It was a chill session with friends but I drank way too much and ruined my life. I ended up at 2am alone with one of my best friends in the living room and I tried to make a pass at her. When she got up and tried to walk away I grabbed at her waist, pulled her towards me and started dry humping. Then I let her go. After that, I blacked out and I think I passed out on the couch.The next day i had to be reminded of what happened. My friend told me she wouldn't press charges, but she never wants to speak to me again and that i am dead to her. I was in floods of tears begging for forgiveness, but she wouldn't listen. Every other friend has blocked me and refuses to speak to me anymore too. I've never felt so suicidal in my life and don't know how to move on from this. It's been 3 days and everybody is still refusing all contact with me
go see a therapist and also signal that you are doing so to the group
>>34056126First, you go and make new friends. Second, and most importantly, you give up alcohol so this doesn't happen again
Let it be. Shit happened, and you need to let it be that way. You can reach out in a week or so, expressing your apologies again, but leave it at that, no more. Seek forgiveness in yourself, and tell yourself to never do it again.
>>34056126They sound like PC faggots, ditch them
You were a bitch for getting that drunk, she was a bitch for cutting you out like that, the other guys were bitches for going with herStop drinking and find better friends
she wasn't your friendbefore anything else you need to get that under control. as long as you're not capable of sensing who is really your friend or who is really attracted to you, you will be vulnerable to making huge mistakes
>>34056126>When she got up and tried to walk away I grabbed at her waist, pulled her towards me and started dry humping.Trying to kiss her was fine. This is not. This is literal attempted rape. You should be locked up behind bars and if you ever get out, should be prevented from ever interacting with women or drinking alcohol ever again. You cannot control yourself and if you don't face severe consequences, you're going to do something evil to an innocent woman one day.
>>34056126kill yourself
>>34057392Okay not as severe as what this poster here is suggesting, but I think you need help OP. What you did is not okay. I don't think you should necessarily expect forgiveness in this case, people have cut others off for far less. What you can do is focus on making sure you never repeat what you did, and being a better person going forward. Consider getting into therapy. And yes, if you can't control yourself when intoxicated you should give it up fully. Good luck, OP.
>>34056126>I ended up at 2am alone with one of my best friends in the living room and I tried to make a pass at her. When she got up and tried to walk away I grabbed at her waist, pulled her towards me and started dry humping.
>>34056126I’m calling the cops..
>>34056126I obviously don't know you or your situation fully or your demeanor or how close you are with those friends, so I'm only judging based on what you told me and what I think personally about these things:Sexual joke turned physical - not good. Divorce the alcohol. Girl being offended - deserved, but it doesn't mean you now grovel at their feet. You admit that alcohol got to you and that you drank to the point of blacking out, you tell your friends ONE TIME that you're sorry for your actions and ashamed and that you're going to take actions to control how much you drink in the future.Three - I don't know how close you were with those people, sometimes people don't jive and they're just looking for a reason, just any fucking reason for pushing you away, forever.Other times people won't let you go. They'll fight to stay your friend and make excuses for you and argue in your favor to try and meditate the situation to make it work. She sounds like she's ready to bail. If the other friends are doing the same then you don't reach out anymore after your apology. Don't even leave the door open to reconnecting in the future. It's very telling how much people liked you once a time of crisis comes. If they don't sit you down for a serious talk and try to resolve the situation - then I can promise you your relations won't ever get better. Even if they hit you up in the future it won't be the same, and it would have been after a LOT of clit sucking and side switching on all of their sides. Never settle for people who don't absolutely love you because those people don't have your best interest in mind. Good luck brother
>>34056126It’s okay.you were drunk. It will blow over.
>>34056126Just laugh it off and call her a crazy stuck up bitchEverything else is cuck behaviour
>>34056126you will get over it.been there, done that.just stop talking to those people and make new friends.mistakes happen, you were drunk after all.time will heal.
>>34059264>>34059295>>34059500Crazy that you guys are literally excusing violent sexual assault. OP is a monster and should be kept away from women for a long long time.
>>34060263Yeah, it's kinda fucked people are just brushing this off. OP needs to get into therapy and take steps to make sure this will never happen again. He certainly shouldn't drink booze. Given he seems remorseful I'd stop short of calling him a monster though.
>>34056126I assume you're all young and belong in a cancel prone circlewe did regrettable stuff when we were young but as long as we were unbelievably drunk it was all forgivenget better friends bro, it's not the end of the worldbut let this experience teach you to learn to control your alcohol intakeI hate the person I become when I'm too drunk so I avoid going overboard at all costs.
>>34060263trolling used to mean something
Das sucs
You did nothing wrong op. She needed to know her place and her role. Dump those pozed cunts.
>>34060263Delt with this shit before more than enough times. Literally just being confident and not giving a shit will get him back in the group. The fact she didn't even press charges is proof enough. Women like men who take charge.
>>34056126The first thing you need to do is to give up alcohol completely and forever. From now on, every time you drink, you are risking that happening again.The second thing you need to do is try and create a few friend group from scratch. You are very lucky the girl didn't press charges; you have no chance AT ALL of ever getting back into that group again.
>>34056395This, I groped a friend once while drunk. Realized that I fucked and now she probably feels uncomfortable around so I just cut the friendship, regardless of how she feels, I know I fucked up and it probably soured whatever platonic relationship we had. I just know now to not do it again or atleast with a woman whose not interested
>>34060263Oh cry fucking harder. Bitches take everything to the extreme. The guy didn't pin her down and raped her, yes he was a creep but that's when you just no longer associate with them. Stop acting like every unwanted action is the same as a man trafficking you or raping you on the daily. I've been groped by drunk ppl before and I just don't hang around them anymore, I don't sit up wishing they'd get the Hannibal lector treatment
>>34060713Oddly enough she might even look back on this one day when her looks and sex appeal dries up. Women can bitch but there's a reason they don't forget that toxic ex
if they were so eager to kick you out of your life then you were probably on your way out anyways>>34057392i don't know the first thing about alchohol because i larp as mudslime irl but he was literally blackout drunk cut him some slack for fuck's sakeeven if he tried to rape somebody he'd be easy to resist with all the booze in his system
On your dating profile put that you want to get blackout drunk and dry hump that way the next chick knows what she's getting into
>>34056320 >>34056574>>34057392>>34058960>>34060297It's not the alcohol, it's probably his porn addiction. Or whatever else is wrong with him. Alcohol will just make it come to surface.>what the fuck are these captchas holy shit
>>34058960>sometimes people don't jive and they're just looking for a reason, just any fucking reason for pushing you away, foreverThis is the realest advice in the thread, if they wanted to stay they would have sat you down and had a conversation on where things have to go; therapy, apology, etc. If they just drop you and never talk to you again, you know they'll flake when shit hits the fan.I had to do this with a friend when his alcoholism was getting out of control, making a fool of himself when we tried hanging out with people outside of our circle, even passing out and pissing himself (luckily only the closest friends found out and we kept it a secret). He had a good cry, told us about his problems, and got his shit together. He drinks socially but is always the soberest guy in the room when we're all drinking now.>Girl being offended - deserved, but it doesn't mean you now grovel at their feetYep, like this dude said, apologize once and then fuck off. If they reach out, be wary, because females have too much power now and you can't undo the "assault". So stay away
>>34056126If they removed you for something stupid you did when drunk then they weren't your friends in the first place, my friends did much worse than you and we laughed about it
>>34061127Real talk. If they still consider you a friend then they would of addressed the situation and then decided on what to do in the face of your sorry or lack of. I had ppl pull this shit before, I fucked up and suddenly I'm being ignored or not invited to shit and rather than just owning up and saying "dude you're a creep and it ruins the vibe", I'm saying that I'm owed that but real friends tell you what's up before keeping or letting you go. If they just dropped you then chances are they were already tired of you and fagged their way into a reason once you groped your friend.
>>34056126Maybe this is an important lesson and a wake up call to quit drinking.
>>34061195Same, unless his dick actually came out then I dont think it matters, ive seen one of my former friends bare ass pissing in bushes but suddenly I'm a demon cause I touched her ass while drunk. Just forget these ppl, chances are they never really cared about you to begin with.
>>34061195>>34061211>True friends would let you restrain and sexually assault them while blackout drunkYou have to be 18+ to post here
>>34061223>typical buzzword response from a no argument faggot Many such cases
i hope u learn from your mistake and grow up.
>>34062164this
