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I broke up with my ex a month ago. She was incredibly negative with life (Esteem Family Issues Wanted someone to fix her) and as an optimistic very happy person I said no when she started putting her burdens onto me bringing me down, We also were fighting constantly. She was my first real GF (5 months) and I didnt do the best at breaking up with her, Not really explaining why the best.

>this week
>fake account text me asking for closure (text like her also followed multiple friends and her account)
>She has been stalking on the socials the whole time and was spam calling me the first week
Be Honest, tell her why i broke up with her (Different values in a relationship I wanted to call her a crazy bitch) say i was glad I could finally tell her why and that I will be in her corner from a far.

>day goes past have to reiterate to her again I do not want to talk it out

Still getting texted by her for more clarification should I just ignore or continue telling her I am not interested? I made a mistake entertaining her.
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All you can do is block ands ghost, she's not your problem any more. At a certain point something she will get bored, and eventually have to move on. Women with low self esteem or the kind with very bad mental issues always try to latch on. They know you put up with their shit and they don't want to be lonely.
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>>34055483
Yeah definitely should of seen the red flags for 5 months of fighting and post fight sex it should of been so obvious the first time.
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>>34054545
Sounds like she has a cluster b disorder, and it’s specifically the rejection that’s driving her insane. Do not give in. Ignore her at all costs. Make it clear it’s completely over and unsalvageable
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>>34055789
No harm done man, not like you wasted 5 years of your life with her. 5 months is nothing, especially since it typically takes 6 months for the rose colored glasses to come off for a lot of couples.
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>>34055818
Thanks for the replies once I told her the first time my reasonings and that I appreciated her time it felt like all the regret and guilt of messing up my break up the first time was gone and I had no more worries
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All the comments here are based. Ignore, block, ghost. Not worth your time, fren



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