>Be me>Somali-American>Graduating high school this year, already 18>Parents want me to marry my whore cousin who had a kid with a white guy to "Keep her out of more trouble">if I don't ill probably be disowned do I just join the army or something? I can speak both Somali and English so I might have an advantage there. that's the only thing I can think of because the only skill I really have is being in mediocre shape
if you truly think they'll disown you and you'll have nowhere else to live then yes, the military is a good path.
>>34060852Am i gonna get ass raped in the army if I look like Yakub?
>>34060827If you have nothing to your name you know what? Marry her. Just do it.This way you have a shared income and you can focus alot more on yourself. Once you are ready for your next step just divorce her. Or the Army. Starting at 0 can throw you years behind worst case!
>>34060827Simple, KYS
>>34060827YES just join the army. why would you marry your cousin. get out of that shit tier situation
>>34060827Can't believe you people actually exist, my advice to you as someone who has left his tribe, is to stick with your tribe.Usually I hate Muslims who stay in their own little circles, absolute disgusting filth, but honestly you have no chance of integrating outside of these circles, so yes marry your whore cousin and make sure you're a good person who treats others well. Beyond that - your marriage is not a death sentence and you can always find other blackies.Good luck man
>>34066147this is terrible advice he's an american citizen. why would you not want him to integrate. joining the army (well actually navy, not army) is the single best option for someone in his situation
>>34066204I didn't say anything about the army, that's out of my scope. Just the fact that he should participate in the culture of his family because the alternative of being a lonely negro will put a burden on both OP and on society
>>34066237ah I see, my mistake >my advice to you as someone who has left his tribewhat tribe are you from anon? are you also african?In general I would disagree. In the USA there are plenty of opportunities, the military being just one of several good choices. The entire reason OP's family came here is so he could leave the culture of his home country behind. OP has an obligation to do this. To leave his family, succeed in the world, and, if he wants, to return and help his parents in their twilight years.
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>>34066240No I come from a non religious Israeli family originally, we aren't at all, not even 1/10th as intense of a community as somalis are, they will literally disown him. But still we are casual about the religion, more in a culture context than a real one. I left for the Netherlands 5 years ago for a bitch who cheated on me, and now I'm still here, alone. This is my culture and my people by all means, central European values placing importance on high trust, accountability, good healthcare and education and respecting each other and each other's personal space have always been important to me. Being an egalitarian flat society has also been important to me and that's literally what the Netherlands is about - no one will wear a face of being better than you just because of a position. I would never go back to Israel because I hated how stressed everyone were, and poor.All of this being said, I see the value in having your tribe. And while my family has all stayed in that shit hole, OP's family actually moved with him. And there are huge communities of somalis over there in America, everyone is looking for their tribe as Americans, and OP would literally be disowned I don't think you understand just how intense those cultures are. It's ride or die. We cannot expect him to dig up his entire life and social structure, that's unfair to any human. And it's not mutually exclusive with going to the army or integrating as an American citizen. He can be married to his cousin and be a soldier and a tax paying American citizen without having to completely turn on his roots. It's a vicious culture, but it's also his culture. We can't advise a person into being culturally homeless.UNLESS he's Muslim. But I'm pretty sure in the Somali culture it's less about religion and more about tribalism And before you call me an armchair doctor - Israel is full of somalis, Eritreans, Ethiopians, Bedouins, Arabs, and Muslims. I'm very tapped in with the cultures, unfortunately
