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I'm depressed because I've never had a threesome.

I'm not even a virgin. I'm old. I've had multiple relationships. Got as far as cohabitation and almost got married to one. But whenever I told my GF(s) that my fantasy was to have a threesome they'd always flat out refuse saying they're 100% straight or simply told me that was something they did when they were younger and wild and that they're in a different stage of life now.

I get it and I can't force someone to want to have a threesome with me. I can't pressure them into one either, I never asked a second time after being rejected. But it still sucks. I'd have no problems trying to fulfill my GF's sexual fantasies. If they had asked me to do stuff to them that I don't normally do i would have done it, because I just wanted to make them happy. But they don't want to fulfill their sexual fantasies with me. At the end of the day they just don't see me as a object of desire. I'm not a part of their fantasies. I'm just the guy who pays rent and takes care of the bills.

That's all I am. I have to accept that's who I am, the safe choice, the stable choice. Not the guy they want to have sex with. Because I'm not tall/handsome enough.

But I don't want to live like that. So I have to accept being alone the rest of my life.
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just buy 2 whores instead of ruining your relationships over a fetish, idiot.
I literally go to a whore so I can worship her feet because my gf mentioned that footfags give her the ick when we first started dating, so I didn't want to creep her out.
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>>34059656
But whores don't count. they won't do it out of genuine desire and horniness, they'll be doing it just to get paid.
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>>34059646
Lmao me too bud. I am seriously considering suicide
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ive met someone like this. they have asked me twice if i would. i like them though, so obviously not. like why would i want to be cucked and watch you fuck another person. people are slow as fuck sometimes, i swear
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>>34059646
Demanding a threesome is not really a reasonable relationship request
I’d go with >>34059656 sure it will set you back a bit and it’s not “genuine” but trust me you’re still gonna enjoy yourself and you won’t wreck your current relationship
>>34059722
Most women having threesome aren’t really doing it out of desire anyway. Most of them fall into two buckets
>straight couple and a lesbian who likes the girl but won’t let the guy touch her
>people living some kind of degen lifestyle like polyamory or dealing drugs as a living
You don’t want either of those dude. There’s a reason why having sex with two hot bitches that actually want you is such a fantasy. You might as well talk about finding a unicorn horn.
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>>34059646
>I'd have no problems trying to fulfill my GF's sexual fantasies.
If that involved letting an unattractive man with a massive dick fuck you in the ass, would you be up for that?
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I have never even kissed a girl in my life and im 23 years old
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>>34059646
>So I have to accept being alone the rest of my life.
Good. Excellent decision.



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