I am sort of new to actually dating despite being 30. I am finding that many women want the man to choose the time and location of the date. I find this to be very stressful because I am a neuro divergent with autism. I find it stressful because the places that I find okay are probably very different from what a Neurotypical probably thinks is okay. Like I am okay with rundown looking pizzerias if they have nice pizza. I don't think most normal people are okay with that. Also, is it okay for me to pick places that are close to where I live and where I am familiar? I never know if I should go on google maps and just look for restaurants near where the woman lives or where I live. I honestly am tempted to basically give myself as many advantages as I can because she is basically forcing me to pick a time and location. So why would I try and figure out a spot to go near her if women don't want to give the input? Apparently asking the woman "Hey, where would you like to eat?" makes you seem like a bitch / wimp. Not sure how true that is. But I see it a lot in dating sites with women saying "Just tell me when and where for the date." So again, if thats the case, why wouldn't I just choose something I am already familiar with and give myself every homefield advantage? Am I missing something about dating?Also, jesus fuck these new captchas.
>>34056946Write down a list of places you would like to go and times you are available. Suggest one of these combinations: "Does 4:20 at Comet Ping Pong Pizza work for you?"You are welcome
>>34056946A first date is supposed to be casual. Go for coffee or happy hour somewhere. If you need ideas maybe just take a look around and see what places women are hanging out at.
>>34056946how the fuck is this retard getting dates? You must be ripped or something.
Woman are like boomers op. Many are retarded, reminds me of my father at parties "yap, yap yap, yap".Hence the comparison go on a date with a woman "yap, yap, yap, yap".Its all pointless information that achieves... nothing.And people wonders why I don't date with this level of rampant stupidity.
take her to sushi, bitches love sushialso the trendy places, where instagram foodies shill shitty food, they love that shit
