this. I thought getting older means you finally get rid of these cravings, so why is it that it’s driving me insane, and stronger then ever?Well, you're feeding the desire with the fantasies and porn. If you want the desire to lessen, you have to stop engaging with the fetish.Ideally, you would refocus your sexual thoughts on your wife. Focus on fantasies and fetishes she can take part in.It's extremely unwise to narrow the entire scope of your sexual focus to one fetish and related type of arousal.Broaden your fantasies and sexual desires and involve your wife in them.It's far less complicated than cheating or breaking up your kid's parents.And expecting life to just kill off your sexual desire because you're older is a dismal misconception and a strange thing to look forward to.
>>34055885Mate, you and I are suffering the same Mandela effect, I too come from the timeline where we used to have more girls born every year
moids are genuinely subhuman uncontrollable hedonistic apes lmao"waaa ive got the perfect life and fulfilled my evolutionary duty but im a fucking retarded porn addict and you just dont understand muh chromosomes means i HAVE to cheat on my loving wife with a young thot that only wants my money!!! my life is soo hard :(" genuinely ropemaxx tonight and keep this tab open so your wife and kid know they didn't lose anything of value. except maybe your moneybut if you actually want a solution and not just 4chan basement dwelling incels to stroke your dick and tell you its okay to ruin your life for a fantasy (that you wont get btw), the answer is to stop watching fucking porn and go be with your family. maybe open a bible. fuck you
>>34056847you're not a real woman
>>34054322All that desire you’re putting toward some idealized 21-23 pussy is energy you should be putting to your wife. I couldn’t help but notice you had positive adjectives to describe your job and child but a big fat tabula rasa for your wife’s description. You’re looking for a spark but are too comfortable in your home life to try something exciting with your wife.
>>34056894well i'm a cisgender male for starters, but just out of curiosity: are you implying that my worldview would make me "not a real woman", or that you suspected i was a trans woman?
>>34057179No you're just retarded
>>34057179I'm implying that you're a schizo posting all day here and that fits the profile of some trans people that only find socializing in 4chan their only escape from the weird realities they live in.
>>34057666well i mean, i'm a married man with a new kitten and i like to go gymmini just think that every other man's view of women is abominable and not really god-honoringkind of disappointing
>>34057766you have too much time to kill bro, when I had a gf I stopped coming here for 3 solid yearsat least to the places where people write and read, I still came to see what was new in the porn field lol
>>34057774i'm married, so not my gf, my life partner who i like to share funny memes with aka come here to scope em out...you were looking at porn when you had a gf?
Try telling your wife how you feel.Now take that dreadful realisation that she'd leave you and manipulate your kids into hating you.Yeah, now that 21 year old pussy aint worth it.What you can only do, is suggest a threesome, which is fairly reasonable.
>>34054762fippy bippy
>>34057179>i'm a cisgender maleyou aren't a man. you sound like a soi male redditor
>>34054322why 21 and not 18? Why are you lying to yourself and virtue signaling even here of all places?
I'm similar age and there is a college girl in limerence with me. Ive barely talked to her beyond small talk other than one time we were at the same social even and bonded over how we went to the same hs, swapping stories about the same teachers we had. One day almost 6 nobths after this interaction she walked straight up to me, told me she was in love with, asked me to be her bf amongst other things. Never thought about her much but ever since that day I cant stop thinking of her Whenever i see her (she lives in my neighbourhood) ill smile and wave and she'll blush and literally skip off like shes a middle schooler interracting with her crush. I never heard of limerence until recently and did some research on it. Im very physically attracted to her but most resources suggest its not a good idea to get into a relationship with them. She seems sweet and her adoration of me has me thinking about her often. I kinda wish she never told me all that stuff bc it has a hold on me now. Im not married but have been in a relationship for a year.
>>34055404Most of what he said is true.
>>34054322>has the rare perfect middle class life>wants to ruin it all just for some young wussyGet off the internet unironically. You're only attracted to the physicality and the aura of high energy and naivety. You're not a millionaire, so get over it, it's not a life for you. You can pay for you wife's face lift and tummy tuck if you want a younger one.
>>34057804sure, why not?she liked to have sex once a day, I liked cumming at least 3 times a day, so porn had to suffice
>>34061643It's funny how you fags say this can never be done...until a guy actually does it. Dumbfuck, do you honestly think every guy whose cheating/has a side is a millionaire? Buddy I've known guys in shitty garage bands that was able to pull it off. Yall really need to stop chewing on sour grapes. Is OP a sleaze? Yes, it is impossible for him? No.
>>34061715Imagine actually encouraging the breakdown of a happy family.
>>34061874I'm not encouraging shit you dumbfuck. I'm telling you that this shit exists outside of your Netflix view on life. Plenty of guys pull this shit off, is it right? No. Can it happen with normie men? Definitely yes. Sit and spin on it cause it's more true than you'd like to believe
>>34054322Why not go for 18? 20hags and above is for cucks.
Find the root cause of the obsession. It is important because if this was only about lust you wouldn’t care about the woman’s real age. It would be enough that she “looks young”, but you’re specifically lusting after women ages 20-23. In psychology this often means that you’re mourning your own dwindling youth. As you mentioned you’re pushing 40 and that can be terrifying, you’re facing your own mortality. Your wife and child can feel like a reminder of getting older. Sleeping with a young woman is your brains desperate attempt to fool you into thinking you’re still young and that you can fight against time. But it might fuck with you in the long run because the very things we use to make life meaningful, commitment, family, making sacrifices will be sullied if you go down this route. It is trading your long term wellbeing for short term relief against mortality anxiety. But the truth is that no amount of young women will turn back the clock. It will only increase your anxiety because you might lose respect for yourself, find yourself brutish and impulsive. The guilt might gnaw at you. After you sleep with the young woman and you feel just as old afterwards, you might realize that it didn’t solve anything. But you’ll have to spend the rest of your life terrified that your wife and kid finds out. And they might find out 20 years later and then you’ll have to deal with it then. My advice is to figure out what the root cause is, and to make a conscious decision if that’s something you’re willing to act on instead of just acting impulsively. Good luck!
>>34055546Op wants love and emotional fulfillment, not a paid whore
>>34061920Just because your home life sucks doesn't mean it's a good idea
>>34054322When I was 36 I had a shot with a couple of 20-year-olds and I found them extremely boring and too much like hard work. I never liked younger women, likely for this reason. Older women stop fucking around and playing games so much.
>>34054322All the good looking women who would make great wives and mothers are taken in high school and college the latest. Whatever remains is taken shortly after they enter the workforce. There exist very few good looking (7 and above) women that are single and have a good heart, are modest, raised in a decent family, soft spoken and pretty. The window of opportunity when they are single is very very narrow. These are the 2% of women, the highest stock of females this wonderful creation can offer. If you don't frequent their circles or the events they attend you have no chance of meeting them. Women also don't go anywhere alone, so whatever hobbies women have or events they attend it is done with their husband or boyfriend and if they are single with their groups of friends.tldr; there simply aren't enough single good looking young white women to go around for everybody, they are rare and exist mostly in very niche places where men without social circles (loners) can't get in to
>>34064693And just because you're retarded doesn't excuse the guys pulling this off abd getting away with it. You can honestly stop putting your personal cope on strangers.
>>34054322Yeah, that's everyone. You're a fag op.
>>34055318He is actually hot??Just need a little trimming on the browsThese were just bad examples
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>>34069326If you're attracted to 13-16 year olds you are still a pedo17-19 is statistically when women come into the best child bearing years of their lives. Young teenagers do not have enough body fat on them yet and are still developing, that's a physiological fact. The statistics on mother or child dying in childbirth support this. >Australian law as exampleYes I'm so glad the island of rapist criminals is being cited.
>>34054322I'm 39, homeless, haven't had a girlfriend in 20 years... I would literally kill you just so I could take your place and enjoy your money and hot 39 year old wife.
>>34069553Kill yourself, worthless loser piece of shit
>>34069553live to spite the other guy
>>34069586im sure youre not about as much as a worthless loser than him
>>34069586lol give me your wife you don't deserve her you cheating sack of shit
>>34064593This is the best advice in the entire thread and OP didn't even respond to it. It's not about the young women, it's about something deeper that should be rectified before you hurt your wife and children. OP should also refrain from obsessing over this because it will only make the fixation worse
This is why you always marry a woman at least 10 years younger than you, so you avoid realizing you’re married to an old woman and spiral into a midlife crises.Single men look at OP and use it as a dire lesson for when you’re picking a partner
>>34071374When the fuck was "I wanna feel young again" a bad thing? I agree that chasing ass to fill a void is bad but how the fuck am I a demon because I want to relive the same sex energy and youth that I experienced at 19? Cmon now. There are ppl who literally buy sport cards and tattoos because they want to relive their youth for a small period but somehow I'm worse cause I would fuck a 18yr old?
>>34055388>Meanwhile for women sex is a bonding act. If she goes out and takes Chad's cock, it's fucking over for the relationship.Wrong. Women had 2 separate goals: get chad cock and get a reliable provider for the chad's offspring.
>>34071374>This is the best advice in the entire threadAgreed.>>34071657>somehow I'm worse cause I would fuck a 18yr old?Wanting to feel young seems understandable. However you must measure the risk as well as the delusion involved.I went to a concert and moshed for 8 hours this summer. I kept an awareness of my surroundings and didn't go too hard or hurt myself or others. And I didn't entertain any delusions that I didn't look ridiculous.Fucking a girl in her early twenties when you're a happily married man in your forties is not something to be done without fully understanding what you're doing, why you're doing it, what all the possible and likely consequences are, and accepting all the consequences before you act deliberately and with certainty.Most cheaters don't come anywhere close to that.
