What can I do if I'm absolutely obsessed with sex/romance? it's not that I'm simply sad, I have literally 0 motivation to do anything. Every time I meet with my friends I feel worse because they're with their gfs. I'm currently a NEET because I don't have any motivation to find a job either, I even left uni because of this.When I had a gf I was happy, I was motivated, I didn't feel miserable 24/7. I workout everyday, I eat healthy, I even got on meds, and I felt better for a while but now I feel like shit again. My therapist said that I have to work on my self-esteem and told me to meet more people if I want to get a gf but I feel repulsive. All I think about all day is no gf, in fact I can't even see women as human, they're divine beings or gods to me.
>>34056976>obsessed with sex/romance>0 motivation to get out and get itthat's not much of an obsession
>>34056976You’ll have a much better job finding a gf if you hit your young adult milestones (uni/1st job). Even if you don’t give a shit about the degree in itself, recognize improving your status improves your desirability. Basically, tie things you think you should be doing with your life around the goal of eventually getting laid, no matter how far removed the task may be from actually having sex. I was in a similar situation to you last year. I have a gf now. Good luck!
>>34056992I've spent an insane amount of hours on dating apps, trying to optimize them, researching about strategies to get more matches, I even generated hundreds of AI pics of myself because I don't go outside often so I barely have pics of myself.
>>34057011I already own a house for myself because my family is rich and they want to kick me out soon so I can live there. But it doesn't matter anyways because when I'm outside (which is pretty much every day) no woman even looks at me
>>34057018Having your own place is good, but you’ll need something else to occupy your time. It takes a very particular type of woman who would be into someone who is a NEET. Having more places to go will also expose you to more people. Plenty of relationships grow out of uni or jobs. You should also find a third-space to hang out in depending on if one is close to you.
>>34057014>I don't go outside often>>34057018>cause when I'm outside (which is pretty much every day)?
>>34057050with my friends, I mean>>34057036I keep thinking that they prefer a 5'7 fat bastard over me, simply because it's me and I have some sort of curse that makes me unlovable
