>be me>pick uni that's close to my home>meet some people>majority doesn't want anything to do with me/uses me/plays a fake friend>others are pretty neat and helpful, but not a lot of activity going on after uni. Not being invited etc.>can hold up conversations with women without appearing weird>while some women are really interesting, they are either a walking red flag or already taken, not even being too picky>think about moving away at some point because I don't think I'd miss those people all that muchtldr; fomo from not having a gf and a nice friend group in my 20s
>>34064021who says its gonna be different in another university?what you described probably is the experience of most avergage dudes going to uni...you can find a gf somewhere else too you arent limited to uniits difficult for dudes anyways, its just how it is
Move, everyone should get outside their comfort zone. If people treat your rj same way everywhere you go, you’ll need to change - you’re the reason why you get treated that way.
>>34064063>who says its gonna be different in another university?This. OP, if the majority of people don't like you, there's probably a pretty good reason.You should probably figure out what that is and what you can do about it.
>>34064138nah thats not what i said at all, there probably really isnt a good reason for people being egoistic and self centered, it just is how it is, unless you are rich gigachad nobody cares about you in most instances
>>34064021Yes, based. Move to a state you have never been, start a new life and blossom. Especially if you have moved on a whim before.
>>34064144>asked to do the bare minimum introspection>immediately deflects and starts the pity partyOhhh, so that's why.
>>34064138I would carefully explain with upmost seriousness and not a "it's just everybody is bad but me". It will sound a lot like it but fuck it.First of, I am interested in different media than people around me are. I've had the western media implanted in me at an early age (I'm eastern european for reference) so naturally I was more interested in american movies, music and japanese games (despite them not being western but just not from within my country). My accent is superb and I might not give all that much of a fuck to formatting this post correctly but my English really stands out from people around me.Secondly, I have nearly no things to talk about with people, they really just care about getting wasted and that's it, sometimes I'd try to fit in but honestly people just try to say "yeah" and I can't really get a good conversation going with them, I try to be chill but it doesn't work. I get spotted as "the weird one" very early on, I don't know if it's my resting bitch face or something (because it has been brought up few times and people asked if I'm upset where I'm not lol).Meanwhile other people I actually do hang out with, we can talk about just about anything because they like me for who I am and that's what I look for in people, quality over quantity.All in all I just believe that majority of people are fake and are there to just use you, happens to a lot of people. And in order to appeal to the masses you need to dumb yourself down.>34064144I am not this poster
>>34064172LMAO this is actually the average moid
>>34064172what are you even talking about im not opim the guy who made the first comment that you replied with 'this op'