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Society says it is bad to be insecure but I am about stuff like for instance I am talking to a guy who is higher socio-economic class than me so I feel he won't like me. Is it ok for me to be honest about it with him?
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>>34063924
yes, if you can be honest with a partner might not have one in the first place
also men care way less about a womans financial status than women probably
there are plenty men who dont care at all
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>>34063942
if you cant*


to elaborate men would sooner be with a hot janitor than an ugly ceo bitch
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>>34063942
>>34063949
My thing is what if the guy (men in general)are like in response to me talking about my insecurities "you insecure and don't feel comfortable with me that means we aren't a much I am leaving"
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>>34063949
Also btw my ex left me cause he said he wanted a woman with a masters etc so you know
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>>34063963
thats only how women or retards think
a self secure being isnt intimidated by some person that he likes telling him some insecurity of his/hers
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>>34063975
maybe some men care about such status esque things too, but the thing is men that are rich, why would they care about masters? you have to be kinda low iq to care about such peasantry status dick measuring contests in the first place. no matter if youre poor or rich, but if youre rich its even more laughable

its basically the equivalent of someone who 'everyone in my family has master so you have to have one too so you fit in my family' retardism
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>>34063975
also it might ve been an excuse, you know, its harder to tell you to your face i just wanted to fuck another girl more than you sorry kek
most people just weasel around such things and say some 'society acceptible phrase'
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>>34063924
if you want to date him long-term then yes be honest
you won't be able to keep up the lie, anyways
if you look for something short-term then do not bring up or deflect
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>>34064123
never met her
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>>34063924
You can and should be honest of course but you also have to be willing to work on yourself. I knew someone who kept saying they were jealous and insecure because an ex hurt them and they had misgivings about their mom being abusive as a child but then they did literally nothing to address or fix it over a few years and just kept acting more and more insecure and jealous until I cut them off. But anyway if you're just getting to know him you could bring it up but definitely do so if it looks like he's showing real interest in you.
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>>34063924
It depends on the man



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