ok im in a bit of a pickle right now cause i started uni and there's this guy in my class who's an absolute loser. like nothing extraordinary at all besides lecture knowledge and long brown hair. i like dudes with long hair. i find myself wanting to be close to him or wondering if he finds me cool and stuff like that. sometimes i wonder what it would be like to be closer to him. i can't tell if this is High School Crush or Some Loser I Deem Cool And I Wanna Be Friends With. i don't want it to be the first one because ive been in a relationship for 1+ years but it's not like i can really do much about those feelings i guess. i would never trade my boyfriend for this guy because I know that even if i do cross the line and feel ""romantic"" towards this guy it's just some sort of fascination with a new thing and it cannot replace my current connection for which i fought for months. what do i do. am i fucked.
just enjoy the crush and keep it to yourself, you seem to know where the line is
Honestly, I believe that if you can be attracted to other people besides your boyfriend, your boyfriend simply doesn't deserve youI truly believe that when you like or love someone for real, you'll never have your eyes on anyone else but them, or even imagine anyone elseYou are not to blame; we cannot control feelings, but reflect more on your feelings
>>34063146>i like dudesFag
>>34063430how am i a faggot if i have a pussy
>>34063405i am trying to reflect on them but i honestly have no clue where they're coming from expect the fact that this guy it is the emblem than what i wish i had when i was in high school or something like that. i liked loser pathetic virgin dudes that would whimper if you even slightly palmed their dick. i love my boyfriend very much even though he's not the type of person i described but it's not like i care. it's just the first time ive started seeing someone as attractive ever since ive been in a relationship so i dunno
