>pic slightly relatedWhy are men so scared to roleplay or act for their gf? Girls will do the whole dress up in lingerie or a nurse costume, schoolgirl, whatever the fuck, and larp for their bfs, but the second a girl says "ooo pretend to be a sexy serial killer and totes dominate me ;))" it's weird and he won't do it. It's just a fun costume and makes sex a little spicier. Are men just insecure, or do they specifically dislike it when their gf actually has fun during sex?
>>34060061I think it has to be the serial killer thing. I would feel uncomfortable pretending to be some violent murder. It isn't the roleplay, I'm just not comfortable with CNC
>>34060093And that's kinda my point. It's my understanding that most men with intact testes have fantasies of violence, power, domination, etc. But the ones that don't still somehow end up with the most traumatized, kinkiest women, and then act surprised when she wants to do freaky shit. Why? It's just like acting in a movie together. You both have fun playing a character and then cuddle after.Or, worse yet, they do the freaky shit without any planning, aftercare, safeword, etc. and somehow manage to further upset the already-raped woman.Not to get radfem but I seriously think men are severely emotionally retarded, and that's sort of what I'm trying to get answers to.
>>34060061Look if men had sexy costumes too we'd wear em but we simply don't.Surely you realize dressing as a sexy nurse or schoolgirl or whatever is a lot more simple and superficial than having to act out your weird rapist murder fantasies, no? Lucky for you I'm into that shit gimme a call sometime bby ;)
>>34060161Ugh.
>>34060061>>34060101I instantly lose all respect for a woman the moment I find out she has any kind of violent/rapey fetish. It's just total degenerate shit and should be made socially unacceptable.
>>34060268Most of us are relatively capable of keeping it to ourselves and our loving partners. You wouldn't ever know.Men with rape fetishes, on the other hand...
>>34060275Well yeah, obviously, somebody who has a fetish for being the rapist is going to be more aggressive about it than someone who wants to be the rapee.You're still contributing to the cultural normalization of rape, though, and you're degrading yourself as a human being. You should be fucking ashamed of yourself.
>>34060061If he follows through with your request it shows he's the type of non-man to get bossed around, unless you want some spineless guy to be your partner then this isn't a problem, in fact I respect him for refusing to do what you asked
>>34060283Sure, privately engaging in a fetish with someone I love and trust is actually the REAL issue causing rape, not the rapists. It's never the rapists that actually go out and commit sex crimes against unwilling people. Ever.>>34060284Duality of man. I enjoy a man who wants to dominate me, and a man who actually listens to me and wants to please me. I get maybe not wanting to pretend to be someone you're not, but so many men are "put off" by women who know what they want, and to me that signifies insecurity and weakness above all else.
You're too ugly to rape lol
>>34060353If I've learned anything about men and sex, it's that women are never too ugly, it's just that men are too insecure, weak, and probably busy raping animals
>>34060432And yet none will rape you. Says a lot, really.
>>34060432Generalisation and chery picking this filth shows you are weak and pathetic excuse of a human. You are a shame to real woman and man and for society as a whole.
>>34060457Who said none? I was talking about my past relationships lol. I found a lovely husband to do freak shit with
>>34060485you are a tranny.
