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Im 19, in college. I've never had a job and failed every class first semester. I've never thought of myself as autistic until recently. I have a bad problem of oversharing. I dont want to live off handouts all the rest of my life but I also am scared of the future and that I won't be able to fit in.
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>>34061683
>I've never had a job
you can change that, lazy ass.
>failed every class first semester
this is you being retarded and wasting money, effort and time. That's your own damn fault.
>myself as autistic
>have a bad problem of oversharing
>am scared of the future
nah, youre not a victim- you're just a gigantic pussy. Bitchnigga. Too afraid to commit to anything so you end up losing everything. You have the chance RIGHT NOW to shape your life how you want- and all you're doing is sulking about how you might not make it? You haven't even tried to live a life you want. You're supposed to figure out what you want and do everything in your strength to reach that and make it happen for yourself. You thought your family or other people will help you achieve that? FUCK NO
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19. Don't panic, if your 25 or 30 in that situation that's when you panic.
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Don't feel pressured to go to college if you're not ready. It's a big investment, and you're still really young. Maybe work some jobs for a few years until you figure out what type of career you'd like to pursue.
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>>34061683
There is time to quit being a fag.
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I guess I should also preface i have adhd depression and anxiety as well
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>>34062595
All fake. Grow up
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What should I spend my free time doing?
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>19
You have plenty of time, but stop sounding like a sourpuss and do something. I'm not going to pretend the job market is easy, but you should seek out a job and study harder.
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I've been feeling generous lately. Should I get a bunch of garbage in my room and do a drive-by toy for tots like toy drive? I wanted to go back to my roots which is the hood and throw a bunch of my wrapped up shit onto negros front lawns without hitting their cars in the dead of night.
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>>34061683
I'm maximally monkmaxxed
>>34062735
Just learn 1000 languages and meditate bro
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Wtf, that ain't me
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Don’t be scared of that
Be scared of the fact that governments are leaning towards taking away your Bennies at best now, and at worst will put you on “a farm” (camp)
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>>34061683
>I've never thought of myself as autistic until recently.
If you haven't been diagnosed by an actual doctor you're not autistic and are just pretending to be disabled because you want to be special, don't do that shit.
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>>34061683
This is exactly me..except I do have a job, also im planning on just saving up money and moving to Taiwan or some shit I do not know what else to do
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I've had the diagnosis for years, but only come to realize just how different I am and how it affects me
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>>34061924
hmm this is a humming theme round here
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>>34063746
and by the way, if your school allows it, please try to retake all the classes you failed, it can fix your GPA significantly and that is what I have been working on right now, about the fitting in thing, there is more people like you than you know, try to join clubs in your college, you will find jobs through people that way too, you will be ok hope this helped
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>>34061931
OP, please listen to this guy. Get your act together right now. There is time for you, but you need to move fast. I wish somebody had told me this or even forced me to do it when I was younger.



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