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>Be me
>Netflix and chill with girl
>She looks at me
>I stay focus to avoid panic and making an ass of myself
>Ignore her
>Notice she keeps looking at laughing at how retarded I am for ignoring her
>This goes on for a few minutes
>Notice in the periphery that her expression changes
>My heart races and I don't know how to save this
>I know it's over
>She gets confused and sad
>Notice a tear
>Gets up and leaves to her bedroom
>I pretend to not know what happened
>Rush to knock on the door and ask what happened
>She tells me to GTFO
>I pretend like she is overreacting like I don't know what happened
>Go to the kitchen, fidget a little, not sure what to do with my hands
>Start putting on my shoes to leave
>She comes out "you're leaving?" with tears in her eyes
>"Yeah, I don't know what happened"
>She goes "oh..." and walks to the living room to turn off the TV
>I step into the living room carefully, confused
>She tells me to go go
>I leave
>Think about it on the way home, not sure what happened
>Work close to each other
>Walk past her work trying to see her again every day
>I could text but I don't want to, it's all become gay and cringe, want to bump into her organically and continue acting confused
>No longer seeing her
>Not sure how to get over her
How the FUCK do I get over her? And is that a red flag? I mean I didn't even do anything and she flipped out
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>>34054553
>I didn't even do anything
Studiously ignoring her counts as doing something.
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>gaslighting
>feigning ignorance
>abandoning her
ARE YOU OKAY?!
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>>34054553
Damn that's sad
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>>34054553
There are sexually confident men and there are sexually insecure men. Most men are sexually insecure and worthless to a woman.
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>>34054553
Of all the sad delusions of the socially inept, the least understandable is the belief that ignoring someone is a viable way of showing interest
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>>34054553
"I'm sorry, Suzy. I wanted the afternoon to go well but I got nervous, and when I'm nervous I freeze up. Can we try again?"
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>>34054979
Fr, nigga diagnosed the problem scene by scene and still wants to play the macho douche.
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>>34054553
>Ignore her

I’m sure you’ve already realized this by now, but this is probably the worst possible thing you could have done. She invited you to an intimate experience and you ignored her. It’s basically like saying that you hate her or find her boring.

Normally, this is so obvious to most people that it’s not worth pointing out. I assume you have autism or something.



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