is it true that if i use the internet as a source of meeting women the quality will be very low? I've heard that from others and desu my only two relationships I've had with women, i met them only and they were pretty terrible women while two girls i fucked who i first came into contact with irl were actually pretty decent.that really sucks if that's the case because I'm terminally online and feel comfier texting
>>34063172i met them online* not "only"
>>34063172the short answer is "it depends"i think you just get different types of women that primarily meet you from online interactions. could be better, could be worse, etc. i think its a bit limiting for people who meet online/through apps because you can only see a limited side of people, generally only what they want you to see. so if you don't look good in pictures it can be harder, but if you are good looking with a shit personality, online masks that. meeting people irl is going to give you a much more authentic experience to judge on someone. i also am sort of under the belief that using online as primary source of relationship engagement is a bit of a cope for people that cant pull it off irl. if youre meeting and sleeping with women you meet irl i think you should keep moving in that direction.
>>34063190pretty spot on answer i think. i mean i can do it irl but some social cues go over my head and it gets awkward for me. gotta work on that
>>34063200>gotta work on thatthe good news is it just takes practice with being around people i think. dates are great practice but also just being around others guys and girls in settings and watching what they do and how they speak is pretty insightful. if you wanna get better fast, best way is to really internalize "active listening" and question yourself on why people do what they do when you watch them in real time. its a skill that some people may be better at than others, but its one that can easily be developed as no one afaik can be an active listener for more than short periods of time unless they're well practiced.
>>34063217yeah true. i used to have crazy social anxiety and 0 social awareness like 10 years ago but forcing myself to be with people (exposure therapy) has helped me a bunch. the grind never stops
>>34063172I won't read basement-dwelling, perpetually-online, subhuman moron who wants real world experiences threads. Delusional.
