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Has anyone had their life ruined posting on here? Did you ever recover? If so, how?

I'm a casual middle aged oldfag. Been here forever but not much more than weird or elaborate shitposting into the void. I briefly larped as a tranny 10 years ago during the peak mainstream lgbt push. A gang of stalkers spent years trailing me through reposted images and made sure my entire town thought I was a psychotic faggot. I've lived a normal life and had no clue until I got engaged a few years ago, then I lost everything overnight.

The last few years have been like a movie. I've been observed and manipulated from afar by academics, psychologists, businesses, and LE agencies. I am completely unemployable now. People avoid me like the plague or act hostile at first meeting. I'll probably never get to touch a woman again.

What is there to do?
All I can think of is to move away, but I worry stalkers will find me through public records or some other bullshit to start the harassment again.
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Nope, I think you need to stop finding reasons to be depressed and enjoy life for what it is, rather than what you don't. Being emo and finding reasons to have this deep painful backstory you see in anime, really needs to stop. You aren't an anime character OP, you're human. Maybe you don't see it, and other users on this site won't as well. Maybe they love seeing themselves as anime characters saving someone who is lost and in need, but despite that you need to stop feeling you are lost and in need, because it'll happen again, and again, and again feeding it until you get so depressed you are suicidal.

Here is something I'll say apart from the people here calling me an asshole, how would your mother, or someone who loves you, want you to feel despite this Hell you are in? Happy or sad?
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Other way around for me. I took advice from my father not realizing he's a spoiled dipshit boomer with a HUUUGE ego.
When I took his advice my life was a complete fucking mess.

Now I talk to him maybe once a month and I'm seriously considering making that once a year or not at all. I'd probably be better off fiscally and would defiantly retained more friendships if I hadn't listened to that self centered fuck.

Advice online however is useful at least 50% of time even if its just on buying something for example.
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>>34054998
>What is there to do?
Not to post here, or anywhere similar ever again
>>34055179
you failed yourself, retard. You can't blame your dad, it's you who didn't second guess it in the first place. You can blame parents when they directly abuse you, or forced you to do stuff.
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>>34054998
>Has anyone had their life ruined posting on here?
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>>34054998
What happened? *laughs nervously*
Like, how Exactly did this crossover into your irl?
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>>34054998
>I'm a casual middle aged oldfag.
casual what? how?
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>>34054998
> trailing me through reposted images
I don’t see how that’s possible unless you posted the images from your own phone or device.
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>>34056262
I meant they trailed my post history over time, not location.
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>>34054998
Nobody cares about any of that. Your story is not true. We already all know that we are governed by troons and fedos and do fuckall about it.
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99% of the people here are horrible people. You'll just feel worse coming here



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