How do I stop being a cuck and projecting it into my relationship?>be me>addicted to cuck porn>low self-esteem>somehow get into a relationship with someone I love>keep jerking off>feel somehow I'm the second choice after some guy better than me>feel my partner decided to downgrade>self-degrading thoughts spiced with my cuck porn addiction>know I'm loved but still can't shake those feelings awayShould I seek professional help?
>>34055864Are you sure you are projecting it? Maybe you are the second choice after some guy? A lot of woman get man like you for various reasons, to extract the last value from her clapped cheeks, at your expence of course.The residual feelings youre left with are valid. Maybe youre not the problem. Shes trying to hide that youre not good enough for her, masks it with fake love. Trust your gut. Love is not supposed to feel like this. You resort to cuck porn to cope with this situation.
>>34056044you are evil
>>34056281Youre not special
have you taken your girl around muscle Chads or Tyrone? do you have public proof under pressure she really thinks you're the best choice? you really should verify that before coming to any conclusions
did similiar happened to you in your life once? example, your friend choose someone other instead of youIf not, or you dont remember, than you re projecting it. You have one life before reborn (humans call it death) so fuck her without thinking about it. She choose you, not the one you fear about
>>34056044This. Statistically speaking a woman has a lot more options than a man for a relationship and if you didn't meet at a very young age then she probably got fucked by a guy that was better looking than you and/or had a bigger dick than you.
>>34056360>do you have public proof under pressure she really thinks you're the best choice?No.>did similiar happened to you in your life once?Yeah, it's always been that way for me as far as I can remember.
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>>34057828Trauma.If it has happened many times, then you are mentally capable of setting up defense mechanisms even in a relationship where you can see that you are a cuckold.First, remember:-it's not certain that you'll stay together forever-no, it's not certain that she's cheating on you-she may be cheating on you, but you don't know about it YET... so what?She may be thinking about another man, she may not, the point is that you are in the picture. You fuck the woman, you hold her hand, she is in your lap and not in another man's. You project this onto your relationship because you are with someone of the opposite sex and you are straight, so your instincts react more strongly. Don't worry. I'm not a psychologist, but it's good that you recognize this. Literally, you have nothing to worry about. If you don't want to be a cuck, then congratulations, you're not one anymore. Cucks are literally consenting to it, and the mere assumption that you don't want to be one simply shows that you're not.
