I had a really bad relapse on porn and I need to quit it but I'm a NEET so I'm being realstic that I can't get a girl to take care of needs so jerking off will be necesary. Will using tame stuff be better for my brain?
I only jerk off to japanese women in swimsuits and underwear, it's a whole cultural thing called Gravure you can find a general on /jp/ about it.I couldn't tell you when was the last time I went on porhub or anything, even when looking through gif for the indian/rekt threads I'm just disgusted by all the weird fetish porn.I did download some 70s French porn and erotica off of the internet archive the other day, but only because I'm a film nerd and it's something I'd rather have in case my country also goes the way of porn being illegal and needing jacking off licenses to look at ladies' boobs online.Like gif, the worst part about pornhub and any other porn website is that they just put everything and anything ont he front page so you get sucked into weird fetishes just because you see a cute girl(?) in the thumbnail
>>34056960I made a thread about this but didn't get any good advice. I'm nearly a week porn free and have successfully coomed a few times using just my imagination. I'm slowly making my fantasies less degenerate. The goal is to make it a habit of getting off to fantasies of vanilla missionary sex.I don't believe in nofap but I don't think you can ween yourself off a porn habit by just toning down what you watch. Eventually you'll just find yourself back at the weird furry shit you were addicted to before. Porn just isn't good for you.
>>34056960>>34057163neither one of you will successfully forswore porn unless you permanently quit using this God forsaken website>be me>start no porn, no fap, no 4chan streak in early June this year>mis october>open 4chan out of boredom >relapse on everything
>>34056960You’ll just be addicted to the new kinds of porn instead of being addicted to the old. You’re just trading one addiction for another.
>>34056960It won't work, since you just give your chance to regress back if you get more tempted.>>34057597What he saidIf you truly want to get over it, realise that 91% of men consume on on a daily basis, do not be like most men, be a beacon of light on which you can look upon, that doesn't back down when when times get rough and one feels the urge to relieve themselves like a sexual degenerate
>>34057030How long did it take you to get to this point?
Porn is porn. Doesn't matter what it looks like
>>34056960Try using your imagination? I think about past gfs and hookups usually because fantasy isn't real enough a lot of the time.
>>34060376How? There's a difference between jacking off to voyeur pics vs watching a couch gang bang. I dont see how it's porn if it's something that can naturally happen to get you off.
>>34056960As someone who jerks off to tame shit like Victoria Secret magazines or stock images of hot chicks:The addiction is still there. The only difference is that you don’t rely on visual sexual stimula to get off, which is a massive detox, but tou’re still addicted to masturbating.
>>34061006So then there's clearly a difference. You can't tell someone with a masturbation addiction to stop porn because porn isn't the goal. It just gets annoying when ppl say they want to stop masturbating and the first answer is "quit porn!"
>>34061006>>34061010Nta, but I’m a little confused- like me for example, I’ve been masturbating and watching porn since I was like 11 or 12. So we’re talking like close to 20 years. Is there any way to retire your brain to just not crave hardcore stuff?
>>34061502For hardcore stuff, just stop watching. Your brain will reset on its own. For masturbation in general? I'm not too sure cause I still jack off, just not always to porn
>>34061706>just stop watchingBased. I’ll try to move away from it.
>>34061725Yeah for me, I quit the hardcore stuff because I damn near gave myself ED with a chick one time. If I do watch porn, it's mostly either vanilla shit or its solo stuff like voyeur or a chick jilling in her car or something