My wife just left me and even though I'm not going to worry about it just yet, I've been thinking about the future. I'm pretty sure I'm totally fucked. I'm not ugly, but I'm in my early 30s and even if I get back into really good shape... how do adults in the USA meet each other and how am I going to find a woman that isn't a single mom or has had miles of dick run through her? I'm not a Christian, I'm not super uptight, but I don't want to get cheated on again and I just generally disagree with hookup culture and I think fucking a bunch of people you don't know very well shows bad judgement and... is gross. Even if I knew where to find women I'd be interested in... I feel like I'm old now. I feel like once you're 30-something you're just severely limited in your options and now I'm not going to be able to have kids. If anybody can't assuage my concerns, can somebody tell me anything to make me feel like my life isn't just totally ruined and doomed to isolation?
go to the library and join a book club or volunteer around town also take some time alone and maybe see if any terror cells are recruiting, your options are endless. relax, enjoy, have some juice
>>34063644Thanks, and I guess the library does have potential.
>>34063614It's a bit early to worry about not being able to have kids...I think you will realize that it becomes easier with women once you are 30+, given that you have a decent job. So don't despair.
>>34063614Are you some other religion? If you're atheist/agnostic/spiritual there is absolutely no reason to get married. If you're worried about getting a measly tax benefit then stop being poor>>34064607>I think you will realize that it becomes easier with women once you are 30+, given that you have a decent job. LMAO absolutely not. OP is right to be worried, dating in your thirties fucking blows and even if you're in good shape tall and have all your hair you will still creep the young girls out (at least if you're in the US or other Anglosphere. I understand continental Europe has a more enlightened take on these matters).At best like OP said you're lucky to get some hag whose ovaries are about to rot like fruit who is "finally ready for something serious." Only way to cope about it is if you've stacked bodies yourself and that doesn't sound like OP.
>>34066106Addendum: If you are the type to be into flings or short term commitments, the baby rabies-induced sex is fan-fucking-tastic. Last girl I dated was a 34 year old 5' tall Chinese spinner who would bounce and grind on it so hard my pelvis would be sore the next day. Eventually I learned something icky about her past that made me bail, she was already on thin ice for being on SSRIs and being a cat lady in her 30s, but God the sex was great while it lasted.
>>34063696Yeah for a hardcore guy. If you're a dweeb, it doesn't work. Autistic people are repellents. Worst part about autistic people and hardcore guys, is where the hardcore guy goes the momentum of the universe changes and once the autistic goes there, it changes again back to where he was, so when an autistic person goes back to where he goes, it flips again. You got to be so damn hardcore the universe agrees with you. It's the only way to get hot chicks.
>>34063614Wives don't leave men because of their looks. Work on your personality and character
>>34066255You're right, they leave because of OTHER men's looks>personality and characterBad boy Chad is a terrible human being of shitty character who drives decent people away from him but still swims in pussy somehow.
>>34064607Don't worry about having them, worry about parenting them.You can knock someone up just fine, but depending which end of your 30s you're on and how physically healthy you are, you may be dooming your kid to spending the best part of their own adulthood taking care of your elderly dumb ass instead of building a life of their own.
>>34066255>Work on your personality and characterYeah just look at the sort of men women send love letters to, like serial killers and drug dealers.You are fucking stupid if you think women like personality, they like power. It doesn't matter what your personality is.
fcking pussy
>>34067576Women care about personality. We can debate what kind of personality they're attracted to exactly. It's obviously both alpha and beta males that they like.
