I need some objective analysis of a possible relationship forming. I've asked some questions to AI but I need human answers. >talking for 5 months with this girl online about only one philosophical topic (it relates to a medical condition she admitted she has)>the letters have been lengthy, but we only really exchanged messages every week or two>recently she's ramped up the letters a bit>in my latest letter I mentioned a bit of loneliness and kind of floated around the idea of other topics>in her last letter, which she replied unusually quick to (same day) >stated she did so during work hours >she said found the philosophical debate a dead end and welcomed new topics >encouraged me to write more human or ordinary message at the endShe is usually very analytical, so I don't know, do you think something is forming? I did write a more informal letter back, but I don't know if by sending very quickly it may seem desperate. Keep in mind we live in different countries but are about the same age.
>>34065226The fact that you are writing letters back in forth in 2025 is honestly super cute. I would say don't overthink it. Just be yourself, and let the relationship develop as it will. Let it happen. It may develop into something more, it might stay as it is, it may die. It sounds like you both enjoy speaking with each other, so just trust the process and lead your decisions with passion and excitment instead of anxiety. Trust your intution and be honest, I don't think you have anything to worry about.
>>34065226>I don't know if by sending very quickly it may seem desperate.You are over thinking this.
all that philosophy and you still cant figure out relationships
Quick update. She responded immediately to my informal and emotional letter. She also is including a photo of some sort. The letter won't come for another day or so. >>34066053Thank you for your words of confidence. >>34066094Seems I was. >>34066101Analytical philosophy is not really great for this sort of thing :(
>>34066264idk dude. idk how to get a gf. if a girl is into you ride with it, don't let no one else stop you from confessing your feelings too or asking for what her feelings are if you want to figure things out.
>>34066280Thanks bro. Just a little tidbit but I found her through a penpal app and I've never had a gf either. I had already assumed it was over for me, but considering how this has grown, I have hope now.
