>>34062429
Unless the guys were local, I'd just drop it. In fact, I'd drop it anyway. What you did before you met him isn't pertinent.

>>34062429
>I told him i kissed a couple of girls
Why in hell even tell him that but to throw him off suspecting you of anything with a man?
No guy should be concerned by you talking to a man but that isn't what you were doing. Sending nudes is on another level. You must know once sent your nudes could be viewed by 10s of thousands of men. Men share.

Anyway the your naked body is out there and you cannot undo that but do NOT tell this sweet bf unless you want to see a monster. If indeed he is sweet its remotely possible but highly improbable he will ever see you splayed for other men.

>>34062429
It was before you knew him, it's fair play. You could tell him anyways just to set your mind at rest. I seriously doubt he'll care.

>>34062429
There is nothing to gain from telling him except soothing your own shame about it. Best case scenario: He doesn’t care. Worst case scenario: He feels momentary unease or retroactive jealousy over it.

Either one nothing is actually helpful for him, only yourself. If you really must tell someone about it, talk to a female peer or one of your parents or a therapist if its eating at you so much. No need to let it affect your current relationship

What makes a lesbian want to mind fuck a nice guy?

>>34062463
>You could tell him anyways just to set your mind at rest.
If you do, just admit you were young and stupid, and now you're glad to be with someone smart and mature.

not worth mentioning / not worth hiding either

>>34062488
>i was wild with other people in the past
>but now that I'm with you I'll never be wild again
>I won't cater to your sexuality or fantasies
>because you're a great, mature guy
You are a demon

>>34062501
Who told you that? I will try anything my bf wants to try because i havent tried anything in real life with anyone either. Not every woman is the demon you make them out to be in your head

>>34062520
I was responding to another anon, not you OP. See the tagged comment?

But since I have you here: yes, tell him. It will likely suck, but truth is better than lies.

>>34062528
Mb gang

Dont tell him without a reason. I would be a bit desperate if my gf suddenly want to tell something about her past.
BUT, if he asking about it, dont lie, tell him.
Its only his decision upwards.

>>34062528
>The truth is better than lies
Not OP but if OP chose not to share details of sending nudes to people, that isn't lying. That's called privacy and having boundaries.

If you choose not to tell someone something that isn't a lie. Telling a lie is when someone asks you specifically for the truth of something and you deliberately tell them something false.

Example:
>Did you steal the money from the purse?
>(You did)
>You say: "No I did not."

That's a lie.

Now compare to a situation similar to OP
>You date someone
>They don't ask if you ever stole money
>You decide to never tell them about the time you stole money

That's not a lie.

>>34062429
How lewd where the nudes you sent? Just tits? Full frontal? Spread holes? Actively masturbating? Face visible in any, or just body?

>>34062549
Dis nigga has no concept of lies by omission. Dis nigga brown gang, frfr, no cap ong

>>34062557
A lie by omission is if he asks for a recounting of every interaction she ever had with a man not him and she leaves this out.

>>34062429
I feel sorry for the guy.
I bet your relationship is so perfect your woman genes to cause drama out of nowhere acted up because you are so fucking bored.

The best you can do is tell your boyfriend you did send nudes (since you can not control this desire), but assure him that you are ready to send nudes to him at any time when he feels sad or horny or whenever he feels like it.

This way he will not feel cucked or that he is in the exact scenario described here >>34062501

>>34062565
>have STD
>never tell partner
>I did nothing wrong!

>>34062557
>Lie by omission
Nonsense. And if you genuinely believe it's lying by omission, good luck with that. It means every person you ever meet you have lied to by refusing to constantly admit to every wrongdoing you ever done.

Lying by omission is a real thing but not in the context you are trying to apply it. Lying by omission only exists when you know you are currently in the process of doing wrong and the other party is trying to find the truth and you keep your mouth shut to save yourself. Unless OP is currently still sending nudes to randoms then it's a lie by omission. But if she's not doing that and intends to never do it again, that's not a lie by omission that's called moving past your own failures.

>>34062570
I dont want to cause drama, i just want to do the right thing. I dont know if its staying silent or telling him when he hasnt asked. Why do you feel sad for the guy? Because im not 100% pure sexually?

>>34062571
How does OP get an STD posting nudes?

>>34062585
>Why do you feel sad for the guy? Because im not 100% pure sexually?
No, because telling about your nudes serves 0 positive purpose for the guy or even yourself.

I am not a saint either - I fucked ladyboys in Thailand and masturbate to furry porn.
You think I ever tell this shit to my previous, current, or future partners, maybe wife, my family members?

No, it would serve 0 benefit to tell anyone that. The secret dies with me, because there is no point to tell that to anyone.

>>34062642
>lies by omission
>turns our one or more of the guys posted her nudes online
>one day one of her bf's coworkers shows him nudes
>"hey bro, isn't this your girl?"
>laughingstock of the job
>coworkers all share the nudes
>bf is humiliated
>bf kills himself over the immense degradation
>OP never gave him a chance to weigh this option or prepare himself
You brown people really do struggle with the slightest abstract reasoning if you thought that I was saying sending nudes gave OP an STD instead of illustrating why your retarded smelly brown person cope is retarded.

>>34062867
>bf mills himself over the immense degradation

Any man who kills themselves over that has got more problems than their gf having nudes, way more problems. If all it took was a naked image of a GF to end your life then that's fucking weak. I'm not suggesting you feel fine about it, but killing yourself over it? Give me a break

>>34062908
Post your gf's nudes rn then.

>>34062429
it think it is not too important.
if you set the setting to casual, it might end up neutral. but still... there is some risk.
as long as you did not, and indeed not(!) have previous relationships with other men, i would not consider it too bad.
men care more for the physical, not too much for the metaphysical. for the fantasies. i know... fantasies can feel very real. but they are not.

so... no need to tell him. and if you tell him, don't make it out to be a big thing.
in fact... just forget it actively.

>>34062429
hes probably furiously jerked his dick to anal nigger gang bang porn for hours to orgasm and youre asking if its bad if you send nudes?

>>34062429
My gf told me about her past in detail even though I never asked to know and now it all lives rent free in my head. I know the places she's done it at with ONS and I feel anger just walking past them.
Never tell him, dumbass.
The only exception is if he asks you. Then he can only blame himself if he gets mad.

>>34064393
imagine being a cuck like yourself though who would prefer being lied to and living in denial lmao, your gf truly is still more based than you, cuckincel, only reason in fact you stayed with her after she told you that is bc you fear your lonesome incel existence even more kekkk

>>34063891
Roast beef flesh curtains typed this post

>>34062438
What she did before she met him is extremely pertinent though.

>>34062429
If he asks, tell him. Otherwise don't.