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There is a girl I've been introduced to and I don't know what I'm in for. I'm kind of nervous. She is shy and weird. Before meeting her, they said she liked me a lot and talked about me all the time. I'm attractive, financially successful, objectively funny (everyone says so) and independent, so I'm a good dude objectively. She is cute, shorter than me and same culture. She reminds me of my family, and that is the red flag.

What I am afraid of is that she might be idolizing me right now and the moment reality hits, she will treat me like a bitch. If we get married, it might be too late. She is into make up and all that shit, and is very gossipy. A clinical narcissist, just like my family. I was the scapegoat in my family as you can imagine, given I'm on 4chud.

Does someone have experience with these types of broads and am I becoming a man right now or basically ruining my life for considering it? I want sex a lot. I'm an unbelievable gooner. When I imagine sex with her, all I can see is her doing what I say, it becoming stale and probably ending up in a control thing after a few weeks. She'll probably start turning down sex after a week
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>>34063781
As far as I know girls like this don't want sex. Sex is vulnerable and they don't show vulnerability. All they want to do is laugh at others and act like they are better than others. If they admit they want another person's dick, it is an admission that they need someone else and it becomes a hit on their ego.

Kind of nervous. I'm also guilt tripped into trying, I'm nervous to turn her down.
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>>34063781
>Is marriage with a legit MENA narcissist (NPD) worth it?
Worth what?
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>>34063802
Worth being your marriage
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I'm just thinking about how my mother treats my father and how loveydovey they probably started. My dad gave his all to impress my mother's family. I'm getting similar vibes, I need to impress her friends and family. She's already set an impossible standard by idolizing me. When reality hits, she will start talking badly just as she talked positively. I am too smart for these people.. But I also want to have a woman to have sex with already...
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>>34063804
How am I supposed to know what someone else's marriage is worth?
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>>34063874
I am not asking for the advice from someone who quantifies everything's worth



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