Where are you supposed to meet women if not through school/work or some arrangement from a third person?>he's a guy on the look out for a gfew what a creep lol 1M+ likes
>>34064586those are the main ways. any other way relies on you having a way to interact with women, willingly or not. charity work might get you pussy. frequenting public libraries and being a performative male as well. hell, even dating apps could work for you based on appearance and how you sell yourself. I'd be weary about the type of woman you're trying to attract though, be thoughtful about it!
Live your life, and you'll find her living hers. You'll fall in love
>>34064854Shut up. That only works for chad. HTNs and subhumans have to compete.
I refuse to believe there are adults living normal healthy adult lives who aren't "meeting women" regularly. Like your ADLs required interacting with so many women, some repeatedly. This idea always just signals to me someone living at home off mom and dad and having everything taken care of for them
>>34064854My life involves sitting in my room writing and going to my job which I care about too much to lose through an HR incident
>>34064586I know this is normal for anime but DAMN that SHORT ass skirt that basically offers zero thigh coverage at all. The worst part though is I've seen women in real life dress JUST like this and then call you out for looking. Like damn bitch no one told you to wear a 5 inch skirt you did that yourself.
>>34065201what fantasyland are you living in? everything i see online and irl points to meeting women being incredibly rare. nothing i see online and irl points to it being common. what examples of regular actiivities put you in proximity with women not in a business setting?
>>34065630Socializing in person. Literally anywhere. Any group settingLibrary activity groups, social rec programs, volunteering, advocacy groups, local politics stuff, community gardens, food banks, reading clubs, curling clubs, indigenous community events. I could go on for hours. Places you meet and GASP talk to womenGetting off your ass and doing something that involves teamwork and collaboration and isnt selfish, its literally that simple
>>34065595That's just how modern women dress so might as well just get used to it. That or wait about half a century for the pendulum to swing towards more modest women's fashion but that's fucking retarded and I don't recommend it.
>>34065681i don't think it's more than a small minority of adults who engage in any of that stuff. but thanks. that is helpful
>>34064854>>34065201>>34065681teehee I'm just waiting for you to meet me
>>34065772Okay so then be one of them. What is stopping you from doing it. There must be one thing within 30 minutes of you that you can go do. So just go do it.Do you think "good women" or good people in general have the mindset of "oh its too niche" and sit at home all day. No theyre actually in those places with other people who have values passion and drive, its small for a reason, it takes actual work
>>34065681all of the things you mentioned barely exist outside of first world countries personally what ive seen the only places now outside of what OP mentioned are gyms and churches third spaces are gone in a bunch of countries there's no socializing spaces for free and all the socializing spaces theres left are hobby related
>>34065681I think the problem is, ppl who meet women aren't looking for women in general, they're actually looking for real friendship or common ground and from there they meet women that they might get with. It's harder when you consciously know you're meeting women because you want to fuck them, it throws you off cause now you're focused on landing the plane instead of enjoying a smooth flight. It's one of the reasons why I dislike going out cause I know im doing so to bring some slut home, not to actually just go out and have a good time
>>34064586Yeah those are some of only ways to meet people nowadays. Just going out with family or friends to see who they introduce you to. >>34065772>>34065900That is a big problem, but Anon’s right on the library part. You’d probably get some good girls especially at a library or a reading club. You could even go to church if you’re not religious just to see how the people are.
>>34065595She looks fine. She looks cute in that skirt.
>>34065939I dont think chicks are hanging out at the library like that anon. Going to an actual bookstore is probably better
>>34065948I feel like you still could find some good girls. Like more nerdy or innocent girls at a library. But yeah they’re probably at their house or something like that.
Places I've had success:>>>/soc/Mmorpg (ff14)Craigslist Highschool
>>34065201>living normal healthy adult liveslollmao
>>34065772>small minority of adultsThe funny thing is that it used to be the vast majority of adults did this. But then society was atomised. We've been trained to avoid other people at all cost.
>>34066057/soc/ seems suss ngl
>>34065681lmao holy shit what the actual fuck is literally any of that shitthere isnt a woman in the country under the age of 30 doing any of that shit you fucking retard
>>34065945skirts like that are great till 300 pound american women begin to think they can pull them off. heck even a healthy average weight woman while she would look good she would also look straight up whorish in a skirt like that. the only women who can pull it off in real life are women who are super skinny like the anime girl so they can look cute without looking whorish. and you might be thinking that no one would try to imitate anime fashion but you'd be wrong. i've literally seen 300 pound women go like that cute anime girl can pull it off so can i
>>34066210/soc/ is a full on lgbt board. There are no girls there, there is nothing there for straight men.
Meet her on a bus or in a store.
>>34065201Yes, I'm a professional in accounting/finance and I meet women regularly; there's nothing romantic about it. I don't try to flirt, I know some do but my reputation is worth more than some pussy which can ruin it. Actually, I don't have a girlfriend because I don't want one so I'm not sure why I'm in this thread. In an ideal world I'd like to have a hookup once a week or month, maybe with the same girl, maybe with a few different girls that I have an ongoing relationship with. But nothing more than that. However I'm aware this is a reality only hot and/or rich guys live in, not to mention charming, so I'm working up to that.In my country, Australia, the vast majority of guys find their long term girlfriend as a result of making connections through their friend group. Often meeting at a party with mutual friends is a very common way for relationships to start. Cold approaches developing into more are very rare and almost no guys do it, meaning the guys that do try do it are perceived as unstable and untrustworthy. Potential dates are always filtered through friends of friends, meaning social capital is more valuable than financial capital here.
>>34066260I wont spoil it for you but you're wrong in such a hilarious way that exposes how you never leave home and you probably have never interacted with a quality woman. Pitiful>>34065900>political stuff Anon, every third world country is making the news lately for youth driven uprisings over the last ten years. You will absolutely meet openminded women who might not think youre weird between 21-35 by being politically active I assure you, your barriers are selfinflicted
>>34064756>Being a performative maleDoe’s that actually work? All I see are memes from women making fun of them.
>>34066584You assuming it only exists in a performative state is the issue and why you get filtered when other men aren'tAlso imagine being so dumb that the library is a scary place or you dont want to be there. Like are you afraid you'll read a book accidentally? Noooo I dont want to go to the library! Should absolutely turn anyone off yeah
>>34064756What does Performative male mean exactly?
>>34064586I won't read lamers who expect friends to introduce them to women threads.
>>34065900Other than pub / club what are the paid meeting places?
>>34066579I'm in school everyday asshole.Tell me what i'm supposed to do then.
>>34066663Shit like being a male feminist or that douche who plays guitar on the campus in front of everyone. Essentially a pick me guy
>>34064586Literally by being social, doing stuff that you enjoy doing with other people. Think social hobbies. The more you do this, the more people you will be exposed to, some of them women, some of them who you have a spark with. It's happened to me a number of times.School and work are social settings. Dating at work is a bad idea, so as an adult you have to do some work to create those social settings. If you spend the majority of your time at work and at home, you will by definition not have opportunities to meet anyone. I have no experience with arranged meetups, but that sounds awful for everyone involved so I probably wouldn't.Word of caution- dating apps and social media are pseudosocial settings, basically one-way socialization that is effectively a private setting masquerading as a social one. The goal of these platforms is engagement and eyes on ads, not meaningful social connection. There is a time and a place for this, but it should not be your primary means of socialization by any stretch.
Does anybody have any experience with dancing? All of my hobbies are solitary or dude centric(guitar, gym, rugby). I like music and am absolute ass at dancing, even if I dont meet any single women at classes I feel like it would be good for shit like weddings or parties.
>>34067067Dude I know it sounds retarded but do the napoleon dynamite thing where you watch YouTube tutorials about dance moves and practice over and over again. It’s cringe as fuck if you are an outsider looking in watching yourself repeat this shit but it works.
>>34067078Hell yeah im not afraid of embarrassing myself either I do it all the time. Thinking of trying salsa dance, there are socials every friday night and a class every Sunday allegedly. Will probably try to do some YouTube lessons for a week before going to a class. Only other classes are ballroom and that's probably expensive and all slow old people.
>>34067037You wont find a woman who will find the mindset of 'I'm in school so I can't do anything else" attractive. That's like actual repellent because it shows you're either too stupid or incapable of balancing a normal schedule.How are you going to have a fulltime job and a girlfriend dumbass
>>34067345OK so then IG I'm never going to have a girlfriend. You seriously have no solution?
>>34067378Wtf do you mean. The solution is learn to balance a schedule like every other adult. What is your plan? graduate highschool and then? Will you just uber eats every meal and have a maid to wipe your ass?
>>34064586Nobody will tell us how they just call us a pedophile while they swoop in for that legal teen gf.
Modern life of jealousy is the most disheartening thing ever. There are literally so many available women. This toxic culture makes them mentally ill and unapproachable. Do you know how many miserable people that will literally sit there and ruin you reputation for an itchy foot.Now you have to deal with the lgbt calling people a pedophile because they can’t same sex them. It’s just so repugnant. Getting older will not make someone settle for what they did not want when they were younger, it only increases their hatred.
