I have a situation at work that I was hoping someone could help me with. As I'm not sure the people in my personal life would give me the advice I need.> started new job 6 months ago> Girl I work with who has been a long-term employee starts signalling her interest in me. She even told me straight up that said she would let me take her out if I asked> wasn't particularly interested at the time as I was seeing other people> Have since grown to become attracted to and infatuated by this girl. Ended things with the girls I was dating a month or so ago and have been pondering whether or not to ask her out on a date> take a week off and go out of town> return to be told by my colleagues that a huge in-team drama has taken place: a couple on our team have split up because the girl had read the guy's texts and discovered flirty/horny messages between him and the girl that I wanted to ask out> now realising that the girl and the guy have probably had a will they/wont they thing for a while as they're already close and all three of them have been a part of the team for 2+ years. He's now single all of a sudden, and nothing is stopping them from fucking if they both genuinely liked eachotherWhat’s the best thing for me to do in this situation? I’m pretty upset because I did start developing feelings for this girl, but I’m also relieved because I’ve saved myself the potential embarrassment of asking her out and then finding out she’s been texting this guy. I still think she likes me but now I’m confused
>>34060177What type of flirty/horny messages were they sending eachother? Was it explicit? Was the guy who initiated It or the girl? Was guy who recently broke up with her girlfriend acting guilty about what happened (as if he cheated)? What does the girl think about what happened (guilty for having broken a relationship of a "happy couple")?
